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MARY HAWORTH

who is on the defensive against

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6 The Guardian, Charlottetown, Wed., Sept. 15, 1965. j

Wife Worried By Husband Who Just Doesn't Think

Dear Mary Haworth: I have means of putting her at a disad- just finished reading your partis- vantage, when the mood seized an answer to VV, the young wife him to punish her with a humili- ating sense of personal inferior-— her husband's demands that she ity and inadequacy in relation | become well informed on world to him.

VV's essential problem, disclo-

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ELLEN’S DIARY

| To Move The

So it was that this morning, after the chores about were \done, our farmers went out to move the cook-house of which \James spoke last night before pens It sits only -a- few

steps from the kitchen door of a)

\farmhouse that, back in ‘he lyears was added with its fields jo this farm, providing thus a ieonvenient right-of-way for far-

Simers and machines to Rob's © \land, which up the valley, lies

jnext. Formerly that farm. kept \its family The home was a hap-

aa \py abode and kindly. The barns

;and sown in good

AND MRS. NELLO NICOLE

MR.

Brother Of Bride Performs

A September wedding Was Quay aie and Deno Nicoli, aniemnized at our Lady of Fati- |brother of the groom, of. Chica- ma Church, St. Laurent, Quebec, | go, Ill. when Margaret Shea, daughter | Following the wedding cere- ow Mrs. Wilfred J. Shea and the mony, a reception was held at {ate Mr. Shea: Tignish, became |Mount Royal reception centre. the bride of Nello Nicoli, son of |Mrs. Shea» mother. of the bride

> |husband feels »|failed to get her husband's view- i¢ bias, which finds outlet ia |point across to you, or you deli- browbeating her when he berately refuse to bee sympathe- most dissatisfied with himself. tic to him.

blem exists, in reverse: Itis my help, in freeing herself from husband who isn’t well inform- emotional bondage to his emot- ed. It's not that he is uneducat-

I think I know exactly how her sed in her letter, is how to cope And either VV with her husband's sick, neurot-

is 1 advised her to get first - hand In my marriage, the same pro- family relations counselli mg

ional misconduct on that score. Now, in the light of the above

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ed. He is a college graduate and

reader, as VV says she is. And I am not asking him for formation of an

the impatient inquirer should research for himself.

band, be more aware of what is going on in the world; to rea-

jtimes.

‘pect doesn't cause me to love

Mrs. J. Nicoli of Sudbury, Ont-!received wearing a sheath jac- Brio ket dress of blue lace over silk on and, moreover, while The double ring -marriage C€- with elbow length sleeves. Her holds to a rather narrow view

remony was performed by Vere or has no view at all.

accessories were white with a.

Rev. Howard’. Shea, SFM _ of |eorsage of red roses. The! VV's husband's complaint. as Toronto brother of the bride. Nu-| groom's mother wore a sheath quoted by het, that “everybody ptial mass was celebrated by ian of black lace. over beige knows the answers but her, Rev. Claude Shea, Squadron ‘six with matching hat and,sums up my case against my Leader of No. 3 wing RCAF ‘Sta- plack accessories. Her corsage husband: It seems he is- unaware tion, Germany, brother of the |was of red ‘roses. or, or ‘insensitive to, a continu- bride. Assisting in serving were | s of the ing stream of publicized, widely Rov and Paul:Kennedy. Granby ite ous Ete 8 tases discussed —_current Que. nephews of the bride. Ap- jy.) Cheng proposed a toast to |ion that most people absorb and propriate hymns were played |i) iide to which the groom fit-jtake for granted. Evidently he during the mass by the church |)-1 0, responded. For a honey- and others like him are content | organist be moon tri. to the New England to cling to a fixed amount

The bride, -ziven in; marriage istates and the Maritimes and knowledge and never enlarge- by her. brother Sidney, wore 8''+, her home. the bride chose a|their thinking. L.P. full length gown of white organ-* white linen dress with flowered| Dear L'P.: You may recall za_over silk taffeta with a det-jtgp and matching three quart-|that I explained to VV that her achable train, her headpiece_jer jength coat with white acces- quiz - sessions are designed to was one large flower holding A tag, She wore a corsage of |demoralize, not to enlighten.

