DATING
      RIGHTS
     
    
   
   
    
     
      1.
      I
      have
      the
      right
      to
      refuse
      a
      date
      without
      feeling
     
     
      guilty.
     
    

    
     
      2.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      ask
      for
      a
      date
      without
      being
     
     
      crushed
      if
      the
      answer
      is
      no.
     
    

    
     
      3.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      choose
      to
      go
      somewhere
      alone
     
     
      without
      having
      pair
      up
      with
      someone.
     
    

    
     
      4.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      say
      no
      to
      physical
      closeness.
     
    

    
     
      5.
      |
      have
      the
      right
      not
      to
      act
      ‘‘Macho’’
      or
      ‘‘Seduc-
     
     
      tive.”’
     
    

    
     
      6.
      I
      have
      the
      right
      to
      say
      “‘I
      want
      to
      know
      you
      better
     
     
      before
      I
      become
      involved.”’
     
    

    
     
      7.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      say
      ‘‘I
      don’t
      want
      to
      be
      in
      this
     
     
      relationship
      any
      longer.’’
     
    

    
     
      8.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      and
      equal
      relationship
      with
      the
     
     
      opposite
      sex.
      :
     
    

    
     
      9.
      [have
      the
      right
      not
      to
      be
      abused
      physically,
      sexu-
     
     
      ally
      or
      emotionally.
     
    

    
     
      10.
      [have
      the
      right
      to
      change
      my
      goals
      whenever
      |
     
     
      want.
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
            
     
    
   
   
    
     
      me
     
    
   
   
    
     
      ‘Rape
      Prevention
     
     
      Education
      Program
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Take
      Cave
      of
      Yourself
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Vv
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Respect
      your
      friends,
      Listen
      to
      what
     
     
      they
      say
      about
      how
      far
      they
      do
      -
      or
     
     
      don't
      -
      want
      fo
      go.
     
     
      VY
     
     
      Say
      what
      you
      mean.
     
     
      Communicate
      clearly
     
     
      Vv
     
     
      If
      you
      drink,
      stay
      in
      control.
      Decide
     
     
      your
      limits
      in
      advance.
      Many
      date
     
     
      rapes
      involve
      the
      use
      of
      alcohol
      and/or
      —
     
     
      drugs
      by
      the
      woman,
      man
      or
      both.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Be
      sure
      everyone
      has
      a
      safe
      and
     
     
      escorted
      way
      home.
      Don’t
      leave
      a
     
     
      friend
      stranded.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Women,
      sav
      “yes”
      when
      you
      mean
      “yes”
     
     
      aid
      “no”
      wher
      yw:
      mean
      “no.”
      )
     
     
      Be
      direct
      and
      dun’t
      hint.
     
     
      Ar
     
     
      Men,
      take
      a
      “no”
      as
      “nc”
      ihe
      first
      time.
     
     
      Don't
      push,
      persis:
      or
      force.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Sex
      with
      a
      woman
      igo
      drunk
      to
     
     
      consent
      is
      a
      criminal
      act
      —
      rape
      -
      |
     
     
      not
      a
      sexual
      act.
     
     
      IF
      itS
      against
      her
      will,
     
     
      it'S
      againsi
      the
      law.
      i
     
     
      Ww
     
     
      Party
      with
      sclf-assurance
      and
     
     
      self-insurance.
     
    
   
   
    
     
      Party
      Safe!
     
    
   
   
    
     
        
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
       
     
    
   
   
    
     
      UPEI
      X-P
      RESS
     
    
   
   
    
     
      October
      24,
      1991
      .