DOROTHY 01x SA vs- w“ Spoiled Children A Expert Supervisor lieeded To Regulate Breed 0f lindiseinlined Youngsters DEAR. MISS DIX: We us a well-w-do family with four chil- dren. Three boys, 10, 8 and 5 years old and a girl of 4. These young- , sters are beyond my control and I can do aibsolutely nothing with them. . They fight amongst each other. They talk back to me, and pay no attention to anything I say to them. Whipping does no good and I am becoming a nervous wreck. - My children are good-looking and healthy and L, appear to be noral, 'but they are such little hellions ' ' ' they are making my life unbearable. What is your advice? A MOTHER IN DISTRESS ANSWER: Any woman who admits that chil- should ask herself whether she has used any sys- tem or intelligence or firmness in rearing them. It ;i i the time they were born. You have never them to respect laws, and that is the reason that they defy you and , behave like little savages. . The best thing that you can do now is to get a woman who is s ' trained nurse for children to come and take charge of them for a couple o.‘ months. Turn them over to her completely and she will give them the discipline that you have been too weak to give them, and that i they will take from her without question because she is a stranger. And don't interfere with her methods in any respect. Don't let the children appeal to you. ABSENCE HELPFUL '- It would be a fine thing for you to go away from home while this reformation is in progress. But if you can't do that, at least give the woman a free hand. And don't undo her work as soon as it is done. f. DEAR MISS DIX: I am madly in love with my employer, who is twice my age. His wife went out of town for several months and during her absence we had some beautiful times. Now she has re- turned and he wants me to drop out of the picture, but the trouble is I am crazily in love with him and I feel th‘at I Just can't give him up. What would you advice mo to do? l. ‘,1 >. DISTZRAUITED GIRL ANSWER: I should not only advise you to drop out of the pic- ture, but to take the lesson it teaches you to heart and henceforth to avoid figuring in any more such amorous affairs. For can't you see in what an unenviable position it puts you when you are cast aside like a toy of which he is tired? ried lover aused hlniself with you while his wife was away and now that she has returned he wants to get rid of you. And it is nothing 1‘ -. to him that he has won your love and that he leaves you with a hurt l, '. 1 heart and a damaged reputation. _ ' Of course, there is nothing you can do about it. When s man f shows a woman the door, all she can do is to make as good an exit l as she can. For a girl to have an affair with a. married man is always playing with fire and nearly always she gets burned, which is per- haps no more than she deserves, but she suffers all the same. So in the future avoid the married phllanderer as you would a serpent. _ DEAR. MISS DIX: Is it right to share your griefs and troubles »i yirlth your friends? I have tried so hard to keep my sorrow to! my- self, but it seems I cannot any longer. I have always hated to bur- den my friends with my worries, but If I could just talk s. little about them I know it would help me. ' UNI-IAPPY WOMAN. Iccntinucd on Page 3) ; lmoolls In-"I cover my face generously with the rich super- . creamy lather and yorkitingently..." low n met-l’ rinse with " warm water, splash on Oddiu-[Y A “ um- mall's. r 331110? ‘OSEIQQII Siurs hon as young as yours are beyond her canted If not, you have spoiled your children from taught Your mar- , ssofttowehskiutskosonuowlovoliness... Tvilfl Sven ildi/Q/"gézwe 1on4?” This lovely bridal party the marriage of Margaret M. garet. Louise Eleanor McNeil; Thompson. Mr. and i How Can I!!! J g By Anne Ashley f . Q. How can I repair a small hole fin a window screen? ‘ A. Fasten a piece of mosquito nctttig over the hole. Give it a coat lcf shellac, and a second cost if lnecessary. When dry it will be as l stiff as the rest of the screen. ‘ Q. How can I renew jar lids? A. Place them in a vessel and ,cover with buttermilk. Leave them for a day or two, and they will ap- pear practically new. Q. How can I restore the gloss to sateen? A. If borax water is used to wash sateen garments, it will re- store the gloss. a pstgcntly :3 dry wit: was photographed leaving Dr. Robert Boyle Abel of Vancouverpwas ‘ Leo Mclsaac. usher: MT- Alfred McNem be“ man’ bridesmaids. Miss THE WORLD'S LOVE STORY The little Negro children tell the story this way: Por lll brack sheep don strayed away, Don los in de win’ and de rain, An’ de shepherd He says: "O hire- lin’, Go fin’ my sheep again." But d-e hirelin‘ frown. “O Shepherd, Dat sheep am brack and bad.’ But dc Shepherd He smiles like dat lil brack sheep Was do onliest lamb He had. famous IX X 0| J. ARTHUR RANK ORGANIZATION l s LEVER rsooucr “I always use Luz Toilet Sosxlts creamy active-lather leaves skin clear. hes and lovely.’ Msko pulses boot lasts-give your skin this gentle beautifying one.” . Take lovely Jun Kent's advice. Don't lot neglect about you ofromsnoo! Lu active-influx facials will make your skis olosrc-fsmoothsr, .Lg!...s.QL.;.-_....a; _Ll_ _____ __ _ __ - more romantic. Sec the difimnoe after jut one murmur-be lovclier tonight! the l-llstoric Old Crossroads Church, where Louise Eleanor. only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Wellington ltfcNelil and celebrated. Reading left to right: the groom. Dr. Robert Boyle Abel, the bride, Mar- Joyce Gay and Miss Elaine Hodge, Little Diane Mrs, Wellington McNelll, parents of the bride, are shown at rear. LivingcS. Leisure 1 THE WOMAN'S REALM Bryer Jones, usher; Mr. And de Shepherd go out in dc darkness - Where de night was col‘ and bleak, An’ dat lil brack sheep He fin‘ it An‘ lay it against His cheek. An’ de hlrelin‘ frown. "O Shepherd, Don‘ bring dat sheep to me." But de Shepherd He smile as He hol’ it close, A.n'-—dat lii brack sheep was-me. AB OUT WEAVES You'll get better bargains for your wardrobe at mid-winter sales, if you know your stuff about fabric weaves. The weave is your clue to the serviceability of garments, Garments intended for hard wear and long service should he made of firm, closely woven fabric. if you have a choice between two garments whose fabrics have simi- lar texture and weight, tho one offering the tight weave is apt in be the better buy. It will retain 17-5 shape better. be less apt to shrink or pull apart along the stitching. To judge the fabric, first hold i‘. against a strong light. Look for uniformlly sized, evenly spaced yarn. Next, test the “shift" of fib- ers. For this, grasp fabric between fingers and pull gently lengthwise and crosswise. Yarns in a firm fa- bric will not. shift easily nor puff up when pulled. Turn the garment inside out and look st the seams as your third clue to study weave. If seam edges are exceedingly frayed, this may indicate a loosely woven faiirx which will give y unsatisfactory wear. Finely cut fresh pineapple may be sweetened and mixed with orange segments for a first course; garnish with mint leaves and a maraschino cherry. Keep s. cake fresh, once it is cut. by putting a little tiny glass or egg cup of water with it under the case cover. The cake will keep moist and fine for day's. / When butter cakes are taken from tho oven they should be sl- lowed to stand for about five min- utes beforethey are turned out on to s. cake rack to cool. < g MorningjSmile "Gladys," exclaimed her mother. more in sorrow than in anger. "you're a very vain little girl. You are always looking at yourself in the mirror. You don't see me look- ing in the mirror sll the time, do you?" "No, mother, I don't," acknowl- edged thc child, "but. then, you don't have to-you can see me without looking in the mirror." FOBGETFUL The mill foreman came upon two men walking slowly up the road, single file. "Boy. you why ain't you workln?" We‘: working boss. sho-nuff. Vic's carrying this pisnk up to the mill.“ "What plank? I.don’t see any . plank " “will. w do land's sake. Abe. at we ain't gone hi’ forgot do plank!" WBATI III UII I firs. Brown was anxious to let her neighbor know about her new car. “I'm thoroughly tired out," the sold. "I've been st the wheel all day." "I csn sympathise with you," re- plled hoi- neighbor. "I've been coin; m: mnclms. mi" onalx. Ellen ’s A Diary I: u Ill" ""'f" m“ “New then, mien!" James calm. to mo sternly from thbrocm above the kitchen early this morning. Jamie's presence st Alder-lea has moved me temporarily t/b Jllfilfl bed in the look-out room. facing the mill in the dmths of the vs_i~ ley. Last night after blowing-out- the-light-tlme stars twinklod down st ins there, and when I stirred and awakened towards 1153418119 tihe moon was beaming throl18h U" higher panes. When James csileo. I was luxuriatlng in the delight of it there. liking much the stillness that precede the rising and com. menclng of the day's bust-IQ 811d work. Swifts in the parlor-chimney nearby were murmurlng quietly. like sleepy children waking and the water down at the waste gate dJop-ped in a soft musical sound. swallows already were on the wing, flying athwart the bread window on early mission!» 