_ three-tier-elhow veil. The bride's lorchids. “he newlyweds wilk! Thus even if she could prepare

only jewellery wasa_ single reside in Pojnte. Claire, Quebec, herself to provide full answers | vtrand of cultured pearls |where both are employed on the ,to his hostile curved-ball quest- and ear ringsa gift of the stage of St. Thomas’ _ High ions, still he wouldn't be appea- groom, and She carried a Casca- schoo}. - * | ged or disarmed.

de of stephanotis with miniature | Besides the members of the Rather, he would simply feel | Rarnatons tiated Wi SIRF. immediate families the follow- himself obliged to find other-|

The matron of honor, Joan) ing guests were present: Mrs. T.. pram Lagne, sister of the bride, wore ||, Matthews and sons Bill and bride's only jewellery was a a full length, sheath dress ~ of | john of Boston, Mass.: Mr. and single strand of pearls. a gift of pale blue peau - de - soie and |Mrs. Fred Esposito, Toronto; Al- the groom. A‘‘lovers .knot’’ of | her headpiece was a pale blue /fred Giattali, Sylvia and Christ- feathered orchid carnation: with pillbox hat. She carried @ -bou- ine Gelardo of Sudbury, Ont.; pink roses was carried by the quet of yellow and white daisies. |Andrew Pinachetti of St. Cath- bride.

Richard Nicdli: brother of the | arines, Ont.; Sheila Arbuckle, Bridesmaids were _—_ Arlene grocm: of New York City was Ottawa,’ Oni.; Patrick Landri- Clow, Charlottetown, and Bren- | best »man., gan, Ont. and Rev. John Cheng, da Stead. sister of the bride. |

Ushers-were—Leigh-Shea,-bro-Scarhoro, Ont... They wore watching floor. length ther of the bride, from Chateau-| (PENS ty Kaley sow rs of turquoise—organae

: - over silk. Their headdresses 4 were of pink carnations on white | / |satin bows and they carried flo- 3 jTal designed wedding rings and |

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Bay Fortune United Church Scene Of August Nuptials

AND MRS. BARRY WILSON

Sprigs of lily of the valley tied Cggnwall who sang, with white satin bows marked voice that Breathed O'er Eden” the pews, and baskets of assort- during the signing of the reg- ed flowers and candlebra decor- | ister. ated the alter of Bay Fortune, The bride entered the church United Church when Rev. Ron- on the arm of her uncle, Wallace ald Pocklington performed the Stead, wearing a floor length double - ring ceremony ‘which gown of white taffeta, designed nnited Laura Isabel Stead’ and*with bateau neckline, lace top, Wellington Barry Wilson on Au- and lily poind? sleeves. The em- gust 14, 2965. pire waistline was accented with

The bride is the daughter of a fitted waistband of taffeta and Mrs. Brenton Stead, Bay For- tied in the back with a lace bow.

tuné, and the late Mr.

groom is the a ae Ford Wilson, Cornwall, med with matching lace PEI fi ‘headdress was a four tier,

Wendell Stevenson, Souris, shoulder - length veil of bridal Se ing iyi and tilusion eenennacen a—taffeta

se “Ruth Hansen

* | dress which matched

‘T he chose a two piece suit of pink

of|crown of lace and pearls. The!

pink .carnations.

The flowergirl. Nancy Stead, |

_ niece of the bride, wore a floor |

Hength gown of pink and a head- those of! the bridesmaids. She carried a| basket of pink carnations and” | streamers.

_| The best man was Liovd How-

ard, cousin of the groom. The ushers were Bruce Stead. brot- her of the bride and Norman Po- | well. |

For the reception at Fortune ;Bridge Community Centre. the ibride’s mother received in .a |silk shantung dress of powder, blue with matching jacket. She ichose a white lace hat and mat- jching accessories in white. Her |corsage was of pink carnations. | The bridegroom’s mother ichose a cream and gold embos-|

;et.-Her_hat.and accessories. were ‘of beige and brown and she ;wore a corsage of Talisman roses. ; The guest book was circulat- ed by Sandra Wilson, sister of | |the groom. ‘ a | Mrs. Howard Wood, neizh- jbour of the bride, made the |three - tier wedding cake which; ;centered the head table. The

jcake was topped with miniature’ -

doves carrying wedding bands. . Two bride's cakes pn each side of the wedding cake were flank- led by tapers and assorted flow- lers. The toast to-the bride was pro- posed by the master of ceremo- mies and cousin of the « bride, Barry Diamond, to which the groom responded. A toast to the bridesmaids was proposed by the best man. For the honeymoon to Ottawa and Niagara Falls. the bride

boucl,e with black and pink ace- essories and corsage of pink roses. The counle are residing in Cornwall, P.E.1.

