IAIY IAWOI1'l'I MAI!-

Should Wile .Tell Husband He Was An Adopted Child?

DEAR MARY HAwORTH' This summer relatives of my husband

Page 8, The Guardian Wed., Oct. 19. 1955 Ll'r'I EA1

Eat Small Portions If You'd Keep Slim

I: lda Belle! Allen "You can't separate an Ameri- Garnish of cress or Darsley. can from his pic." I told the Chef. "it's a traditional dish in national cuisine. p . "it's not like the Soft butter- iiredient. This

scgndinavia. but the down-io- broiled or sauteed fish fillets. earth flaky pastry-crusted pie of this country. , lard.” lows: Combine l c -guhtu a boil. (look 3 min

good.” conceded the Chef Melt Ila

they have very many calories ” I

l'AKl SMALLER PORTION until soft. do not brown-

Stlr in 2 tbsp. flour. '-2 tsp salt

aver e size pie into smaller por- llfflsilr lgrt;':,5dl'r';::l1'u waned and land bring to a slow boil. Cumlied 30 they "Sal .”P Pl""tYlthe heat and stir in. 2 tbsp st of calories and kept their figures. mm, 3.; ., haw "wet cn,,,m T0dlY- We Walk lllll 9391'”-lelcommerclal sour cream. much less. so if we cut down the: hue... portions of high calnry foods. we ean still enjoy them." : "But what happens when onel likes pie a la mode. Madame?"

"Use only half a scoop of ice ll 9'9 'll0ulll'-''' 9355 eream. Chef. and cut down to.d"”" M" 5""”l'' bulky '” ml”

that meal. "That means you will not clean iW35lml- Ip the plate, Madame. which means waste." he said.

"Better leave it on the plate than add it to your own waist- line. Chef." I replied.

TOMORROW! DINNER

Tomato Juice

Veal Chops Soubise

l Whipped Potato Horseradish-Beeu Crisa-Cross Apple Pie

Coffee Tea Milk

Veal Chops with Sonlsise Sauce: Brush I good-sized veal chops all ever with French dressing; dust with 1 tap. each salt and mono- W sodium glutamate and 14 tsp, '

P695912 Coat with fine dry COCOANUT AND DATE BARS Slow.-.5-eute until golden brown” chocolate "kc mu

1. jun noun heated shortening 3 tbsps. melted butter

or cooking oil to cover the bottom 3 '1" Y””"

.1 . h..vy fl-yum pun. Tum on". Mix together and press into pan, Add 1 nap, hot watery Cover and then beat egg whites stiff. Add slow-steam fry 20 min. l5l0Wlyt

Meantime. prepana sauc, 5(.u.1Vs cup brown sugar

blue according to the Chefs di.l W cup cooked dates

nations. Arrange the chops on . VI cull rncoanut

l COOK'S CORNER

heated platter and spoon the V4 WP null. "ll" lmlllldf do not pour over Spread on top of cake mix and "'0 Cll0Pl- bake in a 350 degs. oven for It

Tm minutes.

For

Colds

use lemon ' and so

Put the inlet of one lemon in I half glut: of water and add if iaupoon bitarbnnnia of ind: fbakingeodalfakethiuxoellalst neutrslisisr never-al times a day to help reduce acidity and ldieve discomfort.

cow BRAND

175: BAKING SODA

Keeps Vour Home Iweal-smelling 94 Hours a Day'

your money. Ceahaseee Tissue is available in

7!OelIeeciollI.

Sauce Souhlse lrnmv ill! Cllfll Ifeel certain Tom doesn't know it our;The word "Souhise-" in a recipelyet.

always reveals omons as an in- sauce is equally CHIS! Pl! 0! Cellllal EUWP9 "07 Kwd wllh "KL bmlled "r sauteed lat the time. which came up prior? the puff-pastry ples of France or sweet breads, lamb croqi-iettes or.” his emry mm um Army. mat

An American hurry-up method on," mad. with of making sauce Soublse is as f - ' fine-chopped - --Ame,-gcan pm, 3,-E. V...-V. wry anions and l c hot water. Bring SPARE H.;,.;L1M;g and drain”; tbsp. butler or marga-

in your

about I fourth of the usual amount ."l"?P9"v buy ll-Vl”" 5l'0”ld" Pad”- of bread. butter and potatoes forlWlllCll IN W3-llIiIl!lP Mid "Fed Ml the removed when the sarmenf is hand and father--very kind. ilitcll-jdNl3lS5. ye OW rllx'(lS.

Mr.

