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Deer Miss Dix-Six years ego our mother died. leaving u: with e trenger, our father. for, he was s. stranger to us. I-Ie was just some one that he were terribly afraid of. He didn't understand us and we didn't under- 1‘ - stand him. He does so many thins: that hurt us so badly and .1 suppose we hurt him. because he tells everybody what terrible children we are, that. we have no love for him and that we don't can what happens to him. We long for the love of our fether Perhaps he longs for our love, but we are growing further apart every day. I wonder if you can understand how this hurts, and if it ls really our fault. VERY UNHAPPY CHILDREN

Answer: '

I do understand it, for i; is_a tragedy that I have seen happen in many famllfgs. Children who , ~ are starving for love and tenderness, who are lonely and afraid and longing for parents to whom they can cling for protection, so whom they can go with their little confldences and their troubles and

1 'thers and mothers that they could show their hearts to any chance g ‘acquaintance sooner than to_ them. -

j 1 And I know plenty of fathers and mothers who spend their lives toiling ‘ for their children and who yearn for their children's affection and confl- i I .' -._ dance more than for anythin gelse on earth ad yet who have built a barrier ‘nbetween themselves and their children that they cannot break down, and whdtreat their own sons and daughters with less affection and less co-

Wcmcn, from the;very nature of the relationship between mother and

Qhild, seldom make the mistake of not getting close to their children, but fathers often do, especially men who are very busy and who are engaged in big commercial enterprises. '

I have one such man in my mind as I write. A ‘splendid man, fine and

honorable. generous and sympathetic and really affectionate at heart. but a

. mun who believed imdiscipline and who made a god of efIiciency and who I thought that you could raise a family as you ran a factory

He had a flnelfamiiy of girls and boys and in order to give them every advantage and every comfort and luxury he toiled incessantly. It was the desire to give them everything that drove him on and he had not the wisdom to know that the most important thing he could give them was to l v give, them himself.

_ He never played with his children. l-le never got acquainted with them. -\He never spoke to_ them except to reprimand them. They never broached a _I plan to him that he did not veto it. and the result was that they grew up afraid of him, keeping out of his presence as much as possible; feeling him i " not only as a stranger. but an inimicable stranger and one with whom it l? was impossible even to hold an ordinary conversation.

‘ It has actually never entered these children's minds that their father is

zjqven a friend. Still less that he loves them and that he passionately yearns ‘ _ __ for their love in return, and that he would give anything he possesses for ‘ l) ~_~‘§hem to show him some affection and pal with him.

, I That is the case with your father, you poor- unhappy children, when - h accuses you of being ungrateful children and not loving him, it is his jelousy crying out. It is because he craves so for some sign of tenderness from you. It is because he so longs for your confld-znces. So why don't you o_to hhn and tell him of your love, tell him that you are starving for affec- "uion, too, and how you long for a father to cling to and to advise you. Aelieve me, if you do this, he will take you to his heart and you will all be , happy together. ‘

{rather bear all the suffering for his mistake. You are young, you have the t whole world before you. but he has nothing but you. and if he has not j. ‘your love to repay him for all the sacrifices he has made for you, then ls he , ‘JQQOOI, indeed. Doncyrgy 131x

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l. -' Dear Miss Dix—I am a man of 2'7 and single, and until a few months ago I intended to stay single the balance of my life, but now I have met; e girl who has attracted me strangely. Maybe it ls love, only if it is I never thought that love was like this. Just e companionableness. ‘men I found out that! she cared deeply for me, but that she is engaged to another man

' a- s, - ‘ ' .; who can give her all the luxuries that I can't. and never will be able to give » ' . her. Now suddenly I seem to care quite terribly for her, but I can't decide ' , ‘ ‘l.’ it is because I really love her, or because she belongs to someone else that ~ . want her. Another angle is my extreme selfishness that makes me feel that I might chafe under the restrictions that married life naturally im- poses. The girl has put of! her marriage for a year so that we may try to ' decide what is best to do. Can you see any solution to the problem? I ’ swear that I am just going round in circles FREDERICK.