811-’- sparrcws came to chatter on s. roof within hearing. But the breeze that came stealing in was refresh- ing and James‘ "Ellen, we've s lot of work to do!" brought me tr haste to the kitchen. It was no exaggeration. We have had much to do. Indeed since then. the" have been few moments of lelsazc either for farmers or house-wives. I O O Leaving "Alderlea to take care of (Continued on Page 9) v Houseklxzmotld v Scrapbook 5y Roberts Leo Scorched Linen Scorch can be removed from linen by cutting a raw onion in half and rubbing the flat side of it on the discolored area; then soak the linen in cold water for several hours. Oilcloth Cleaner Oilcloth can be cleaned by the following method: Dissolve five ounces of melted paraffin in one pint of turpentine. Use a sponge and rub the oilcloth with this solu- tion. Olive Oil Asmall pinch of salt added to the olive oil, if the taste is consid- ered unpleasant, will make it agreeable. Better English D D. C. Wlllllml 1. tence? "There were less people there than I expected." 2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of “debut”? 3. which one of these words is misspelled? Anointment. anono- mous. antagonistic. 4. What does the urv" mean? 5. What _is a word beginning with fe that means “savage wild- ness"? ANSWERS 1. Say, "There were fewer peo- ple." 2. Pronounce da-bu, s as in day. u as in menu. accent second syllable. 3. Anonymous. 4. Absence of resources; destitutlon. “Chill penury weighs down the heart, it- self: end though it sometimes be endured with calmness. it ls but the calmness of despair." —- Mrs. Jameson. 5. Ferocity. What is wrong with this sen- word “peri- A" you going thru the functional ‘middle llo’ period peculiar to women (38-52 111.)? Does this msko you sulfur from hot flashes, focl so nervous, high-strung, tired? {Phsn D0 try Lydia E. Pinkhsm’: Vogotnblo Com- pound torsliovssuoh symptoms! Pinkhsmi Compound also has what Doctors call I stomschlc tonic offoctl \ LYDIA E. rmiuuiws %'ti Cook ’s Corner DREAM (MK! l‘ lb. butter ‘A cup brown sugar 1% cups flour 2 eggs ___ _. 1% cups brown sugar l cup cocosnut ‘>9 WP chflliped walnuts or a few maraschino cherries é titsblespoon 1:12:11‘ t esmoon it n wd Pinch of sslt g p0 er l6 teaspoon vanilla , Rub butter; sugar and flour to. nether and put in square pan 9x9. Bake about 15 minutes until s lit- tle brown on top (over 350 degrees) While it is cooking, break eggs into a bowl. mix with spoon. Add bsi- snce of ingredients and mix to- gather. Four on. top of the first mixture and bake about half an hour or until-nicely browned. 000K!!! 2% cups flour if cup shortening if cup butter ‘A cup brown sugar ‘A cup white suisr 1% teaspoons cream of tartar 1 teaspoon baking soda 1 fill Salt _ Vanilla Cream butter. shortening sndw For tl-ic rcoi _ ENJOYMINT. A sf all tho family Q. What is the correct way for a woman to refer to her husband? A. Under usual circumstances, a woman refers to her husband as Mr. Smith, although sometimes when addressing a stranger she may say, "my husband." In con. versatlon with a friend, she uses his first naime. Q. How can s girl pay tespgqf, to the flag when it is carried in a Procession? A. She stands with her hands relaxed at her sides. A man re- FJlIOVQS his hat and stands at atten- on. ' Q. Should the tissue paper that comes with engraved invitations be sent with the invitations to the guests? ~ A. The tissue paper is folded in with the invitations. “fir: Stars Say-- By Genevieve Kemblo For Thursday, July 1 PLANS for change, journeys, travel and new adventures are ac- celerated and most propltiously ss- PNt-ed. according to stellar con- fikuratlons. While such efforts may be directedmainly toward a pm. longed holiday schedule yet it