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, from a trip to Boston with her

His Honour Lieutenant Governor I. A. D. McCurdy of Nova Scotia arrived in Charlottetown on Thursday for a short visit. Be- sides addresslng....the..caledonlan Club gathering on the eve of St. Andrew's, he called at Govern- ment House and the Legislative Building. and signed the visitors' book in the Confederation Cham- her.

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Mr. and Mrs. J. W. MacKinnon and son James Gordon left on Tuesday for Ottawa, where they will take up residence.

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Mrs. Noel H. DeBiois entertain- Id at. bridge on Wednesday after- noon and also entertained a few lrlends for the tea hour on Thurs- day.

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Mrs. W. W. Reid entertained at

bridge on Thlll'S(iil)' evening. 0 C O

Mr. and Mrs. T. D. Del3lois have returned from a motor trip to Bos- ton. Mass.

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Miss Harriet Christie, Dean of the United Church Training School In Toronto, is touring the Mari- times, and visited Charlottetown on Wednesday before going on to Summerside.

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Mr. G. W. St. John Chadwick of the United Kingdom Informa- tion Office in Ottawa. accompan- Ied by his wife and son, is guest at "The Charlottetown".

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Mrs. R. R. Bell has returned

mother, Mrs. Benjamin Rogers. 0 o .

Mrs. Eric Dewling and her chil- dren left for Halifax yesterday morning, where they will join Mr. Dewling.

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Mr. W. P. Warner, Director Gen- eral of Treatment Services, De- partment of Veterans' Affairs at Ottawa, is a guest at "The Char- lottetown".

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Dr. and Mrs. Mcciennigan of Moncton. N. B., spent a few days in the city re.cently..

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Mr. and Mrs. J. W. Fraser of I-Ialifaxvwere guests at "The Char- lottetown" this week.

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Mrs. J. Wilfred Lecky entertain- ed at her home in Summerside at .a supper bridge on Monday eve- nlng.

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Miss Barbara Siiliphant, who re- ieently received her R. N. from ;McGill University visited this Hweek in Ottawa with F70 and Mrs. Alan Heale (the former Charlotte Tompkins) before re- turning to her home in Summer- Iide this evening. .

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Miss Elayne Enman of Sum- merside was hostess at six tables of bridge on Thursday night at Robson's Restaurant.

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Miss Anna Smith, B.Sc, of Mount Allison University arrived from Halifax, N. S., and on Mon- day began her duties as dietician In the new Prince County Hos- pltal.

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Miss Betty Lou MacKsy. of Sum- merside was hostess at bridge on Tuesday evening.

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Miss Keith Moiiison. with her two children, will leave Summer- side in the near future to take up residence in Germany for where her husband Lt. Moiiison left on Wednesday.

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Mrs. William R. Morrison en- tertained at her home in Sum- merside Wednesday evening when bridge was in play.

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Mrs. Norman Smith (the form- er Janet Baker of Summerslde) is the guest of Miss Mary Palmer.

lhppenings The Week

was hostess at her home on Wed-

Summerside, entertained at mixed bridge on Wednesday evening. 0 O I

Time's hand is past

Mrs. Hazel Dystant was hostess at her home ton Wednesday eve- ning when Canasta was in play.

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Mrs. Harry Barlow, Sumfnerside.

nesday evening at a baby shower, honoring Deborah, the new daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Hark- ness.

0 0 0 PVC Claire (Jo) Foote of the R. C. A. F. Station was a wel- come guest at bridge at Robson's Restaurant inst pwt-ek.

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Mrs. Neil R. Durant, formerly of Summerside, resigned her pos- ition in Vancouver. BC. and is now in Hoiiister. California.

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Mr. and Mrs. William Hayward.

Among those entertaining for Mr. and Mrs. J. W. Macl(innon before their departure were Dr. and Mrs. Frank Macliinnon. Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Brennan and Mr. and Mrs. J. E. Burnett. O O I

The annual Scouter and Guider

Dance was held at ”The Chur- lottetown" last night, when the Guide and Scout leaders were

guests of the Association. 0 O 0

Miss Edith Bernard entertained at tea recently in honour of Miss Noreen Johnston, who has left to take up residence in the United States. Mrs. J. A. Gallant presid- ed over the tea table while Miss Edith Bernard and Mrs. John Myrick, .lr.. assisted in serving.

