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.MILLCOVE W.!.'

The monthly meeting of Mlllcove W. I. was held at the home of Mrs. Peter Hughes on April 4 with an attendance of 10 members and 4 visitors. the preslddnt called the meeting to order. The Illstitute Ode was sung and the Creed repeated in unison. The roll call was an- swered by all exchange of flower slips or bulbs. Minutes of the March meeting were read and ap- proved. Cuircspondence was read and discussed. Two' "thank you" notes were read.

It was moved and seconded that 31.00 be donated towards trcadle gpwlng machines for Ceylon.

The slck committee reported making several visits atid a bill of 31.50 was paid for treats. Two members paid 51.60 for Cod Liver Oil Capsules received. Collection amounted to 31.00. The secretary was asked to write for donations for sale to be held later.

New Committees appointed are

Sick, Mrs. Patrick Maclutyrc. Mrs. I

I MARY I-IAWORTI-I

Man Is Depressed At Wife's Lack Of Cooperation

Dear Mary Haworth: I was ed- ucated in Europe. and married in the Far East. in my native home- lalld. two years ago, We have been

, in this country only a few months. ll have a fairly interesting and tlucratlve job here; but my dom- t

I by a donation of some small ari- : icle towards sale. Mrs. Ernest l Peters kindly invited the I ' L . l to her home for the next meeting. l Mrs. Reg. llooper conducted a '”scrambled word contest" which i was won by Mrs. Frank Colinick.

At the conclusion of the business session a tlcliciolts ltinclt was

extic life keeps me so worried and '

depressed that I am finding it hard to cope with the enormous amount of work I have to get through in 'a day.

My problems arise from the fact that my wife hasn't the slightest interest in the home. much less in her husband. In fact, I often wonder why she married. Ours was an arranged marriage; but we had met before we became e- gaged and I had explained my ex- pectations. Later. after marriage I found that sex is taboo for my wife. She is "shocked" that an in- telligent person like me should ever think of pit. . .

My wife is highly educated. from I middle class family. Site went to work after marriage. even in our native land. because I didn't

i earn enough to maintain the stan-

dard of living she likes. . .She has no organizational capacity and doesn't think it is her job to at- tend to household details...

is DEPENDENT

She takes college coilrscs at

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her class material. and even ac- company lter tn the library to bor- tow books! I protest all this. but she says it" she weren't so depend- etit she wouldn't have mal'ri(-ii!

Now it is she tinstead of nI('t who is losing temper too often; and recently she says our mar- riage can't last much longer. Some Limes she wishes she were dead. Iive had a fairly hard life. . .but never thought of suicide. Now I don't think of it seriously. bill at times fancy myself falling from a window. or under the tracks of a subway. Or mutter to myself that I would be better dead than lfl this life. . .

What depresses me is that my wife is neither interested in doing her part. nor will she leave, me. . . She is very dominating alld always has her way. though any mention of this brings strong protest from her. I have reached the end of my tether and honestly don't know what to do. I shall be most grate- ful it you can help me. . V R. TWO WORLDS

'pitepal't-d her for good quality lic- ing. cltiler in the old social orller, per in the new. Shc is lost hciween twill camps in .4 pm...

She has alllhltlttllsly l't'Jl't lcii illi- laid idea that llttfllitfl was llllltie llor mflll, anti is aiming to tit-i-mile ;a "nlodcrli vtotnall" st:-t-1-tllcti. llllo ll-hiI1lI'f'S to stat-llll ('f)IISOftlI('flt'P ill l'” W" l'lL'lli his all llitiiviilllait. 'Blll. in ctllbarkltlg upon this ven- iliirr. your wife lllll0l'lun2llf3ly tails ito l'ci-(utilize 'lllli('l1 less to deliver! what is i'vqulrc(l of her, in the pnen rolt---it lhc ctlatlge is to re- l""9-Wnl DI'UIIi'css, ol' benefit any- body.

itncnt, it is never looked into." In

'male nurse to her for life.

