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'The Ladies Auxiliary of the 'Morell Canadian Legion who catered to Thursday's Lob- , :cter Luncheon for the provin- "cial cabinet members are shown above. left to right

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ERERS Mrs. J.B. Jay, Mrs. John Mc- Grath. Mrs. Nora Murphy,

Mrs. Leo Rossiter, Mrs. Vin cent McGrath and Mrs. John

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MARY HAWORTH

Paraslical Partner Grows lnfo Heavy Burden For Wife

Dear Mary Hawortb: In 196l.[ at age 43. when widowed two i years. I met George. .1 widow-f er. He w a 5 very nice. I i thought. And he said he had looking for someone just! Meme: quiet, gentle. with

relig i o u s convictions ‘ which be admired. .35de so we were married in guy, 1963. 'Ilhe pupblem is that J time to tlme‘ he says he mm to make me into a lady (which Ithought, and others vault! say. I've always been). ‘I».‘come of anice family. them we bad financial diffi- during the depressi n iyusrs. as many others did...My first husband, whom I marri fit-IB (in 1936) was a fine Chris- dzurm‘an and church worker. as E-was. We h'ad two child re n. , {can and daughter, both now ‘

;Bcorge talks against my m too. He openly critici- 593- my daughter‘s friends h ip thng evangelist who is often injovernight guest in her he; (Her c b a r acter and

reproach in her h o m c .1 who i

[fihitation always have b e e n tom.-

t h o s e. her).

suspects an affair a nd r my moral standards are ' because I don't cond e m n ‘ dau ghter's and h c r " nd's hospitality to the ev- fllgellst. In short. he feels that I: ' t be unfaithful too,

9 Eve told him that a husband q‘wlfe-shmild be the last per— tzo believe wrong of the ' that he should have lame. until I rove my- .Qf‘mnworthy: and that doubt. uplcion and expectation of fidelity can destory any mar- W

gfle’ve moved north. is w a y tugs family and old friends. to

g to make a new life together '

»— his idea. We've bought an old house. as he said he wanted a nice home after 12 years in one room. We‘ve worked hard improving the place and accom- plished wonders. 1 board two or three old folks. as our only income. is t h e r e anything more I can do? "

Amerong in thinking he should accept my children as they are, and not try to

make me. into somebody else?

I can't. discuss this with as- sociates. as I don‘t want them to know the way he is. I am al- ways prais in g him. trying to conceal the hurt underne ath. Please advise me. H. G

Dear H. 6.: It appears that George brought nothing to man‘- riage. unfortunately. except his neurotic need to be taken care of. And use he repre- sents so little real manliness (in terms of capacity to love and care for wife and children. protectively). he unconsciously assumes that any woman who shares his life and knows him “as is" would find almost any other adult male vastly more interesting and desirab- le. by comparison.

That‘s why he is so vehe- mently anxious as regards your moral dependability. In a word. he is ventilating ee p displeasure with his own self- image —- a self - seeking. in- competent. opportunistic. para— siticall character; that's how he sees himself in his uncon- scious estim ate -— when e badgers you with his theoriz- ing that you may be unfaithful to him. any day. ‘

It is a c u rimis fact of life. i often observable in the human scene. that a dependent neuro- tic person. while clinging para- sitically to a sturdy support.- partner. may become com- pulsiver difficult. distrustf u l, hostile. affronting. etc. in the relationship. As if trying to discover the limits of the sup- l rting character's wllingness and ability to tolerate the wret- ched burden of “togetherness.”

In cases of the kind. the compulsively misbehaving par- asitical partner tfor example, Georgel is usu a ll y shadow- boxing with outrage reactions that populate his unconscious. hungover. so to speak. from grievous emotional thwarting in early forma t ive years.

I would surmise that George's life history has roots in pretty barren soil, on the score of family devotion. Hence this instinctive jealousy of the loyal affectionate interchange between your children and you, until he interfered.

Now for advice: consult a psychologist or ' Ser- vice a g e n c y counsellor. for

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first - hand professional guid- I

ance is learn i n 5; how to deal wisely wlbh George‘s unreason. Don't let him undermine your self - ' ence. distort your thinking. or lsolalc you (an y more than he already has) from your children and friends.

As I see the picture. he is just about as wrong as a per- son can he. in all his criticisms of other people. MH.

Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or pers o n 31 inferv i ew. Write her in can of the Guar- dian.

ELLEN’S DIARY

Last Sands Of June Have About Run Out

Sun today. And moon stars. He giveth tonight as near now the close of the June-| month... i

By this. it comes to mind. ltsl

And June which of all. has a

up to go. R a t h e r sadly. we, fancy. What will she choose to} take with her to be souvenirs} of her stay Those apple bios-l som petals that fell to her hand: in a pink and white shower that other day —— and crumpled andl browned quickly. yet retained a‘ scent of the flowering days} This she will take. And a tin yi jar of lilac. which has been dis-i tilled so finely that an appliedl tou e s a me will carry' her thoughts back to the legion of delights. their blossomi n g!