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iiam Warshick. following their marr Anglican Church. Summerside, on they are:

heeded on his knee

"Time is a strange element" she mused. ”I sometimes wonder" she went: on" if folks were given back their lives to live over. would they fall into the same paaem they made! or in the light of the wis- dom and understanding gained in a lifetime, would they live them

ELLEH'S DIARY

By us Island Farmers Wife

Another week is gone. Ay, one more week of days meted out by and ever- gone as surely as is the ,waste water through the gates in the

dam . . . past any recapture and

certainly "past. a' remend."

There can be no return of those hours. They may not come again fresh-dawned st. morning, an in- viting challenge to us on awaklng. nor may we once more farewell them in the darkness as sleep claims our eyes. Neither wish nor wealth can now bring back even I segment of a fleeting hour. or would we have them, bearing again towards us our share of their perplexities, their indeci- slons, their delights.

Or if we could recall them. in the light of the added experience in living they gave, should we live them any differently? It is a fas- cinating question

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Not long ago we were privileged to overhear the conversation of an elderly couple, two who had come a long way up the years together. They chatted of bygone days and the old ways. of a time when their world was young. And it was good to hear . . . of those times when at this season "wooden ships and iron men" carried Island potatoes -the whites and the reds and the

better?" And he gallant and envi- ably wise in his borrowed years commented with a chuckle: "I really dont know. But I am con- fident that if I had anything to say about the matter, we should still be living them togetherl"

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And so our week is gone-spent in a laugh, a tear or a sigh, yet. lived as best we know. Or has it been our best. we have given to each day? Wisdom we would ask in the peace and serenity of this night. - a wisdom to't.each what is best. with Edna Jacques we might pray:

"Oh. give me wisdom, bard . . . that. I may see

The hidden path that Thou hast set for me.

Let. me be glad for little simple things,

(Wise to take gladly what the morning brings).

Let me be quick to feel another:

woe, Wise in the way our

troubled hearts must go. oh, give me patience too. and quiet grace, To make a home of any modest place.

And make me cheery, Lord. there is so much

In smiling lips and loves redeem. ing touch.

"blues" to Sydney and other Maritime ports; of the age of spinning and weaving hi the homes . . .the flannels and drug. gets, the carpets and rugs; of bus- tie! and bonnets and crinollnes; of open voting and odd-named tav- erns, feminine bees and-stern barn- raisins: and stumping-frolics and the now-quaint customs and do- ings of those yesteryears.

O I I They spoke quietly of the old school-mates, mostly gone now to attend another school. And for 3 minute she forgot to knit. on the

Laurentian Terrace, Ottawa, while her husband FILL Smith is on course in the United Kingdom.

N-Ivv wvus.

Alice Brooks Designs

tiny stocking taking form on her needles and he let his book lie un.

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FAME FOB BABY

NEW BABY in the family? cro- chet this -adorable set! And be sure to keep t.hLs pattern handy. One of these items makes a wel- come gift for a friend's baby!

shell and puff-stltichesl Jacket, cap, one piece each. Pattern 71:5; crochet directions 4 items.

Send 'nvsnty-ave cents in coins for this pattern (stamps cannot be accepted) to ALICE BROOKS De- signs, cm The Guardian, so Front Street West. Toronto, Ontario. Please print plainly Name. Address, Pattern Number.

And when the day ands. let mo humbly see That I have walked its way . . . in step with Thee." Until Monday - - Diary - .- Good-night . . . .

The Stars Say - -

By Genevieve Kembla

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For Tomorrow

IT may be difficult to make serious progress or practical head- way under the strong urge to ex- travagance. self-indulgence, or other drives of festivity or week- end celebratlon. Over-expansion in feelings, emotions, or an erratic fling ini.o novel, strange or dra- matic adventure, might be costly, extravagant, with ,, little satisfac- tion for excms, speculation or careless handling of funds. High- flying conduct may rniscarry.