-at the impact of such unanswered

. Ede esrreii QUALITY. .. roe BETTER value... Sey Culnnere...ead get more eaal.isy and value for

bheentlgreeala7o0slseeteolle-eewelluwhiuil

mom. or chines ea e eosmutv

.visited us for a few days. Duringi their visit. while my husband was at work. the conversation turnedi to their small adopted child, and whether or not it is best to tell. a young child of its adoption. Opin. ions were divided. with the father reluctant to say. l

in further discussing the import-l snce of a right decision. the mother said to me. "Didn't you know thatl Tom was adopted? Tom is my

husband. l was truly astounded. ll 1

lhadn't known: and what's more. It

We thcn rehashed a series of lincidents, confusing to Tom and me

after his mothers death. in the lightl of this new knowledilc. W939 hall penings now seem logical.

Clo be purposely told" How would

lflmvers iormcd llic setting for an yidllltllllll llPll(ll'Illlll) iilicti S”0"f''' " lal" T"'” '5” h"""'l.'”.liill, hccame the bride of Mr. Wy-,music was played by Nlrs, rlne in a qt. sauce pan Slow-cook learnnlhgl.l'lIllii. Whliclg Wlllhialgrf. hlmliman 31,113,. 39.. M ,1- .more. 0 earn l ,i' r Ce. or om.-gated, - l . The bride. the riaiiizhlcr of Mr. . - "A! an. nu m do 1. cm ln.t't'Sl" w,;'.;:” pelgp" 3?: L15 lilln-.he feel if I dong tell him. alldyand lllrs. Laurie Birch. Port Hill,lcboscii by the mother of the bride. '”"5 59350" 15 Sober. "'1 "WK 95- 5 W ”' "4 m later he lCz'II'nS t 3' PVPl'.V'"n9- 1'l.uas given in marriage by her - eluding his wife who keeps no scc- yam...-V Pill lhmlllll 3 5'9” R9'”l"" l"lrets from lilml has kIl(tWI'I ll lllrlgnwn of nylon not over satin with lcollrsacc ',I long lime" ll l lcll hint l m8Y'a jacket of'ChanIilly lace styledtwore i-i grey suit with navy ac- ”l'lnever know if the hurt would hIVeiwith long tapered sleeves and cessories and a Corsage of pink'

V

Early October Vows

Baskets of glaritoli

Miss Bcvctlcv Birch. PortiL.tirt1's Prayer." The

A brown afternoon dress

Findley man Dymcnt. tweed

by a brown

The groomls

been more or less if l'Il kept 5lllPetcr Pan collar with seed pearl.Sweetheart rnscs. enl...As his wife do I hat? 1! mnfllptrim. A coronet of pleated nylonl A reception followed at the homelwe 5'-lpposcd in a mother ”'

right to tcll him?

he has , lhalf-brother. lie was very close tiol

mm fond of hi, mother. although of the groom. was maid of honor . ' an”. be, deam the brmhers drm.;in a ballerina-length gown of pink times. the bride donned a -char-'the iuicy Sllble "ld 33? daintiea ed apart "9 ,5 8 wondprful hug..lover iaffcta with matching head- tcual wool. tircss. topped with a jfnr the stock about and for the She carried a bouquet of gvcy ftir Jacket and a Corsage ofismall flock of fowls it farm's duty to maintain. And not 'Pimin by D. W- Sears). so much as a crow have we had

ligent. and. i feel, emotionally stable.

and seed pearls held her fingertip.nf the bride's parents. The table t . . Tom is the youngest of four boys: veil andshe carried a bouquet uf;was centred with a three-tiered is ”"9l'l0"59 be"!!! Filled. except that

two elder brglherg and 3.Belter Tlem roses. in a red shade. wedding cake. Rev. M. J. lf1ndley.5ll9 W0llld have had more intimate Miss Audrey Millar. only sister lproposed the toast to the bride.

red roses. llaviti Birch. only brother '

and mixed of the liriilc. uas grnninsnian

I topped .heart about jacket

She wore matching accessories and . She wore a waltz-lciigth yellow Quccn Elizabeth roses e.n-.l”l"9Cl l0dI.V and at length came mother H” 3 Close. We heard the satisfy- farm-carta un. loading their riches in the cell..- tbeneath. and were pleagedqnuch

there ever than this!"

born was wont tn the millprmd below,

i'(lV'

H . er There was ggity

was ,and color.

.l1l8 sound of the

ELLEN'S DIARY

l ny an Island l'a.I'ller'I Wife

ll 30' lGIlll.V the sun pours its 5 gold over the farmland; um” mm-. l nings. washing brightly the west. .iern slopes of our valley. pointing lup the shades of tree and meadow land leaving the depths in cool sh... dow! But as he climbs higher gbove the eastern hills. there too 11 gt length reaches, its warming light touching the deep quiet plucgg o( ll where runs the mlllstream. And at breakfast watching it tight the fragile gold of the birch: and the scarlet of the maple: be. yond the windows we say, "Wu an October more lovely

Aml Pleasant it is. yes egpgg. ll"? flood in come to breakfast at a table set not.far away from the wood-fire. doors closed again: the coolness without. in summer b93'""d ill? Open door we remember "W l" W9 haying season so de. Iiglitful. .1 small wind of day new- come up from g p to whisper i.l.l'"' Slylnizs in the leaves of the .'llr. lll)l)Crl Schurman. Sumnier- y,'l'-V t'"'l ll" lftlnl verandah. stir- nn October sfside. tins soloist and sang "The ""1: them uilii light roguish touch. nodding Aml "'9" "W I dainty song-spar- 50'"9'lmes stopping to sing. and lightness of p then. Behind the glint "I the very spirit of it.