June will stand a moment. int her lone trek. on a hilltop. may be the highest point of this Is- land we lov e. to enjoy a last look off into the moonlight over all. And in that all-embracing far look. perhaps see, the Strait.i and Gulf. to remember of us.1 .byl

n

that our homeland is indeed day as someone has said. emcrals set in a silver sea."

From such a vantage. point1 we rcccntly enjoyed just such a; ar look. a vista which over lhel treetops before us. includ-' ed farmsteads with their fields| and groves. and rolling planta-l tions of woodlands and. leaguei upon league extended into the} far hazy summer - blue. .

“Why. that‘s the smut a n d' the Mainland!" we exclaimed in pleased surprise.

"But it can't be James. in- land horn and reared. reasoned.‘I “We're miles away from thel Strait. remember! What we there is but sky and cloud." t

But was it Why should wel

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not quickly recognize the famil-

Know wh at happens to small girls who practice their ' piano lessons faithfully? Ann Fraser did and just recently led her class of 28 in the Mt. Allison Local Centre Examin- ations with a mark of 90. She has also won top Musical Fes- tival honors for two years in

and; we' which used to come l a Sabbath morning in the little

last sands will have almost run; there". No strange country that

ANN FRASER

KEYBOARD KUTIE

iar childhood scene The same to mind on

Church at home. when the Minis- ter Spoke of Heaven's land over

I was to be for us. but. a very lov- ski t poet s confirmation for giving cly place you came to one day. “perfect days" will be pickingl

by way of a fairy boat which bore you gently across a Strait. where b r i g ht - painted buoys pointed the way. And if it would chance to be in the dusk. a white lighthouse would light its bea. can of lamp for you. and wishing - star would smile stea- dily. in warrant of every wish at last come true. And the sound of the roll of the sea would be sol. emn, though not at all a fearful thing.

So. crumpled petals June will take with her. A n d attar of lilac. and a first opened daisy...

e man. Ushers. were William Sla-

Gowns oftred chiffon ovetr taf- feta were worn by the bridal at- tendants setting the color theme for the wedding of Donna Marie C i r k a and James Ter- rance Kneabone.

Rev. Edward Gira conducted the ceremony at St. Jos e p h ’5 Roman Cathol i c Church in Brantford. Ontario on June 6th. Mrs. C. D. Fisher sang accom- panied by Mrs. Richard Blaha on the organ.

Mr. and Mrs. Peter Cirka of 22 Alice Street. Brantford. are the bride’s parents. The bride- groom, formerly of Oyster Bed Bridge. P.E.I.. is the son of Mr. Thomas Kneabone of 274 Fare- well Avenue. Oshawa. and the late Mrs. Kneabone.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a gown of white silk organza trimmed with lace and fashioned with a chapel train.

Helen Cirka was her sister's maid of h o n or. Bridesma i ds were Kinney Cimitruk; Muriel Kneabone. the groom's sister; Joanna Cabel of Oshawa, cousin of the bride; and Teresa a n d Lynda Cirka. sisters of the bride. Their identical gowns were styled w i th bouff a n t

r s.

White nylon frocks trimmed with lace were worn by flow- er girls. Cindy Hastings. niece of the groom. and Cherly Cirka, cousin of the bride.

Gary Hackborn was grooms-

6 The Guardian, Charlottetown, Tues. June 30. 1964.

While Lace, Red Chiffon Al Branlforcl Ceremony

sheath dress. The bride-groom's sister. Mrs. William Thomas of Hamilton. Ont. assisted in the receiving line.

A three piece white suit trim- med with red and matching red acoessor i e s comprised t h e bride‘s going ~ away ensemble.

'A-wsrm greeting of welcome was extended to the convening Institutes by Mrs. Hector Mac- Nevin on behalf of Canoe Cove WI at the 37th annual convention of the South Queen's Area. The convention was held recently at Canoe Cove Hall.

Reports showed that a great deal of work had been done dur- ing the past year.

. gave a short history on the interesting display of antiques. The presi- dent then introduced the guest speaker. Wendell MacKay who gave a talk on ways to make our homes and communities more beautiful.

He stated that the appear- ance of a community reflects the kind of people who live in it. and stressed the need to 1' positive thinking. He stated

PISQUI‘D EAST

J.P. Hendricken was a vis- itor in Charlottetown Tuesday. Mr. and Mrs. alter Mac- Donald. Covehend Road were visitors in Pisquid East Wednes- ay where they were the guests of their daughter. Mrs Floyd Jay and Mr. Jay.

Mrs. Harold Jay was a vis- lltor in Charlottetown Thurs-

ay.

Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Jay with sons Merlin and Irwin were vi sitors in Charlottetown Friday.

. Mrs. David Birt. Charlottetown were visitors at

home of Mr. and Mrs. Har- old Jay Saturday.