'advance in social character, as she .may suppose. it is rather a dis-

ytonishing ignorance. in an "critic-

p'l'hus far it st-cnls. she is stillb- bliitl you. will an arrallt air of pS'Ilit'i'Iitt'tti- to Uiltl' conjugal ex- tit-t-Itltlotis of llcr ill this. she is hit? a t-lllltl plctvlllg grnwlt-tip. She. -flUMn'i kntiu ithnt it is all abolit.

All” Mill. not sure of your case. either, are flll'll'('ll to distraction by her ohstlllatc, illogical sclf-l'iglit- eons tit-It-nsiicness. wlicrcby she

cttlllrllt-s to f"IIllllS6 ylill i't)nlliltile- ll'

I fair deal from l1Ff'u0l' wen hut a start in that direction, in terms of irillilitzlicss to learn hilw to he a real adult wife. lfcr worst handi- cap is her refusal to cooperati- on this point. You say: "If I sug- tzvsl some book or article that might lI('lt) us to a hotter adjust-

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short. shc doesnil want. or intend' to mature. Her purpose has been to subjugale you, to be I sort of

Such female obduracy isn't in

play of infantile tyranny and as-

itted" Dcrson who ittioilld know hel- er.

l)0'N'T BF; AFRAH)

pl-or advice: Perhaps the ma,-. ("oak 4 lb. head of cabbage in Plano was a mistake altngeitler; it '

maybe you should dissolve ii, In llm mg ml?!” "H dmwl Dam. Mm, 8 39”." or mmual Elmd Wm? DIN” season Milli itltlt and popper, add be afraid to face and explore Illat 2 "mt h'”'"' ?f)S.Nll)llll)'. it is fear of facing '4 clip crealii

arts that is hack it v t' i'd- . , , (lt'Il llltlliglits ltl lill()'lfll':HIE1-4l:":1I)lv. 2 iwdun 9””

BAK El) t"ABBAfGI7

Elmer McQuaid. Program: ltirs. scrvcil by the llosicss. Mcetilii: ad- night and I Volllntarily tio they DEAR nu I act tltc pit t'Ny'y-yq-I”.-V vn-RANNY nu"-, man". ).m”.”.”- H”. H", W, 2 tsp. vino-ear peter Hughes. journetl by singing National An- housework. evenings. But. she cw turn. your mic is far off llir iwzmt Muir title pills ion in limit: for nation; you VP ht'en . .......,ni,,; Rake In itttulrrale ivvpg in.” The next roll call to be answered them. pects me. in addition. to prepare of reality. Her ertttt-ttttoti hnxnl '

wattiinu only what is right namely. .cil't-tinlsiancetz, Inttsll). - Flt H. niintitesi 3,,-ve lint,

Puss'n Boots-made from fresh lyllglg fish- ' I gives your cat sparkling health and beauty!

FLORAL FANCY

Here's a chic cnrsage that will from a garden. The versatile or- t,i,,,,m wherever you choose and naments are llterallystudded with that will not will or crush with blossoms a-twinkle with rhineston-

thw wt-i-irltig. The flowers come in es and are delicate prettlliers moi 'llllC. pale pink or blue to whether you clasp them around ll mg lwntity to sprilliz aild sum- the wrist. push them way up on ntrv t-nstiiints These ('llal'l't”tlng',lll8 arm. or circle them around a p.....l Expansion hracclcts look ns.t-liignon. Matt-lung earrings com- tt they had been freshly pluckedlplete the picture.

