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PAGE TWO THE GUARDIAN MARCH 31. 1952 . Modern Etiquette The Stars Sav ' ' I, loberla IA!

Iy Genevieve leiabie

Q. Is it proper for women to shake hands with each other when being introduced?

A. Women may or may not shake hands with each other. as they prefer. Unless the one who is

For Toinorrow

'I'l-m day is one of "mixed influ- ences" in astrological terminology. while the energies, mentality-and aspirations may be concentrated

ELLEli'S IIIMIY

I: an Island larnau Wife

Their sleighs routed to catch lingering drifts of snow along the fields of the farm, our farmers hauled their sawlogs to the mill this afternoon . . . James pre- ferring "our own mare" for the task, the younger farmer driving the last-bought, a darkiah animal. respected and much used about the place. or the others. the Neil- mare is infrequently hitched. to go may be as far as Robls or the other farm on some ”lixht" outlns. Wl1ll0 her Jilly, destined to replace her

T That Body Of Your: By James W. Bartel. Il-D- - rnammo ma ovusaoa EMPLOYX FOB BETIREDENT

Now that the life span has been lengthened to an average of 86 years, a. gain of 16 years since 1900 it means, that there are'many old and aging men and women in the world.

In former days. elderly people depended on their savings or upon their children for support when they were no longer able to work.

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PINAFORJI now. sundress for hot weather! Mother, this is her very best. for parties and suchi Ruffly wings make her look simply angelic, and dainty embroidery makes her feel mighty dreaed up. Easy sewing. embroidery is easy too. Transfer Included. ,

Pattern 4704: Children's sizes 2. 4. 6. 8. 10. Size 6 takes 1"A yards 35-inch eyelet.

Middle-Aged. Marriage -

Pair Should Settle Financial Arguments Before Weddingy

DEAR MISS DIX: I am a widow of 50, with some income. and am marrying is man who is salaried. When we marry. does he as- sume the full responsibility of living expenses? Should this be dis- cussed before marriage? Have you any further advice to give widow. ers and widows, grandfathers and grandmothers getting married?

MRS. L. P.

ANSWER: To skip to your second question first, all problems that

give an indication of future trouble should be thoroughly discussed Thll PENCYD 985! to use. simple

about to offer her hand is certain that it will be agreeable, she will do well not to be loo hasty about making this advance.

Q. If individual salt and pep- pcr shakers are not used on the dinner table, how many should be provided?

A. Salt and pepper shakers should be placed between every two covers.

Q. when a girl is introducing the man she is to ina.i-ry, should she speak of him as her fiance?

A. Yes.

STOP PAYING FANCY PRICES

on high goals. with much incentive for forging ahead to desired ac- complishment and fulfillments. at the same time there might be soc- ial frusirations, sensitive and emotions. especially in dom- estic or romantic contacts. With tact, revision of approach. there is promise for ambitious plans and objectives, with ideals and dreams realized. For the Birthday

Those whose birthday it is may be subject to certain con-fllcts or complications, especially in their private life -- social or romantic aspirations and ideas may not be as harmonious as dcsired. Revised hopes and wishes may iiiatrrializc.

perhaps by 1 ct and diplomacy rather than orc'5d techniques. Keep suave. gracious but shrewd.

inaugurating new ideas of scope and magnitude. Such niay stimu- late interest from influential sources, convinced hy clever plans raihcr than personal or senil- mental appeal. Temprr roninniic urges.

A child born on this day is rich in talcnis. idcas and ideals for a successful, honored and happy life.

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with some measure of publ.c rec-

feelings A

9f;”.,f3,V ";3,f”,f, d','Q(f.',fl'"'fI"”.,f: Today employers and govern- h lnds gt the mm ments recognize the ne:d for E , . . '. something more than financial sec-

urily.

In The Journal of the American Medical Association. Phil N. Scheid B. Sc.. Chicago, wvrites of training the overage employee for retire- ment. He speaks of programs in

Granddaughter is sure, "She is a friendly more-you can tell by the way she says, ll-lallo' when )'0l1 come to the stable. Just listen!" she will say, her eyes shining as she waits for the animal's neigh. she can only pet the velvet muz- zles that in expectancy of a hand- ful of grain are thrust through above mangers to the feeding- -zloor. And we wish for some be- loved trusty old steed of the past. well-broken and quiet, born only it seemed, for such small ones '0 handle, to return to a stall.

for two groups: that is. employees already retired.

is the group type and the indivi- dual consultation programs. In the group type, some time before retirement the group of employ- ees ls organized in a series of five

Blacklq the dos, taking up I sessions. cach of" one hour dur- lavorile Vl'IW3llln8 Pl!” ll the alien. The following topics are izateway. in 9- pleased bark told us oovered: What Is Retirement?