And my advice to you, Frederick. is to keep young. Anyway that doesn't 4 in the altar. for evidently you have only a platonic affection for the and that isn't enough tb merry on, especially when you haven't my. fo ofler her but. love in exchange for ell that the other men can give

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i "ah"! ‘tgbou have ~no cosmic urge toward your own women. ymummrliigu. _ can hcarthstane, and that type of men is not easily dmnegtluuq, m Always hears the cell of the wild and even the most silken of marriage fetter: gall him. "

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The closing of Cenavoy School took i

28th, with a. large attendance ori parents and visitors. The pupils were examined in their, various subjects by their teacherfl Mis Sadie Farquharson, and testify- ing by the correct and rapid answers from all the grades. it Aves evident, that the pupils had been well and; carefully taught. The teacher then presented Eliza- beth McKay with the Public School Certificate, awarded by the Govern- ment of Prince Edward Islandyand‘ the following pupils were awarded, prizes from their teacher; Florence} McKay, Reggie McMillan and Sterl- ing McKay for perfect attendance. Elizabeth McKay. Ethel Gimn, Viola. Farquhareon, Eunice McEachern, Florrie McKay, Mary A. McEachelll and Andrew Johnston for highest marks in their respective grades. and Michael McMillan for extra marks in drawing. At this time Miss Plorrlc McKay presented the teacher with a five dollar gold piece and Miss Ethel Qunn read the following address:-

‘ Canavoy. June 2B, 1929. Miss Sadie Ferquharson, . Dear 'I‘eacher:-It is with profound regret that we have learned 0110"!‘ intention of giving up your dime-B 115 our teacher. We wish at this time to convey t0 you our appreciation of your kind- nggg m, and patience with us during the two years you have been with us. We trust, we shall merit the 0110f“ you so freely gave tn PNPI-FB "5 m? our respective futures, and the tench- lng you gave us shall always b14118 plgjgprfl; memories of yourself, and so that those memories may be mut- uel we ask you to accept this small gift which we hope you will value merely as e. token of your “mm and goodwill. You will have our best wishes fol‘ your success end hlpllllle“ l" W“ future ‘field of service.

that you can't live without her. ' Walt

a Youthful Lovellneee of SKIN and Hun

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You have bed one unhappy marriage. Why widowheeerighttobeeuspicioiuoftnemotiveeofenimpeeuemubq eleven years younger theifibe is when he cornea e-wooing. lhe can hire a companion more cheaply. I think you had better leiwell mouth time.

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Are Wearing

Illustrated Dressmaking Lesson ‘Furnisheci

By Annebelle Worthington

A pretty dress for vacation. Style No. 2884 is e gay decelver with its triple tiered ruffles. It is a. one- piece affair. The gathered ruffles are i simply stitched to kimono sleeves and l skirt of dress along perforated lines. l‘ The lower rufIles are attached to the ‘lower edges. The round neckline is gathered at each side and finished with a bindinc. It is very effective in ‘ white cotton voile with dainty» em-

broidery in white. The bows at each side of upper edge of top ruffle are of white faille siik crepe. Sprigged dimity, pale blue batiste. pink shan- tung. printed lawn, orchid‘ organdie, flowered voile. yellow and white checked gingham and crepe dc chine in white or pastel shade are lovely suggestions.

It is designed in sizes 6, 8, 1Q l2 and 14 years. For the 8-year size. 2i; yards of 40-inch material with ‘i. yard of 36-inch contrast for bows is sufficient. A Picture Chart in- cluded illustrates the entire making

of garment. Emb. Trans. No. 713 (blue) cost 15' cents extra. Pattern price 15 cents. Be

sure to fill in size of pattern. Address Pattern Department. The New Flash- ion Magazine is 15 cents, but only l0 cents when ordered with a pattern.

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onbehalf of the pupils v! Canavoy School. Although completely taken by

place on Friday afternoon, Juneisurprise, the teacher made a. very

feeling and suitable reply of thanks.

Then all partook of a generous treat of cake. beverage, candy and nuts from the teacher.

Mr. J. K. Lacey then delivered e very alacrious suffrage of gratitude to the tbacher for her splendid work during her period of teaching in Canavoy, after which the singing o! the National Anthem brought the meeting to a close.

BilllTli DIED PENNILESS

(Canadian Press)

LONDON. July 5.—The statement that General Bramweli Booth died penniless was published yesterday by the Daily Chronicle on the authority of a. friend who acted as the old generalsbusiness advisor during the last months of his illness. Beyond his uniform and a. few books. it l! said, he left no property whatever. Even the house he occupied at South- wold, Linoolnshire. where he was visited by representatives of the High Council during their conference to depose him. and the residence at Hadley Wood in which he died, be- long to relatives. Almost up to the last the general was sole trustee of the Salvation Army's property throughout the world. totalling mil- lions of dollars. yet he had to rely upon relatives to pay for the educa- tion of his children: His sole income was $2,500 e year from a trust fund.