Mr. Clifford Affleck. Mount Stewart was weekend visitor at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Jay.

Georgie Dover was a recent visitor in Charlottetown.

Bruce Jay is a patient in the P.E.I. Hospital He had the mis- fortune of getting hit on the face with a baseball.

Mr. and Mrs. Birt Laird of Lorne Valley were Sunday

F l t zharris. Adam

and Mike Chodzakewicz. Peter Cirka. the bride‘s bother, w a 5 ring bearer.

For the reception at the P01-

guests at the home of Mr. and Mrs. GGeorge Dover.

Mrs. Floyd Jay with sons lr- win and Glen were visitors in Covehead Road. Sunday. the guests of Mrs. Jay's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Walter MacDon-

Id.

ish Hall. Pearl Street, guests were greeted by the bride's mother who wore a pink lace

And we would say. a rose bu d. from the bouquet of the littlest. youngest of all the month’s bri- des —— one still with the bright new of her té'e n s in her eyes. And a great happiness. And wonder. and a hope. and a faith that all would be well with her and hers through the adventur- es ahead.

"I have a feeling today will bring the end of the term for

me" offe re d. when he was about to set out with Alex for school this morning. “All my

tests will be over by this after- noon and so..."

"Will you not feel sorry day th

“Ob. in a way. It's been ai nice year for me. But it will be good to put away the books and get to the farming againl' ‘

After the h olidays for him Grade X‘s problems and puz- zles!

And. by this. for all “from sea sea" A Dominion Day in morning!

3' little that this is your la st en”

to the

both piano and voice. Ann. who is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Vernon Fraser of Crossr o a d s, was one of 25 performers at a recital at

Park Roy . Church Hall Sat- urday nigh gheld by their Mu- sic teachen Mrs. Reginald Gay. Parkd'ale. ‘

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KENSINGTON

Margaret MacKay. Graham’s Road has joined the staff of the Kensington branch of tli Bank of Nova Scotiea. Mrs. Victor Buntain returned to her home at Rustico on Mon- day after spending the ween end at Kensington guest of her sister. Mrs. Nelson Paynter. Millie Cousins, spending a few days visiting friends at Kensington where she is a‘ house guest of Mrs. Had-l ley Wigmore. l

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Never use perfume bottles to decorate a table. Panto-res last longer it kept in a cool. dank place. Fill empty bottles with food- colored water and use for decor.

To speed dishwasher unload- ing, place plates of like sizes to- gether in dishwasher racks. They will then be easy to slip

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that the lack of money was excuse for not getting things done but that we should make use' of what we have for comm- unity improvement and better

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Some suggestions he made for improving our communitle s were: gettln g rid of unsight- ly objects such as old car bod- ies. broken down farm machin- ery or any such things which mar the beauty of our country- side. Trees and shrubs should the planted: signs erected .to m ark our school districts. churches a n d school a n d flags be raised wherever possi-

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also stated that we should cultivate more P.E.I. crafts so that more Island made souvenirs would available for tourists rather than the cheap grade of impor- ted goods which so many sto- res display.

Mrs. Stanlcy Newman direc- ted a short sing-song which was followe by a sewing demonstration by Enid Coles who also displayed some of her finished articles.

An enjoyable duct was given y Carol MacDonald and Val- erie MacFadyen. Mrs. Rankin MacLaine reported for the Vlll Scholarship Fund Com- mittee and Mrs. Hazen How- ard reported for the picnic grounds committee. Mrs. Stan- ley Newma it took charge of the question box and Mrs. Rae Taylor was in charge of the Resolutions,

Mrs. Reggie MacEwen show- ed the members a picture of a little adopted Korean boy and 181 letter of appreciation from

im.

The resolutions c o m mittee for next year is to be Mrs. Mal- colm MacNeill: district pre_si:

South Queen’s Institutes Hold District Convention

dent, Mrs. Stanley Newman: vice - president, Mrs. Reginald MacKin n o n and secretary,

Mrs. Angus MacLeod. New Haven WI invited the Institutes to hold their next

convention in their district. The collection of the after- noon is to be sent to the new

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Volvo-Type Deal Offered French Car Factorles

By DON HANRIGHT OTTAWA (CPl—The federal government stands ready to of- fer a Volvo-type deal to help the French manufacturers of renault and Peugeot cars estab-

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However. it was not lmmedi. at.er clear whether this type oz concession—basically live yem free . ~ orted car bodies from overseas—would prove enough to lure the French companies. to Canada.

Indeed, c said there is some reason to believe the French auto firms may de. cide for various economic rea. sons —chiefly the size of the Canadian market for such cars —lt would be too risky to build plants in this country.

Informants said the govern- ment's latest offer is a hedge against that possibility. a safe. guard so that. if the plants are not built. the blame cannot be attached to ottawa.

Still fresh in the minds of gov. ermnent officials is the pres- sure exerted by the French em. busy here to persuade Air Can- ada to choose the French Cara- vellc instead of choosing the American DC-9.

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