As
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      woman
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      to
      know:
     
    
   
   
    
     
      -
      Sex-role
      stereotypes
      of
      passivity,
      submissiveness
     
     
      and
      coyness
      are
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      and
      can.create
      a
      climate
     
     
      for
      sexual
      aggression.
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      -
      Say
      no
      when
      you
      mean
      no;
      say
      yes
      when
      you
      mean
     
     
      yes,
      stay
      in
      tough
      with
      your
      feelings
      to
      know
      the
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      difference.
     
    

    
     
      -
      Believe
      in:y-our
      right
      to
      express
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      feelings
      and
     
     
      learn
      how
      to
      do
      so
      assertively.
      —
     
    

    
     
      =
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      aware
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      fe
      that
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      front
      self
     
     
      expression,
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      “anger
      if
      en
      =
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      passive
      is
      feminine
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      =
     
    

    
     
      -
      Be
      aware
      of
      specific
      situations
      in:
      which
      you
      do
      not
     
     
      feel
      relaxed
      and.
      i
      in
      charge.
      =
     
    
   
   
    
     
      After
      an
      assault
      has
      occurred...
     
    
   
   
    
     
      *
      Get
      to
      a
      safe
      place
      as
      quickly
      as
      possible.
     
    

    
     
      *
      Get
      immediatéwaedieal
      attention.
     
    

    
     
      *
      Do
      not
      shower,
      ¢hange
      clothes,
      or
      comb
      your
      hair.
     
    

    
     
      *
      take
      acomplete
      change
      of
      clothes
      to
      the
      Bospital,
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      the
      police
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      fortorensic
      testing
     
    
   
   
    
     
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      taken
     
     
      place,
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      that
      a
      thorough
      exammanenisdene
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      *
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      you
      decide
      to
      report
      to
      the
      poHee=tetithem
     
     
      everything,
      even
      if
      you
      feel
      it
      may
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      small
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      in
     
     
      court
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      your
      attacker
      threatened
      you,
      be
      sure
      ote
      telithe
     
    
   
   
    
     
      police.
      Keep
      in
      mind,
      though,
      that
      most
      threats
      are
     
    
   
   
    
     
      just
      that
      -
      threats.
     
     
      *
      Call
      the
      PEI
      Rape
      and
      Sexual
      Assault
      Center.
      *
     
    
   
   
    
     
      REAL
      MEN
      DON’T
      RAPE
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Real
      men
      accept
      the
      responsibility
      to
      not
      harm
      an-
     
     
      other
      person.
     
    

    
     
      1.
      Itis
      never
      OK
      to
      force
      yourself
      on
      a
      woman,
      even
     
     
      if;
     
    

    
     
      -she
      teases
      you
     
    

    
     
      -dresses
      provocatively
      or
      leads
      you
      on
     
    

    
     
      -she
      says
      ‘‘no’’
      and
      you
      think
      she
      means
      “‘yes’’
     
     
      -you’ve
      had
      sex
      before
      with
      her
     
    

    
     
      -you’ve
      paid
      for
      her
      dinner
      or
      given
      her
      expensive
     
     
      gifts
     
    
   
   
    
     
      <=you
      thunk
      women
      enjoy
      being
      forced
      to
      have
      sex
      or
     
     
      “what
      to
      be
      persuaded
     
     
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      woinan
      is
      under
      the
      influence
      of
      alcohol
      or
      drugs
     
    
   
   
    
     
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      crime
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      3.
      If
      you
      have
      any
      doubts
      about
      what
      your
      partner
     
     
      wants,
      STOR
      ASK.
      CLARIFY.
     
    
   
   
    
     
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      oo
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      of
      fot
      ‘‘scoring’’
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      to.be
      raped.
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      woman
     
    
   
   
    
     
      behaves,
      she
      dgés
      not
      deserve
      to
      have
      her
      body
      used
     
     
      in
      ways
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      6.
      ‘‘No*ymeans
      no.
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      do
      not
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      womans
     
     
      ‘‘no’’,
      you
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      risk
      raping
      somegiie
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      you
     
     
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      sexual
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      person
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      ismen-
     
    
   
   
    
     
      tally
      or
      physically
      ineapable
      if
      giving
      consent
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      example;
      drunk)
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      woman
      has
      had
      too
     
     
      much
      to
      drink
      and
      has
      passed
      out,
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      control
     
     
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      you
      are
      sober
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      that
      the
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      fear
      they
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      based
      on
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      and
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      you
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      what
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      partner
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      assumptions.
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
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