If It Is Your Birthday

Those whose birthday it is may find themselves torn between con- flictlng and alluring tendencies. while there seems to be I mood of the over-enthusiastic. flamboy- ant and expansive, with an urge to indulge invpecuiiar. novel and exciting adventumsr-it the aims time there is I pull toward the conservative or tight-flstod. Dis- cretion may be "the better part of valor," should emptzatlons to any form of over-indulgence arise. A child born on this day. while predisposed to be zealous. expan- sive. given to optimistic you-nings.

Shown above with their wedding attendants are Mr. and Mrs. Wil-

Mr. Ross Macxenzie. groomsman; Mr. bride, formerly Min Ruby Alice Key, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George

Wed At St. Mary's Church,

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iage which took place at St. Mary's November 7th. From left. to right Warsnick and his

lThai Body Of Your;

By James W. Barton. MD.

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BLOOD PRESSURE AND EMO- TIONAL DISTUBBANCES

I have written before about the professional boxer who motored about 250 miles an hour by car to get. weighed in at 2:00 p. m. for a bout at. 8:00 p. m. On his trip the car went into a ditch and turned over a couple of times, but he was unhurt. Unfortunately, he had a heart murmur. not cuncommon at his age, and his heart and blood pressure were not quite normal, due to the accident, when he was examined at. 2:00 p. m. The exam- ining physician stated that if there was any improvement, however slight. at 8:00 p. m. he'd allow him to box, as he felt that the emo- tlonal disturbance of the motor accident. may have affected his heart and blood pressure.

Thai. emotional disturbances can affect the heart even more than physical effort has been known for a long time to physicians; therefore. when a patient is well known to the physician, the phy- sician makes allowance for this in his examination.

In Geriatrics (diseases of the elderly), Dr. H. A. Rusk reports his experience with a group of 35 patients. including 18 men and 17 women about half of whom were

given electrocardlograph (which record the regular or ir- regular workings The majority

blood pressure; some true organic

tions. ' Electrocardlograph

lay on a bed while he was inter- viewed. The physician. who was familiar with the paitienifs history, directed the conversation from time to time to topics known to be disturbing to the patient. At other times. the patient was asked to relax or was diverted by a pleas- ant. conversation. grams were taken at frequent in- tervals during the interview. Notes were made of the patient's behav- ior, movements, voice and remarks.

state. The patient was then given flights of stairs and in, no case did the blood pressure rise as high as at emotional peaks during the in-

terview. . -The lesson hero is that while

most of us. as we grow older, are careful not to take heavy exercise, slowing our pace while Willing and avoiding lifting heavy obj ts. we may allow ourselves to become upset about even small matters of our daily life.

Q. When. for any reason. the hostess of a dance cannot or does ' not da-ncs, should the men guests ask her to dance anywsy? ,

A. it isn't necossry to ask her to dance. but each man should

years to a man three years my senior.

pltal and my to have a chi before we married that I'm not the home type. world and office work as much as I detest housework. He thought I feel he is unhappy. but also feel I'd be foolish to have a baby and make all three of us miserable.

ANN P.

I'd change. but I haven't.

over 45 years of age. They were all to find.

natural one.

to Ohm” 3-" 1493 91' his 9m0Wm31 your reluctance to your mother.

place.

tlrely out of order.

be nearly as hard on you 5. you 19".

-Photo by Heckbert.

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NoMC1hildren

Working Wife Denies Husband Offspring

DEAR MISS DIX:

him so. at home and have proved it

years and if I still didnt want

wouldn't have any.

my mother.

ANSWER: You arenlt seekinguidvice as much as you are looking for justification of your own course.

YOU'LL TIDE OF JOO

Even the best business careers wear themselves out. You're young now but the time is not far off when you'll just be a middle-aged hanger-on in the office: when the sound of the alarm clock -in the morning will be the most unwelcome sound in the world and a day's work will tire you out completely. Those gay evenings out will also lose their appeal and the companionship of a houseful of youngsters mectmcumop gvill be the one thing you ll long for most. Few women love the rudgery of many household tasks, but they all accept them as part

of a Job to be done-and a most rewarding job. busy life will become a thing of rebukbs and recrlmlnation. are the facts to be faced. Your husband is certainly correct in attributing a large part ofl borne healthy children-often WlChGilrel!'ln:flOcl'l1blfraIIfler you huel exercise equal to climbing four smug, ' an 9' WEN" You are not facing a very ha fu r . . band will bicker over this momepfiltbus t:u:sti:H"f3 Ho!flei:rn(r!nd'r(')el"y4:il:'.s, ghen he will resentfuliy resign himself to a childless future while you ecome bitter over his unreasonable wishes, or you'll end in divorce,

If you are sincere in wanting constructive advice. I suggest a marriage Counselor. clergyman. doctor or psychiatrist. Through per- sonal interviews they may get an insight into your character um; will produce satisfactory results in your dilemma.