The out of the province guests included: Mr. and Mrs. Wallace Stead. Phillip Stead and daugh-

‘New Glasgow: Mr.

ised dress with’ matching jack-|

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very—intelligent, though a. slow review of VV's predicament response thereto, do share encyclopedic her husband's tormentor - atti- about modern history, geo tude that his wife should ance to.| | graphy, etc., which, as you say, his tune, conversationally? I doubt it; I thirk you will rea- | lize that your quarrel in marti | What I do ask is that my hus- age. whatever it is, differs some-

and my you still insist that you

what from theirs.

Ceremony AtSt. Laurent, P.Q | As I get the picture, you have ere y . / ° * lize that new facts, ideas and jie in common with your hus-

opinions are being formulated band, intellectually and temper- | jand circulated in our changing smentally.. Vexed by this state ; you ventilate your | His shortcoming in this: res giscontent by nagging and pres- , suring him to become more like him less; but it is very frustr- yoy, in cerebral reaction to life. ating to try to have a conversat- To this pressure he reacts with ional exchange with him, when mylish obstinacy, woodenly re- he is so unaware of what's going |fysing to relax his resistance to

of affairs,

your campaigning.

With a different sort of woman, naturally endowed with a less) oq recently aggressive, less demanding ap- Roman Catholic

RECENT

The wedding of Mr. and Mrs. Pat Orcutt was solemniz- at St. Peter's Church,

proach __to__conversationa] con-| Seven Mile Bay..The bride

tact, he might,be a much more. expansive, speculative, discurs-

ive harnessmate.

In any case, if he doesn’t force | inf t- his allegedly ‘‘fixed’” brand of seats thinking upon you, if he owes | you free to fashion your line of |

thinking as you choose, WEY! Retty Jov Nicolle and Geral-\recent visitors at the™home of

dine Harris have returned home Ray Laird and family at ‘North. Harbour after spen- Rustico. George W. Brown and. ding two weeks in Ottawa visit- Mrs. Brown of Montreal are}

of don’t. you undertake the gener- equal freedom - to-be, without feeli ng | too heroic or martyred about it?

ous aim of allowing h

M.H.

is the former Judy Keough of

; MR. AND MRS. PAT ORCUTT

WEDDING

\tbany, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Dan Keough and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Orcutt, The cou- ple are now residing in Lon- don, Ont

HAPPE

NINGS

Audrey Jenkins. Women’s Editer, Phone 45506

to Murray

ing with \iss Harris’ brother

‘Don, who is with the RCAF

Mary Hawroth counsels Rockiliffe

through her column, not by mail Write Mrs.

or personal interview. her in care of The Guardian. -

\brother, Dewitt Brown,

» Spending this week with — their

in mother, Mrs. George Grown and

daughters at Beachgrove.

Gordon Laird and- heft Mrs, Mary “Abigail Lane and were Mrs. Maybell Matilda .MacDon-

MR. AND MRS. STERLING 0. BOWNESS

A summer wedding took place recentlyat the United Baptist Church, Summerside, when Kathleen Silvia, only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Elmer J. Newson, Sr. became -the bride of Sterling Opie Bow- ness, son of Mr. and Mrs. Oli- ver Campbell of Kensington, at a double ring ceremony performed by Rev. Robert P. Matthews. Bridal attendants were maid of honor, Carol New-

Couple Observe 50th Anniversa

COLORFUL WEDDING

son, sister - in-law of the bride and bridesmaids Linda Cross- man and Jayne Moriarty. Karen Newson, niece f the bride, was flower girl. Follow- ing the reception, the couple left on a trip to Boston, Cape; Cod, Rhode Island and the White Mts. of New Hamp shire. The newlyweds are re- siding in Kensington, P.E.I.

(Photo hy Heckbert Studio)

jnoon were Mrs. R. Derry, the ‘former Minnie Judson of Pow- \nal and Mrs. G. LeRuez, former: lly Hazel MecRae, of Mt. Buch- lanan. During the evening, Mrs.

