A daughter of Mr. and M t s.

Patrick McKenna of umnierside. Gall Elizabeth \lchenna became the bride of

Cooper. son of ' Ross Herridgc Oshawa. in St.

. in August.

. R. G. Brooks offi—

“0 Perfect Love" “The Wedding Prayer were the solos sung by John E. Francom. the organist. 1". Alan Recsor. Given in marriage by the bride wore white _ sparkle over taffeta. Ieaturlng full - gathered irt flowing into a short train d a large self rose at too ack waist. The strapless bod- e was covered by a lace jac- et with lily - point sleeves and crown of lace. pearls and cry- stals held her fingertip veil of ‘ French tulle illusion. She car- ' tied cream roses in a cascade Susan McKenna of Summer- ‘ side. was the maid of honor ' and the senior attendants were . David Sharp and Bonnie , . both of Oshawa. Patti Louise McKenna was the flow- r girl. They wore floor - length. sleeveless gowns of shrimp pink satapcau over taffeta With

her

ME. AND MRS. L. R. COOPER

iss Gail Elizabeth McKenna s Wed At Oshawa, Ontario

scoop necklines and wedding ring headdresses to match. They carried pink gladioli and carnations with red roses.

Ga Bunner the best man and the ushers were David Sharp and Stewart Sharp, all of Oshawa.

A reception was held in th e Oshawa Tennis Club where the bride's mother received in a street - length. Empire dress of Dior blue with a white lace coat. white hat and accessories and corsage of blue and whi'e roses. The bridegroom's mother assisted wearing street- length sheath of pink chiffon, pink hat. white acces- sories and pink roses in her cor-

sage. The honeymoon was spent at Niagara Falls and Mr. and

Mrs. Cooper are residing at 385 Saguenay Avenue. For the w ding trip the bride chose a silk dre s s with a pale pink linen coat. pink maribou hat. white accessories and a Corsage of pink roses.

Guests attended from Toron-

to.Belleville. Napanee. Whitby. Buffalo. N e w York and P.E.I.

(Photo by Mary's Studio. )nhawn).

Mme/z

The Gunrdhsn, Charlottetown, Thurs. Sept. 17; 1964. 7

HAPPENINGS

Audrey Jenkins. Women's Editor: Phone 4-8500

Christcnc MacDonald. RN New York City and Katharine Mac- Donald MN Atlantic City. Rev. Lauchlin D. MacDonald. PhD. and Mrs. MacDonald. their dau- ghter Joan and husband Terry Ball and. family Carolyn and Kathy and Douglas Neil. all of whom spent an enjoyable t‘aoli- day at their former home with John K and Anne MacDonald, Kilmuir, have returned to their homes in USA.

Mrs. Robert Smith and young son . Bobby of Cochrane. Ont. are visiting relatives and friends in Souris and Charlottetown.

Nelson Myers an employee of Tignish left to spend his holi- days with his relatives and

Visiting recently with Mr. and. Mrs. John R. Doyle, Tignilh was‘ their son-in-lsw and daughter. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph F. Clarke. and J. Murphy of Providence. R.l.. their granddaughter and her usband. Mr. Mrs. Dou Pye and son Mark of Saint John. N.B.: their sons Ho wagd and Bernie of Westfield.

‘Vilsiting with the Doyles at he moment is their daughter. elen.

Mr. and Mrs. Tiomas Flet- cher of Lawrence. Mass. are vacationing on the Island while here there visiting Mrs. Fletch- er's mother. Mrs. Jerry Ber- nard also Mr. and Mrs. Lester MacAlduff of Tignish.

‘ idle 'about the yards.

IELLEN’S DIARY

The Blueiays Rare Song Heard From River Grove

Exquisite moonlight this night gives at the moment. in th wake of a day that was plen- sant. Summery, it was, to rip- en the grain for the combines. and for us to make and bake our bread. and tend our house- hold or Just more or less to

In the small wheelbarrow, with Peter a willing assistant, and bowing to his wishes over their arrangement, we ring sticks to the woodbox in the porch. We interrupt this at the, least excuse. knowing that we. have time in plenty for the) chore. Maybe it is to watch the white rabbit stand erect on the small enclosure of wire in which he sojourns “so as to eat grass when he feels like it." in the yard of the house across the lane. in his owner's absence at school. This pen. of course must

moved at least once a day to fresh pasturage. a commis- sion entrusted to Peter and his mother, with the sober remin- der to “Watch out that no cat gets him then!"

We stop to listen to the sounds that come in over the top of

friends in Boston. Mass.

MARY HAWORTH

Mrs. Harold Warren and sons Dale and Clayton of Summer- side have taken up residence in St.

Mr. and Mrs. Edward DerbyI

and Mr. and Mrs. Jimmy Hart- llng and baby son. have return- ed to Halifax, after vacationing. with Mr. Derby's parents White Sands and with Mrs. Der- by's grandmother. Mrs. Munn at Peter's 'Road.

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Mrs. Aubln Perry and Mrs. Stanley Perry. St. Felix are spending a holiday with rela- tives and friends in St. John. NB.

Isabelle Matheson has return- ed to Boston. Mass. after boll- daying for six weeks at her sum- mer home at Upton.

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Phew and children. Carol and Miciael

‘ visited recently in St. Louis with

Mo. and Mrs. Paul Gaudet.

Austin Irwin Blondon of Truro has won-a $900 scholarship to Mt. Allison University. Sackville N.B. where he will study engi- neering. _

He is a nephew of Mrs. Keir Warren. North River. P.E.l. and a son of Irwin Blondon of Truro. formerly of P.E.I.. and Mrs. Blondon.