DEAR MISS DIX:

Don't let other girls needlessly alarm you

nono-my mix 9 esnn W" problem. M "Mm rnu:;::YthP:;:::u;:r?ol:.df:fI but will ans-

coupie should go out, etc., but she has 0 for not wanting to see me have a baby. been ill most of my life; ten years were spent on and off in a hos- mother, of course, would worry herself sick if I were id and makes no secret of the fact. My husband knew I love the business

Key; Mrs. Richard Rogerson, matron of honour; the ushers, LAO Alan Gordon and LAO Herbert Forrestal. Front row, left to right. are the, bridesmaids, Mus Ruby Warsiilck and Mrs. George Key. Jr. The groonii; is the son of Mr. Michael Warshick and the late Mrs. Warshicls oil Saskatoon, sasls.

iiuonoinv DIX sus-

I am 24. and have been married for three We go out a lot. have wonder-

ful times and we both work. We both have very good positions from a salary viewpoint and otherwise. having a baby.

He, however, keeps talking about He told me prior to our marriage-even before we were engaged-that he eventually wante I, on the other hand, never want one and told I just don't like children; I

Rather than settling the problem before we were married, we just agreed to wait about ten children. Now my husband keeps talk- ing about a baby and blames my lack of desire on True. she has always said a young ther grounds I have

That, I'm afraid. will be hard One of the worst mistakes a young couple can make is to tests marry when there is such divergence on so vital a matter as this. Since you and your husband were so set on the baby question be- of me heart), fore marriage, you were both foolish to go ahead with the wedding. hm, compimmg Problems that are not definitely settled before marriage become more which had to do with heart. and involved as time goes on-they never simplify themselves. I can give you plenty of arguments against the. stand you are 0, ,t,ucm,-,1 defects. and ache;-5 taking: most of them have probably been presented to you already ,m,1buu,b1e p,1,m,,11y to ma mm. by your husband or by friends who realize your attitude is an un- However. you are in no mood to rece ve advice. uechodas are determined to pursue a business career and I don't think anyone

were attaclsed to the patient, who 9”" 5w" WW

In time your happy,

I hope so.

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But am petrified when I tHl:k iifntlfeeirfkfatlgnntlxctneifllubobrofdlge From the stories I hear I know I can never mind n 1 am told that the seniors use straps to whip the freshmen. One girl

told me she was black and blue for days. I would mg. 1., 1,. .

coward. ANSWER: Your older sorority it JANE ' frighten you. If such brutal practise: ears. 32f3H51"'J.”. tim?i'r::

'"m"'0"- "'9 dun 01 your school should be informed as they are en A lifte group of students was recently expelled

from s New Y k Cit in h "me you ducigbe. Y I school for initiation far less severe than

The initiation won't

(I a child.

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we

You

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Morning Smile f Ill nldlllf

allowance when I sent you to col-

hsve had some trouble in meeting your creditors”

father. I assure you. It has been all I could do to keep out of their way."

smith: "What made tiwt sod mark on your nosef."

Schmaltz: "Glaues."

Smith: "How many glazes?”

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she was the kind of woman who could be relied on to say the wrong thing. At. a diner party. she turned to her neighbor and said: "Can you tell me who that terrlbie-look- ing man is over there?"

"I can." he replied. ”I'hat.': my brother." He thomuzhly PHJOYM

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.m.....m...Mm her disoomfituro during tin. wk, ward pause while she racked )1” brain for something to say to cover her unfortunate remark.

"Oh. I be: your pardon," 5),, stammei-ed. "How silly of me not to have noticed the resemblance."

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"sit out" one dance with her.

. What are the mat. appro- :priatas "bon voyage" gifts?

A. Books, candy, flowers and

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