The iiork at the mangels con.

;would be over the family's winter

lknowledge of the venture. Pleanty For travelling through the Marl- we would have of these, to provide

is this

The wrath of his relatives wiill i descend upon me if I deride to tell him the truth: hut that part doesn't worry me. ollr counscl will much appreciated.

TELL THEM EARLY

DEAR R.Y.: The 'consens'l informed opinion is that adoptedi children should be told. early in life. that they are adopted -- that they were handpicked. with love, by the adopting parents to be their son or daullhter. l

,My concern is to spare him hurt”

boiling up in your mind.

record early.

Probably the most disturbing tangle (if anyi to the sensitive in- lteliigent adult just learning that he was an adopted child, is they . mystery of his natural origins. He

his natural parents didn't rear him. He may experience emotional shock

questions: and have a panicky feel- ing that he must find out the facts, to rceovcr I! sense of reality -- to identify himself to himself. so to

Words Oi The Wise

The price of greatness is resptin-l ,sibility. wivfillston Churchill)

N Ml memories. etc, that he would dis-l miss the ndoptiie angle after some reflection. peace of mind and self-respect un- shaken--in short, without distressl l reactions. Maybe you've heard the wise- A" this gempeg tn 3 teapot. nnw acre saying about the three most 1 about speedy mt-tliods of spreading news i whether to tell your husband of namel.V. lF'l"E"8i'llli 'PlEDll0N'- Midi his adopted status. amply prrwe,s'tell-a-wmiian Well. it neems ynulre the wisdom of getting the facts on the sort of wnman meant: the one who can hardly hear to keep a scc- , ret. Figurativcly its "killing" you er size bolsters your resolve and to withhold from Tom the news helps you feel almost svelte. But about his status. But my feeling lalonli about the third day. 01' it E if he docs,” know, and thelleasi toward the end of the wcek, (amigo ,..,,,'l 1,.” mm you Slmuld. the first fine cntliusiasni laizs. Thais. wonders just ”who' he is; and why' at be the first to unveil the fact. twhcn siayiniz power is ncvdcri If he learns the truth eventually. and confronts you with it, or asks

the fact yknnwing you. .your ancestry and history were of SP9-alt lihe best. So why

i I

and go ahead with

l Staying

that you

I'm

go into it? I'gone feeling sets in. will

Al Y0" l""lWv ll" "5"3l P"ll('Viizuesil those were and are my senli-lwtlts and sticking with a

of accredited adoption agencies is to handle placements in such a way as to guarantee. insofar as possible. abiding long-term good care of the child. To safeguard against possible emotional

ments. more or less."

M.li. almost impossible.

starting a diet doesn't take much strength of will. in fact. going on a diet has become a favorite Amer-

'ican pastime. Like the man said about smoking: ”it'tl easy to giveld n?'""3 M 'a”etyO nu! M" it up - I've done. it don-ns of times". leelmg M h"l"3 Md ' WM m”l'

No doubt you've started dozens of

i The first day or two all goes well. The thoght of slipping in to a small-

Tbe joker in

l aims? IN mm

Slimming Calls For Power

By idn Jun ()n that controversial subject of; will power, there's one thing sure.. ibuilt on the protective foods with protein as ,the backbone of every meal. it's the protein foods that help keep energy at par and give

KIII

.slick-to-the-ribs

hoost the daily requir

ito the waist as well.

y0ll're almost sure to back-lealing to slim down is a natural. . one more point: The protein that

But a scientific reducing diet in

It's true that fats also have I quality because ithey are slow to digest. But fats tare so high in calories they may t-- over the top and so are likely to stick

A diet to keep reducers happy while slimming must have varied foods. otherwise meals are monot-

. A d' t t l t d to t POW" depenlls "ll 5 "WV lhl-mlllireemiood: iiesbl-ailing! to pzil le of ihings'...first whether your Shortly. And in me "mi run. .11 Wl1.V .V0U hid ll. YOU may say llll1'”C9"l'l" M 1”" wfllghl ls 51,”-"Eithat such faddy diets accomplish cffecii "After all, nothing altersirenzlllzh l0&)l'E8hl'(llll.lelnel'tl:f)alllllgI-- is to whet the appetite for over- are y0u..and an sccon ,w c or your ic is e eating. satisfied that right kind to sustain energy. i when ennrgy drags and an all- lperfect nutrition which fosters a power feeling of well-being. and at the diet is isame time provide enough variety . .in the menus to ward off boredom.