Mr. and Mrs. Donald N. Bu-|David Buchanan poured.

ter Deborah, and Norman Pow- chanan, formerly of Mt. Bucham-| Mr. and Mrs. Buchanan have ell, all of Truro: Sandra Wilson, 8". P.E.I. held open house at five children: John A. of Hamil-

and Mrs. the home of their son and dau-|ton, Ont: Jean (Mrs. Currie) of

Arthur Homer and son Leigh, ghter-in - law in Hamilton, Ont. /stoney Creek: Mary (Mrs. Thom-

Dalhousie. N.B.; Ruben Wilson, 0" August 22nd to observe their | pson)

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Stead, The A-line skirt and the watteau Thedford. Ont.: Mrs. Albert E. 80lden wedding anniversary. son of Mr. train ‘from the waist) was trim- Peterson; Mrs. William Lovorn Mrs. Buchanan was the ‘for-; Doris ‘Mr< Her and daughter Ruth Ann. North mer Cora- Lee Docherty of ton. All five children along with Carolina; Mrs. Richard Davey Cherry Valley. The couple were/17 grandchildren and 5 great and -ons, Warren and Andrew. married in Belfast Manse by grandchildren were present at a the late Rev. J. W_.MacKenzie. family dinner held at George's (Phote by C. D. MacKay) Pouring tea during the after- Banquet Hall.

Caledonia; Mase

Margaret Burnaby, B.C.: lepine) of Hamil-

|(Mrs.

ald of Quincy, Mass., have re- turned home after spending two weeks vacation on P.E.1., guests ,of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jenkins of Little Harbour.

Mrs. Arnie Jacobson (nee Viola Munn, Hopefield) was a recent visitor to the province. | While here, she was the guest \of her brother Daniel Munn, |Murray River. She left on re- |turn via Mogcton, N.B., where ‘she will visit her brother, Arthur

Munn, before proceeding to her

‘home in Victoria, B.C.

typhi H. Stewart has sold his

|property in Glen William and is now a guest at the Beaton Home, |Murray Harbor. se

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| George Halliwell has returned }to-his home in Philadelphia“ after | Spending a holiday in Summer- | Side with his aunt, Mrs. Marga- ret Grady and members of her * family.

Mrs. Lexie MacDonald, Mrs. Georgie Llewellyn; John Irving, Seymour Henderson and son Eric motored to Orland, Maine

to attend the funeral of their bro-|

ither and uncle, Elzie J. -Hender- json who was killed instantly in |a car accident.

Kathy Stuart-— returned by |plane to her home in Montague

‘following a delightful holiday!

spent in British Columbia, where

she visited her brother and sis-|

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sheltered well, the horses and cattle, the pigs and the fowls, jand the snug fields yielded their \erops. All there was’ faithfully tended. Fields were cultivated time, crops tended, harvests taken, and the iplowing completed in advance of the “hard’’ frosts. The chor- jing was observed according to the clock. However the years jaged its folks and brought sad ‘changes, and in the turn of events the farm™was added to ‘our holdings to the north. Since ‘then the barns shelter some of jthe members of this herd, and the flock of sheep come down

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iter - in-law, Lieut. and Mrs. Ro- jbert A. Stuart. Kathy was one of ithe girl guides representing the province at Camp Tsoona in B.C. during the first part of Au- igust. On her return, Kathy also visited relatives in Ontario.

Mrs. M. W: Colp of Bridge- | water, N.S.. and Mr. and Mrs Warren Colp and daughter Nancy of Vancouver, B.C.

| Spent a few days in Montague,

}guests of Capt. and Mrs. A. A. Mosher.

|. Mrs. Phyllis Edgar of Boston |is visiting at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Elmer Knox and family in Peter's Road.

Capt. and Mrs. A. A. Mosher,

Montague and Mr. and Mrs. David Mosher. Charlottetown, spent the holiday weekend. in Cape Breton.

“Th honor of her approaching marriage, Marjorie MacKay, Margate was tendered a _prenu- ptial shower at Molly Van Mayhew. The bridal chair was decorated in ellow and white and bride to be was attended by Molly Van Mayhew. Gifts. were wheeled in by Brenda Collett and opened by Betty Palmer and. Anne Campbell, jand accompanying wishes-were read by Beverley MacLeod and Diane Waite: Kaye Walker and/ Joan Simmons arranged the) gifts. Refreshments were later served.