iiI.tEN'S DIARY

Youth is The Best Thing

"no you know what's the best so strange it has been. and went llllIlL' in life. Ellen" the mailman on to chat of the bits of news tpitwltoiietl WlIOI'i his horse drew about: of the ill and ailing and in at otlr mailbox this morning. the varying changes the days llc lot the reins slackcn and set- thrust into the quiet of our way of ll('fl hack in the wagon for it few life. Then he tightened the reins nuutiics' chat. "I was just consid- and the attractive bay mare was print: that. as I came out the road- away with him, out glong and not that it needs much considcr- over the snowy hilltop to pick up niiou . . Yoiithl That's the Very the day's mail at the corner-store, he-.i thin: there is! Money? It has and be on glgng his mute. its uses. its all very well to have. wintry weather. gut um time oh, well, enoillzh to take care of bearing the gamers along to the mics needs. But it's great to be cropping. --And so much to do be. luriitl-.V'"liitS'.. and SIFOHE. In b0d.V fore than". James offered. when and heart for the day's W0Fk- Y9S- marking our younger fat-met-'5 an- lilirn 8 Person is .V0untZ. UlCI”e'5lnt'versary of birth. we were at sup- nuihins l0 (taunt him n0"'l"Z- The per at the house across the lane. trouble is we don't seem tnprea1- two, I suck 0; wood cut yet.” lfr linw 800d YOU”! l5 "M11 W5 lilmber. Just think of it." he nod- rm.-t. Oh well.” he chili-klcd eyes dad. --ml, day of H": yea,-3' nit the hilltop of the "out" read. "And once the !now'3 gone, thoughts likely turned already. to you'll see gh, Hopping will be the long miles ahead. "we'll Just here. I know." Mack laid. watch- have to put up with things I! "NY in: the tiny candles come to life W" and flicker and glow on the bll'l.l'l'

The nirtrning was fair then. the day cake. "Becaiisc today when I lllll ltmiltnrz. thntitzh wanly. the shovelled snow from a corner of mart overlaid with fresh snowfall. the flowt-r-border. do you know

"Thought yoil'd be taking a what I found? Htindreds of snow- sleigh this morning." we said. He drops. Yes. growing green. Just shook his head. waiting for the sun to get to them

"There's no last to this snow. to lift up the white blossoms."

It will be gone in no time." And eyes shining. smiles happy.

The surroundings were pretty. the children wished on the cand- The millstrcam close by flowing les and with "a huff and a puff"

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Tlionfvdt-ot1umIHlJtoremJiudfrunCuIntlitsneoaIIaftvufers infoeunifary eamerioe,vfbenDhettdbolelslIisprocossedlnfo Puss'I Ioofslfdfood.

BATS lilillW AND THRIVE till tlllllli l LIFE BALANCE Ill WHOLE FISH!

TI-,IE secret ofa cat's health and disposition is in its feeding. According to lol

elm-k between its white hanks. blewotlt the little flames. wishing t-Ivory roadside tree and shrub was th e i r umlttercd I-can't-tell-yott frtrhingly powdered with white. wishes at the gateway of the

Mary alder tassel; and every field atmtlt and beyond lay fi'csh-spread Itth the new of the snow.

We talked of the weather. "so ntntry for Am-il" and wondered

younger farmer's new year. so Monday. the gateway of another workday week. came to us at Al- dcrlca it goes now in April crlow- -

fall-forever away. '.ettlptm your cat's load with Pttss'tl Boots. Only Puss'ti loot:

ii We mitzhi not put it down to Until tomorrow - e -- Diary e ogists. the be.-itsinglc food you can give your cat is wltolc mh. Noiyust . "those tests with the I-I-Bombs." Good-night. my pm 0, scfgp of ash. 1-hm; an ;mp.,mm,c.e,,m-.c reason for ma. Wm is so well balanced . . . nourishes so completely! . , "whole". It's really an exciting story for any cat owner who wants a healthy, contciittd and good-looking ML Do You Foul out HAMIIIIGEI llckl russw soot: not mo HINT FOR RUGS ediz. Deep lothespin grooves do , . g ,, Y Before washing a small hook-l noteappear in the rug when the Mmwmi" "mm mung "mm funmhu bad) h""d'""

ltlrirtltcs. it iicficlcni in vitamins A and I).

protein and bloati- enriching tron, but has an abundant amount of catho- hydratu for energy and vitamin A for lit-en eyesight.