The Brazilian state of Mines Ger- ae's is believed to contain the largest iron deposits in the world, estimated at, l2,000,000,000 tons of ore of the _hlghest grade. "

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blow that will knock you out for keeps- thet you won't have to debate whether I011

Wait until you find some women love or not. You will lust know

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matrimony-until you look upon it es e blessed privilelfi-

gm plenty o1 women that you will

lih ee wellee you e» this girl. intelliaent. companion-bl» women "M "m have the same interests that you have end you can have their society will!‘ out warning their beard bills and sbaovinc W39"-

DOEOTHYDIX.

Deer Mile Dix-J! have been married twice. My first husband I divorc- ed after three years of hell and drunkenness. My mend husband died. Now amen elevenyeen younger than! emwente momma. 1 meztreanl! well off. ‘Iheymmg menhu some; to __ mum OI’ been. m many obhtt. Woullyou bun

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PLANNING THE VACATION

The vacation season is almost here and moat of us are piennlni whet to do with the precious hours of leisure brought by the annual summer holidays. The purpose of a vacation is not. merely to provide a thrilling good time. which may leave one fatigued and reluctant to return to one’s regular routine, but it is mainly to refresh mind end body. The girl who starts out on her vaca- tion with a feeling of listlessness, e sallow skin and jumpy nerves, will return full oi WED" with e clear, healthy skin and improved poise if she has planned wisely.

A distinguished physician and writer has given the following sim- ple rules for e successful vacation; it behooves every one to consider them ihoughtfilliy.

First. Choose a type of vacation that will be a bypath from the men- tal groove of daily life.

Second. Indulge in physical exer- cise. but not beyond the limitations of tissue repair.

‘Ihird. Select a place that is health- ful, including pure water, milk and a good food supply.

Fourth. If some people irritate you unduly, keep away from them on your vacation. '

Fifth. Rest at least eight hours of each vacation dey.

Sixth. Avoid undue exposure to the sun, the cold, the rain or other in- clemency, particularly if you are subject to respiratory infections.

Seventh: Have a physical examin- ation before you leave so that you will know your physical possibilities. Eighth. A good vacation is one in which you will enjoy yourmlf -thor- oughly, in which you are rested when you are through. in which your mind selects a new groove and has no urge to the old one."

Young people need the sixth rule quoted above more than the others, perhaps. The sun-tanned complex- ion has become the vogue. and many will be blistered. with coersened skin. this summer as s. result. While a moderate amount of tan is healthful and beautiful. an extreme cue is neither. It may take weeks and months to restore smoothness end fineness to a badly sun-burnt ~skin. Heir that is exposed too long to the hot sun becomes streaked and dry. The glare on sandy beaches, on water or motor roads causes squintlng and eye wrinkles, unless precautions ere taken to protect the eyes. A11 of these things should be taken into consideration if milady does not wLgh the vacation days to multiply her beauty problems.

Tomorrow-Beauty Questions An- ewired.

Conciliation Board To Deal With Dispute

(Canadian Press)

OTTAWA. Ont... July ll - Hon. Peter l-Ieenen, Minister of Labor, tn- dey established a. board of concilia- tion end lnveetlgeti tn deel with the dispute between the Canedim National end Canadian Pacific Reil- weya and conductors, trelnmen, yard service men, membe a of the Order of Railway Conductors Lad of the Brotherhood of Railroad, Treinmen of the western lines aver a request for increases in pay.

The number of men effected el- rectly is stated as being 6,000 while 10.000 ere laid to be effected indi- rectly. Membere of the board have been appointed u follows; Iseee Pitbledo. l. C. and David Campbell. ltllhothofWlnnipelflfbefor-eier wee appointed on the recommendee tion of the employees and the letter on that of the empolers. A third member will be named by the other two.

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butter-piste with the up o! s 1°"

that bu been already in one‘:

mouth?

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may be used.

Q When is considered good form for business women to make their social cells?