Your Health. Planning Your Re- tirement, What Have Others Done? and. finally. A Round Table of Plans. The main feature of the group plan is the sharing of per- sonal plans and ideas that come through participation in a group-

of the teams' passing-sleighs log- laden, the drivers alighiing to ease the loads along the bare bridS95., These pieces of sawing are intend- cd -for present improvements in "that other barn." In some magi- cal way it is to be moved back from its site to angle its neighborlposslbly also. the formation of instead of partly concealing it as.fric-ndshtps which will develop and now. The interior is to be chang-lmaturehln retirement.

ed to provide for wider storing of In t e individual consultation hay and new quarters are to be Dfcgfam 501116 llme l'3Tl0l' l0 1'9-

mind and already in use planned .' poslseparation. p

and preseparation. employees who ;l will be retired wit.hin a short time. ' In preseiparation programs, there.

ogniiion.

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Tgiice Brooks Designs g

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l TWENTY-l-'.)lil: lll.'ltL.4 in col. lorl Old-fashioned girls and litiie IN 3 inosegays in soft pink. blue and green. Iron them on-no embroi- dery ne:ded! Washablc .-. use them on towels, sheets. pillowslips. all linens. Just add i'Ca.d,y made eyelet for edging! Pattern 7230 ll.I3 24 tliiee-color motifs from 1 x 2 to

4'.L- x 10 inches.

Send Twenty-nve cents in coin for ihis pattern fsiamps cannot be accepted) to ALICE BROOKS De- signs, cm The Guardian. 60 Front Street West. Toronto. Ontario Please print plainly Name. Address and Pattern Number.

Morning Smile

Friction 'fMy husband is a friction writer."

"Surely you mean flu-lion writ- -,..

'lNo. His books are

all about married life." Boaster "You are always boasting that

you were ihc model for in famous artist. For what picture?" asked a girl of her friend.

"For Cleopatra. and the snake." "Who was Cleopatra?”

horscs and such other over-flows of stock as find their way there. . . .

When remembering this only "the horse-barn" we enter to catc the sweet scent of hay on the feeding-floor we find these about: it row of next year's "feeders"- coming a year and not too bad for itheir age” James will tell you; av iwondering-eyed calf, you had not' Eexpecled to see will look up to Infect you and what have we over"

here? Ay. a pen or shoals? y . . . ,

We fancy on that morning when llhe dismantling of the present horse-stable with its qllalnl W00d- en harness pegs and other tokens of days now gone, will be under-l taken, it will be distresing to; James. who but his hands will! take down the kept shoes above the stalls? The dainty one, nailsl and all "Just as it came off her hoof" of one respected and lost; that of the old more of all or "the young mare" that in minds never grew up.

shall we. lips dumb. accept them to put away with other saved items. souvenirs of a past that was good? or perhaps, "afraid" one that we are, we shall slip away on an outing that day and no one shall suspect our motive has anything at all to do with the march of pro- gress and its momentary unset- tling demands at Alderlea.

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Through this March afternoon, the farmers hauled sawlogs to the mill.

Until tomorrow - -Diary- - Good-night . . . . . . .

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made to lost and launder. luxurious, exciting gowns, slips, petticoots and if panties that will delight the eye, fit

the figure and pamper the purse.

A! fine stores everywhere.

eteiy new line of Koyser

lingerie. Tailor-trim or frilly, in both nylon

Ieverly cut for counted

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Iiblman's Accessories

Summereide

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added to take care of stavbling thel

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tirement the employee and his supcrvisor are contacted hy the personnel unit and ar-nmgemcrits are made for a private consulta- tion. At such limes, the problems

h concerning his retirement arc re-

viewed and resolved as far as pos- sible. Actually, while we may think that financial problems are most important to th: mind of the em-

iployee. this is not always the cnsc.l

and therefore psychological prob- lems are given A thorough dis- CU55-lnli.

A new set or principles mzly iv: neccssaiy before we can effectively educate the overage adult to cope with the problems of his special concern. Considerable cooperation. work. and research contributed jointly by the mcdical and educa- tional professions will be neces- sary before an adequate solution to the problem of training the employee for retirement

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By Roberta Leo Weemxm

Oil Mop

A dry mop can be made into an oil map, or you can renew the oil moi) after washing by this method: Into a tin box large enough to contain the mop pour 2 table- spoons of paraffin oil. or 1 table- spoon each of linseed oil and spirits of turpentine. Tip and turn the box until the interior is fully coal- ed and then pour off the surplus. Put, the mop into the box. cover. and allow to stand 48 hours be- fore using.

Cold cream-

Gold cream can be made by mixing 2 tablespoons of oatmeal, li- tablespoon powdered borax. '12- pint rosewater. Allow this to stand for two or three days. then strain, and add 1.5-ounce of alcohol.

Old Powder Puffs Discarded powder puffs may be

washed and used for shoe or silver- ware polishcrs.

Cook's Corner

TOMATO-ONION SAUCE

Onion gives quite a bit of flavor emphasis in this combination which also features celery and tomato. The result is a truly in- teresting and flavorsome sauce, for serving on such things as spark- hetti, meat, fish, or been leaves or patties made with any of the same type of mixtures. Yield-5 servings of sauce.

4 medium-sized onions

I tablespoons butter or margar-

Vi cup thinly sliced celery

E6 teaspoon salt

1 can (10 ounces) condensed to-

mato soup

Peel the onions and cut eigliths lengthwise.