Hamburger ha: 1 tttgh nniolim of bottl- building Pfnlitln ttt-id hlmd-enrlrhtng tron.

Only Whole Fish has life Balance

In a thing lish thele's I balance of those mysterious elemclils Wlllxll nature uses to sustain a healthy. thriving organism. When whale fish is prepared for cat food. those elements are retained intact. just as they were in the hung fish. The fillets supply rich proteins. The liver and glands yield precious iltamins.

ffl. looped or pile rug. basic in

V muslin is folded over line to dry Iii-inch piece of muslin along one

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The bone structure provides calcium and phosphorils. Front various parts of 9' V" '04 the fish come tron. vitamins. calcium. manganese and all those Hlal fontt gzgrggnn hm . :l'fa'n::'es':'”::'cYtj'E':':; ::'n”l:.'3:::: :;,':t':”h s which nature uses to sustain full vitality. lbs! 5 why cat food made mod supp” G. ,,m,m., mm... he, my M, W, m ,0, from parts or scraps offish is not enough. While almost any pilrt supplies some- rmtth-giving protein, responsible tot normal energy. but also the COOL HALTEKTOP thing valuable, your cat needs allthosc nutrients, in nature's own life balance. E" W tnriliit "MCI" Ifhmduclm” "”d """0'”"” """"''i "W"

Keep cool and pretty all sum- mer in this wrap-around h e l t er top! Make it in gay stripes for casual wear: again with embroi-

only the whole fish supplies lhem B”. for health, skin. hcailhy kittens. gancse. I0 necessary to the

mother cat lltil her litltcns

Puu'n Boots is made from Whole Fish

dery to star above dressy skirts. our busmw is cat food. Puss.” B00” is "N made mm mm of hsh W wraps. not uiuou i...m..-dy pugnt man ....i ....ti ""9?" 705'? '”"Y'w"P 55"”? We process whole fish. with nature's balance of nutritive elements Intact at Slim" lw”-"9 "'” '''t"”-'” h' i" " ' "9 '""”'' ""1?" "' ltI.lsses' Sites l2-14: 16.18 included. may we" in the lmng ash Valudblf RNA” arr add” rm nm-Vm anti all rm-"W-ll tut krtltb-hl)tI1t'1 d not-pl.-;'.rs; far rtC(.in vwttm. D start izlgium. twlilit ' V ' . ' I ' s ' - vV7llVI' N . I If! 'l'P? H ; TH If IQ! VI 111 II P'"""' l”"5f"' dl"m”"'t . nutrition. You couldnt duplicate the food valor in Pilss'n Hoots whole fish 5:1.-tom unillitdliin rnnmnt ven little :vi:lttnbIe :':vh0ltytJl:ll!f1 Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in - . - g . - . coma for um pattern mam” cam even if you went to endless trouble buying and Looking complicated meals ”"""l-"l'”"'i not be accemed) m charlommwn g fgdyoalrwcat. gtltall yoku have to do is open a can of pressure-cooked, 0''" "ml Glmrdlinn Household Ar” Dept-I y. I. We 55 n S. -gr' Mutt? Int MIIK lick! tron PUSPN BOOK not only i 60 Front St. West. Tomato Ont. '

Milk has grovtith giving oroteln. calcium for ttrotvt bone: and teeth. rnanfl-t-in and to-amtq.

the mineral that: so important for good no red blood.

has riboflavin for silky fur and lhiamiu for alertness. M in milk. but sttpnliu the ltltvwi-t-tuldtng Iron which milk inch.

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CAT FOOD

YOU CAN GIVE yourself: pleasant surprise by feeding Puss'n Boots regularly

10 your cat. In three weeks or less you'll see a more frisky pet. with a livelier

step. a sleeker look. I more contented put-r . . . more or all those lovlhh pquulitios you want in your pet. Try it!

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