Mary Hawnrth counsels through lopsided menus is that they drain Best of all. the new way of eating her column. not by mail or personal lviiality and leave you fccling linip- :works a change in food habits. Then interview Write her in care of lhisland newspaper. slide

Scientifically plann ” diets give

of-mind on the part of the natural parent. who might try to grab hack the child later on. the principals are kept apart. and don't know each other's names. At most they are given a kind of synopsis of each nther's history and circum- stances for reassurance.

WOMANtS PROBLEM. . Thus in your basband's cast-,.l he might run into a stone wall,l

trying to track down his pre-arlopt-I ion history--if be felt he had to

know. But then again he may he so .well adjusted to his life "as is." i to his wife. his work. his youthful

pink. yellow,

s

Your doctor will tell vou that health and anirfylkt tthi require an adequate daily ttupply of xontill

Vitdminl and minerals. New Vl-CAL-FER 12 Vib-

nsin mineral capsulae provide the answer. Han--In .olsa small capsule easily taken by children-an I - vitamins and 7 mint-rain anaentinl for sturdy growth and health. One capsule is day at breakfast. meal!

for your family's vitamin -inn-pl needs, buy scientifically balanced Vl-CAI.-FER 12 Cepaulesl

y Keep your family healthy, Impp y A this easy, economical way with

normal requirements when combined with ordinary dint.

Vitamins A. El. C, D. Bu-aid appo- tits-, growth. nervous conditionl, resistance to colds and infection.

Calcium and phosphor!!!" -with Vita- snins D sand C for healthy boneo. heath.

gums and akin.

(Iron). plus 4 other ' '

lwelcome blithely these mornings, not even a thin piping tremolo to make us smile. and to llreet and hasten the day.

And what now? we would the farmers enjoy an earn- ed apell of idling? A real maybe. James on the couch in the kitchen catching forty winks, arms folded. hands clasped on his breast in a funny way he has of ' ,.i .,'.' Or would they now commence to gat- her in the turnips? Though they had agreed it was a little too soon for this. The plowing thcn- that would be the next field-work, But it was a patch of untidy stump- land which drew tlicm. thcre where now close by the maplcs flame and glow in the wnodlands...:itld below Earth cradles fondly the leaves which drift down to rest

There heaps of brush left in the wake of some busy spell of wood-

fallen. glowed into the night.

And the tang of the burning- the spruce st-cnt mingles with that of dying leaves and bracken and gras- ses. and frost-damped earth in a distilled ll'aL!r2lll('9 of season to- nigbt...So comes the end of a per- fect day for the folks who home at Alderlea-this Island farm where along the fields flows a mlllstream-

Until tomorrow -a Diary--Good. night ...... ..

gives staying power to protective meals for dieters can also provide an energy pick-up to prevent that all-gone feeling which sbmetlmes sets in around 4:30. At this low- ebb point. 100 calories in protein - all ounce of yellow cheese, a hard cooked egg. a glass of buttermilk, or a piece of left-over chicken - can bolster staying power and keep you from wanting to overeat at dinner.

Speelellyforvnulaledferlstbied . our” .1 . an

i

And then with last loads savedl. that harvesting was completed. j wondered. .

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Pfizes Galore To Be A Feature Oi Cooking School

yet from 3"Y 5"'lPll"3 mil? '9: Prizes galore will be a feature.

of the Martha Logan cooking school on Thursday. October 1). 1955. The school. which is spon- sored by local food and appliance dealers and Swift. will bring ex- citing food reparation helps to homemakers. it is being held at the Coliseum. Exhibition Grounds. Charlottetown.

Among the prizes presented at the cooking school will be equip- ment given by the'General Elect- ric (s r h- 1 J) .n I s space maker G.E. electric range. a handy clock-radio. a convenient rotary ironer and an electric hand mixer. Other special prizes will be Swift's Prensum hams and turkeys and large bags of grocer- ies from local food dealers for fine dinners ahead.

Every homemaker attending the school will receive a free copy at the popular "Martha Logan Meat Cook Book." This cook book gives the complete story on meat buy-

cumm. WW. kimnm and mum m ling. storage, cookery and service. fine clc.'it'ing-fires that like stars'""""-'""'k"s I--""'8"”'" "'9 "W

try have found the many exciting recipes in this booklet just the answer for fine family eating. The cooking school. which is titled "Meal Magic" will begin at 8:00 p.m. Admission is free. and tickets are available at local food and appliance stores which are sponsoring ehls school in coopera- tion with th oswift Canadian Co. Marjorie Ellis, one of Swift! graduate home economists on the

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