Heat the butter or margarine; add prepared onions and celery: sprinkle with the salt. Cover closely and cook gently. stirring occas- sionally. until vegetables are ten- der and lightly browned-about 20 minutes.

stir in the tomato soup. Cover and airmner. stirring occasionally, for 10 minutes.

Serve piping hot.

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sr ASPIRIN

before marriage. This is very important in financial matters. Com- plcfe agreement should be reached on income and spending programs. With middle-aged marriages. these problems are, of course. completely different than ey are with younger weddings.

A certain amount of financial security has usually been reached by the 50's, there is no question of providing for a family. and long-range saving is not as important a factor as it is in the 20's. However, since money is potentially al- ways a source of trouble, its management should be thoroughly established whenever matrimony is contemplated. Just exactly how you spend your incomes is a subject so dependent on personal tastes and obligations that it cannot be answered arbitrarily.

HE PAYS LIVING EXPENSES

Muriel

Nlnen Traditionally. the husband supports the fam- fly, in other words, pays all living expenses. tVhether you have an income or not, it is still the best practice to have his salary cover es- sential expenditures. Your income could be used supplementally, to supply luxuries that otherwise could not be had, such as a car. travel, or special clothes.

By the time ii man or woman has passed the mid-ccnlury mark, temperament and disposition are usually settled in a definite groove. Ofttimes the desire for companionship, the drcnd of loneliness, leads to m.-irriage with an incompatible mate and subsequent unhappiness ihiit is for worse than solitude. This is the chief source of trouble in m.-irriiige between oldsiers, and its possibilities should be thoroughly wcigiiml.

'1'Iiiil the difficulties are by no means always present. or insur- mountable. is seen in the many, many marriages hetwecn grandfathers and grandmothers that are congenial, happy and rewarding. Two ii.-irmhnious pcopln, with similar tastes and hobbies. can make a fine m:irri.-ige, soiling a splendid example even for ihcir grandchildren.

Di-I.-'il't MISS DIX: I'm ri girl of 14 with a problem that is very serious to me. I know and like rs very nice boy of 16. When he comes over, uhicii isn't often, I go out to talk with him. and I don't see anything wrong in that. I stay in our driveway. However. the min- me I get. out my faihcr shouts at me very rudely to come back in. If he would only speak gently I wouldn't mind so much. It gets the boy mall at me instead of at my father.

JOAN S. ANSWER: kvhy do you have to go outside to speak with your hny friend? Your parents should permit you to have him in the

house: then there would be no cause for shouting or embarrassment. At 14. you should be allowed to go to a school dance or basketball game with a hay, or to an occasional early movie, or a neighborhood party. But most important. you should be permitted to entertain your fricnds at home, with your parents' co-operation.

I had been married eight months when my husband was sent overseas. He has been gone two months. A few days ago I received a letter from one of my old flnmcs. Knowing I was ninrrird, he wrote me a letter that was practically a love letter, reminding me of "the good old days." I only had n school courtship with this boy. and liked him very much but have no feelings toward him now since I have found another and married. Should I answer his letter and tell him not to write any more. or ignore it? PAULINE R.

ANSWER: To put the period of finality to the episode, write and loll ihe man that you don't wish to hear from him any morn. and that you consider his letter in very bad taste. The matter should end there. .

' DEAR MISS DIX:

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2. Apply lotio'n...r;g timing lg

3. Brush out

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to sew. is tested form. Has com- plete illustrated instructions.

send Thirty-five Cents (sac) in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern. Print plainly size, Name, Address, style Number. V

Send order to ANNE ADAMS, cfo of The Guardian, 00 From street west. Toronto, Ontario.

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By Anne Ashley

Q. perly?

A. when icing a cake. pile all the icing in the center of the cake and then smooth it out evenly over the sides. If the knife. which is used to smooth the icing, is first dipped inio,hot water, a. smoother appearance will be added to the cake. Q. glass A. Use a regular rteel drill. and keep the point of contact satur- ated with caxnnphorated oil or lur- penline. You will be surprised at the ease with which this is done

How can I ice a cake pro-

?How can I bore a hole in

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Q. llancy of furniture polish”?

A. Add a teaspoon of vinegar to each Clllp of furniture polish.

ive with shoe polish.

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sh looks just like

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misspelled? Benignity, bctrothal.

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i. What is wrong with this sea-

H icnce? "I did not know he was that T. is will also prove equally effcct- old."

2. What is the correct pronunc-

is t ion of "a.mperage"7

3. which one of these words is

benificial, bereavement.

4. what does the word "fess-

ible" mean?

5. What is a word beginning

with ad that means "praise"?

ANSVVEB-S

1. Say. "I did. not know he was 0 old." or. "as old as that." 2.

Pronounce am-per-ag. first a as in

m. e as in see. second a as in age.

accent second syllable. 3. Benefic- ial. 4. Capable of being done, or

"It is the it proves feasible." 5.

flccted; practicable. if

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