A. On Sunday afternoons end any convenient evenings during the week.

Q. What shaped enevlope should be used for social correspondence, the oblong or the square?

A. The square envelope.

ST. MARY'S CONVENT SCHOOL

The closing exercises of St. Mary's Convent, took place on Thursday. June 2'1. The following is the prize list:—-

Certificates for regular and punc- tual attendance.

Grade III. Rene McLean, Cather- ine Paquet (2 yrs) Amy Malone. Grade IV.) Eleanor Larie (2 yrs) Mattie Jennings. l

Grade V. Marguerite Paquet.

Grade VI. Marjorie Paquet. Grade VII. Gladys Mullally, Adele McLean.

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Pet is not eoesse y for Irvin: foods. simply rub the am with common table salt, then shake it out and put in the meet to be fried.

Paquet. VII Gladys Mullally.

Donated by Hon- Judas "ml" Grade IV. Eleanor Lavie.

Donated by Rev. Mother Superior. Grade IV. Adele MacDonald, Grade VI. Marjorie Pequet.

Donated by Rev. M. l". Monaghen. Grade VIII. Margaret Byme. Donated by Mr. A. T. McDonald. Grade. Daniel Molane.

Grade III. Catherine Cheverie, Amy Malone. Grade. Equally merited by Elle Poole and Laleah Roop, drawn by Laleah ltoop.

Grade VIII. Mary Larie, Margaret, Clemenk, Mary Feehan. y Grade IX. Agnes MacDonald. Ger-' aldine Peters, Mary Walsh, Mary Ed- monds, Aline Manin.

Grade x. Winnie McDonald. Evelyn I McDonald (2 yrs) Pauline Paquet, (2,! yrs) Teresa Donehoe, Ruth Cairns.‘ Jean Paquet. Hilde McEecl-iern, (2 lyears) Eileen Mc-Cough Mary Mooney , Estelle McDonald, Muriel GallsntJ Mary Quinn. ‘ | The A. N. Palmer awards for Pen-l, manshlp. 1 Palmer Method Buttons, ' Matty Jennings, Antoinette Medore,l Eleanor Lavie, Cecelia Cahlil, Jessie McIntyre, Adele McDonald, JuliaI

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‘est average in School Leaving Exam-

lMother Superior, Adele McLean.

Prizes for Assiduity. Winnifred Lavie. Helen Cairns, Mary Ella Gaines, Edna Paquet, Margaret Mos- sey Rita O‘Donnel, Margaret Paquet. Evangeline Paquet, Marjorie Chev- erie. '

Special Prizes. Senior Department, Grade VII end VIII. Prize for high-

lnatlons donated by Mr. A. r. ME- Donald. Genevieve Paquet. Prize’

[awarded to successful candidates lfli

school leaving examinations. donaied ' by Rev Mother Superior, drawn by Margaret Laive

Prize for history donated by Rev.

Hize for Application donated by

JULY"), 1929

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A M. rning Smile

KNEW HIS ANIMALS

Rastus had taken Mendy to m, circus is and was having a great time "explaining all about. m, animals to his girl.

"Iew-zee, Rastius. whut's ‘at?’ ask. ed Mandy when they came u; m; zebra. '

"Don't you know. gal? you ‘gho- hss nealscted yore enimology. our. nuffin but a spot model jaclrasgf-

i For The Cools :5 l

DATE PUDDING

One cup chopped suet, 1 cup' chop- ped nuts, l cup raisins, 1 cup of cook. ed dates as dry as possible, ‘é ‘cup of buttermilk with ‘.5. cup of daze juice (making 1 cup of liquid), 2 (53. rpoons of baking soda, 1g cup o; white sugar, 2 cups of flour.

Method: Put suet. dates, nuts, sugar and raisins into a bowl, mjy the baking soda. into the cup. of liquid, mix well, then gradually-add the flour: steam three naurs.

j Crops Throughout

Hon. Judge Maser. Mary Levis.

Sweeney, Annie Jennings, Anna Cheverie, Genrude Paquet. Amy Malone, Catherine Cheverie, Rena McLean. Enid McDonald, Anna May McDonald, Hattie Gilbert, Mildred Grant, Hattie Bouchford. Agnite Perry, Olive Paquet. Alice Byrne. Jean McIsaac Virginia McLellan, Agnlta Mclaaac Adeline Cheverie, Edna Pequot, Gertie E. Pequet Geneo Fougere, Marguerite Paquet. Joan Paquet.