might be profitable to tags more realistic and far-reaching program; under consideration ss the melitlmy is keen and inventive faculties are stimulated. The rom- antic tendencies are likewise under favorable drive. For the Birthday Those whose birthday it is, may find theznselves stirred to change. new adventures. perhaps g, sudden impulse to put over their very bright. ingenious and original 5mm“ Or Plans, in which there may be Inns-range and quite un- expected denouemcnt. The" i; an urge to the novel, strange and un. Orthodox. with far vista to distant Dsstures. The emotions are also "m!" happy stimuli for romance. new contacts and fresh fields of conquest. Imagination and intul. tlons are also accelerated. Thue may assist in planning s, safe and pleasant itinerary. A child born on this day 1g p05- sessed of much ingenuity. excep- tional talents. creative impulses to- "m" "ll-h lmlsination and intui- tive leads. Eighty per cent of all human so- tivities are guided by the eyes. Sap in a tree may freeze and crack the wood. BUBTLE FLATIIIY Hero's a smooth performer that looks lo its lines for flattery-fit featutos all-round softer styling, 1W" ND sleeves. ripples of ruf- fling! Note the wsy the back ex- tends over the front shoulders to form a charming yoke effect. No. 21a: is cut in sizes 12, 14. 1s, 1U. 30. 36, 38, 40, 42, 44. 46 and 48. Size 36 requires 2% yards 39-inch 1% yards ruffllng. Send 20c for each PATTERN. which includes cotnplcto sowing guide. Print your Name, Address and Style Number plainly. 1o euro to state slse you want. Include postal unit. or cone number in your address. . Address Pattern Department, The Chsrlotetown Guardian. Pattern lVO. 2182 NlmO Address city province sugar together; add egg. vanilla. lift crssm tartar, sods and salt with flour. add to mixture. Place pieces of dough about the sin of a walnut on cookie sbsstt flatten with‘ a fork dipped in floufn. Bake st 370 degrees about to minutes. <,'¥.\f1_\&‘(<\ h‘. tress‘. t. um as“. i. -. - 171,61; Body j Qf Yours} D. Jones W. Barton. ll. OPERATION T0 REMOVE Dll GRLEI‘ AND DEPBSSION I write from time to time sbo the operation lobotomy or leukc cmy. in which nerves loading the high parts of the brain I cut. It is in these parts of the bra that the emotions have their I lgln-grief, depression, anxiety. 1 cutting these nerves, deep dcprcs ion, uncontrollable grief, sup present anxiety are removed so the patient, freed of these 0m tions. is almost like a happy chill The operation was first perform ed only with this object in vim‘ but many cases are now on rocm where business and homo life ‘si renewed. and other cases who patients are engaged in light, us ful employment. It must be a4 mltted then that relieving the patients of their depressions mski the operation worth-while, as the are usually hopeless mental css in which other fonrns of trcstmei have failed. - In the "Lancet? London. Drs. l Franki and W. Mayor-Gross n oort their studv of- patients afti iobotomy. Of 170 patients operate I on. 77 were discharged: but 9 1 these had to be readmitted to tli hospital after being home two to i months. More than half of the 68 poi tents, who without operation woul have been hopeless chronic invsi ids. earn their living and more tho three-quarters are usefully employ ed. After the operation the pstlcs is nhvsically healthy. a good eats and sleeper with s. feeling of woi being. "His prevailing mood i "heerfullnessuwhmdocs not worry but is hsbpy and contented. l! may take his responsibilities o shlrk them altogether. His relation with‘ Def-sons near him are oftei without denfh or feeling. He is no troubled with his previous delus inns. obsessions. hallucinations a depression and grief. Ho nelthl regrets nor- repeats for what hi ma" have done or said." Whll- the familv may resrot tbs patient’: lsck of responsibility and regret of his former actions, the fact that he is new ha}??? and contented instead of suffcrin with deen depression and gri makes this HDOIMZIOB worth-whlldI The familv should remember that the doctors at the institution know best as to whether the pat- ient should undergo this oper- ation. , If you find you have s heavy hand with biscuits. then make the next batch with cake flour instead of bread flour. They'll be positively ethereal, 1N ee jlecraftz r011 THE HOME