P.E.I. Delegate Elected As | CWL Officer |

JASPER, Alta. ‘(CP)—Cather- ;ine Toal of London, Ont., was re-elected president of the 180,- 000-member._ Catholic Women's, League of Canada Wednsday.,

Miss Toal has been a league |member since the group was or- -ganiz@ nationallyin- 1920.-She- has been a national officer in~ some capacity since 1928. |

Delegates to the league's 45th annual convention also elected Mrs. H. T. Donihee of Cornwall, -Ont., as first. vice-president. | | Others elected were: Mrs: Va-) lentine Fabris of Winnipeg, sec- ond vice-president; Miss Iphi-

| genie Arsenault of Chariotte- |

town, third vice-president and Mrs. J. C.. Macneil of Moncton, secretary-treasurer. ° National -conveners are ap- pointed by the new president | in consultation with the league’s director, Most Rev. T. J. Me- Carthy, bishop of St. Catharines.

The Farmers Get Ready

Cook-house

Rob's to remain there too. win- ters — through. And the cook- house, a building of attractive lines, and set not far from kitchen door became in the new scheme of the farming another granary “Cook-house”’ This once common word on farms, like many another almost lost in the passing of the years was more or less of a summer-kitchen,’ much respected by the farm- wife, Here, the indoors tidy, much of the cook's work was done. Here too was many an item and article housewifery. Some cook-houses we have known had the low- hearthed stove, which had been replaced indoors by the modern range, installed there to make of it indeed a summer-kitchen

Couple Honored On Anniversary

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Mr. and Mrs Laurie MacLure

Murray Harbor North were pleasantly surprised at their home recently when relatives and friends gathered to~horer them on the occasion of their 37th wedding anniversary.

Mr. and Mrs. MacLure (wee Lois Ross) were married at Lower. Montague on September 5, 1928 by Rev. John Sterling. They have one daughter Elaine, Mrs. John MacDonald, Alliston.

During the evening an add- ress was read by Mrs. Wendell Graham and a presentation made to Mr. and Mrs. MacLure from their relatives and friends. A gift was also presented from their daughter and son -in - law.

A buffet supper was served by the ladies of the family group, with the table centered with an anniversary cake, which was cut in the traditional manner.

for the cook.

No'stove had this one. But when the autumn brought in its crops from the fields, the smoke issuing from that chimney came

from the round-bottomed iron Sou ris CWL pot set into its bed of bricks, the

“Parmers’ Boiler’ of then. It The September meeting of held the potatoes cooking for the the Souris CWL was held on one sow, and the pen of fattening Tue day evening in St Mary's For the fowls too, the Parish hall, with 18 members hens and the ducks and perhaps, present. The meeting opened to make a treat for the mare With prayer by the president, with the foal, or the horse, that, Mrs. Fred Perry. Minutes of the come spring, would be sold. !ast meeting were read by the Summer-through, kept ‘shiningly secretary Mrs. Daniel MacDon- clean, door and window screen- ald. Reports were also read by ed, here sat the cream-separa- the conveners, and units.

tor, the pails and the “parts’’. Joan MacDonald of Chepstow sunning by day on the broad was the winner of the $100 scho- shelf without. The tubs for the larship donated by the CWL. warhing and the board had their This was presented to her by nails. And here too the churning Mrs. Fred Perry. After business was done, and on the table near- di<¢iission the meeting adjourn- by, the crocks and the firkins ed. / J

were filled with butter, and the fn the month of August,. the prints deftly made. Here too you league members met with a ; would see firstlings from the number of patients from River- * garden,.and in the autumn the side hospital at St. Peter's cam | pumpkins and squash, just £8- ning area and presented each : thered. What interesting a with a gift, and refreshments. ' handy buildings those old-time This is a yearly projec: of the |

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the home of ments age to enjoy the silence |,

‘played an Autumn tune.

cook-houses were!

“Well, Ellen we have that building about ready to be mov- ed'’ James reported at dinner “But whether we will shift it to a more convenient — location

‘there, or bring it home by way

of the fields, we haven't yet de- cided. We'll see when we hitch the tractor to it.”

We came to the verandah mo-

of the night. Scampie came up from the gateway to sit quietly nearby. So quiet, so still was our valley. The trees dark against) the moonlight waited. For what? Perhaps for a small -wind of morning to come down from up the creek to whisper old tales of

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