Cathy Daniels. Elmira. N.Y.. is spending a two weeks vaca- tion on the Island guest of her aunt and uncle. Mr. and Mrs. Seymour Taylor. Upton. This Is Miss Daniels first visit to P.E.l.

ME. AND MRS. THOMPSON

WED AT KENSINGTON

Valerie Ellis was wed in All- sust to Donald Thompson It United Church Manse in Kensington. The

clergyman wu Rev. LM. Murray.

(Photo by W Studs)

Morning Ceremony Unites Couple At Indian River

at! Mary's!“-

:th 9‘ Min Rev. up. Callaghan 3"“- lltu-n .- was pre- II the ancillary. “Oil of white and mauve

- white ltd

phlox decorated the altar. and pews wen marked with s sin- gle rose.

The wedding music wu‘ in It's. Edgar niches. who accompaniedyllr. and Mrs Frank mv hymns during- ‘thc o . Nephews of the bride. Michael and Reggie Mum. wen altar boys.

The bride. given- In marriaso

her father. was in over taffeta fashioned and flowing long fitted sleeves and scooped neckline.

with OM bodice. floor but! dirt.

Richard Bernard has return- ed to his home to Halifax. N.S.. after spending the weekend at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Hen-

Her shoulder length tiered veil was held in place by a wedding ring headdress. and she carried a cascade bouquet of pink car- nations and sheets daisies.

Mrs. David Campbell. Jr.. was matron of h on or for her slater-in-law. wearing a floor length gown of aqua organza over taffeta with matching halo headdress. She carried a nose- gay of red and white carnations.

T msman was David MacPherson. brother of e groom. and the ushers were Da- vid Campbell. Jr.. brother )I the bride, and Alfred MacPher- son, brother of the groom.

Mrs. Campbell chose for her daughter‘s wedding. a navy cos. tume with matching cloche in velvet. and other accessories in the same color. and a corsage of red and white carnations.

The ’s mother. Mrs. MacPherson. was gowned in a sheath dress in aqua printed "silk. with hat and other acces- nories in white. Her corsage was of white carnation.-

Following the ceremony a re-

tion was held in the Kenslng- ton Elementary School Auditor- ium. A three tier wedding cake. lighted tapers and bouquets 0 mixed summer flowers graced the bride's table.

The bridegroom responded to the toast to the bride. proposed by Father Callaghan. F nther Murnnflmn acted as master of

common s. Many of the guests were later

tentertainod at the bride's home

when they viewed the gifts and

the bride I yellow linen suit. with matching and white accessories. and col-sage of tangerine carnations. Both are employed with Canada Packers. Charlottetown.

Out-of-province guests were Mrs Anne Spnulding of Dorclies- for. Mann. and Mr. a Mrs. Lotus Griffin and daughter. Don- na and son Kenneth. of St. Ca- tharine's, Out.

and small daughter Cindy Lynn.1

ry P. Bernard. St. Louis __________________———-—

“ still I! a wrong thing to

I children. the eldest a girl. Recently she as omc cause of great worry and tens- to

am the mother of three lovely 15.

n.

She says she is being depriv- ed of “freedom and independ- ence" which all her girl friends are alleged to possess.

For example. I won't let her ,date boys can row dad's car for the night." as feel she is much too young for that kind of thing. She protests that all her girl friends have enjoyed this privilege for years.

She also insists that I am "old fashioned and impractical" because I’ve said that she may not telephone a boy to ask

im to a school dance. Although she attends a private school for girls. I feel the initiative should come from the boy. Am I right in my restrictions? Or is really entitled to more free- dom? A B.

AB: You are partly right and partly wrong in you at- tutudes outlined.

‘It is your rightful responsibil- ity, of course. to be morally alert to safeguard your daughter's welfare. and to follow the lead of your oum common sense. ra- ther than take your cue from what she says her girl friends do, with their parents“ permis-

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sion.

However. it isn’t very intelli- gent to assign your daughter to especial social group. as in sen- ding her to a private all . girls' school. and then try to hold tie:- to a pattern of mom - bossed be. havior that puts her in a diffi- cult position (as oddball or waIIflower) In relation to the s 01 "in" group's way of doing things.

The prudent, fair - min de d. foresighted way to insure chil- dren‘s "safe conduct" through their adolescent years (insofar as can be done by parental con- trivance) is by putting them in schools that afford the t of associations and the social values and disciplines (embo- died in_group example) that you approve.

During the adolescent season of life (ranging from 13-14 to 19-21 years of age). it is natural and indeed desirable for youu— gsters to be moving strongly out- ward to their so - called p e or group. rather than clinging to family apron strings. inasmucu as adolescence represents (or should represent) the final phase of the weaning process.

Your daughter is giving evi- dence of wanting to follow this positive growth trend, in plead Ing for permission to keep step with youngsters whom she ooks upon as enviable pace- setters in the teenage society to which she is exposed

Well. so much for preface Now for specifics. All sensible adults realize

that girls. 15. are simply inad equate in almost ev'ery respect to protect themselves from the myriad risks Implicit in dat- ing adolescent boys at night. ho are out and about in their

w dad's cars.

Therefore we know that no matter how many foolish par- ents allow their 15 - year- old daughters that “privilege.” It do:

g use potentially dl- sastrous to a girl who doesn’t

know better.

0n the other hand. it seems entirely correct for your idau. ghter to invite some boy to her private school dance partner or escort. I take It). can't imagine why a boy would

Social Leeway Is. Sought By Determined Teenager

I DEAR. MARY HAWORTH:

be expected to “take the lnitIa-

tlve" (your idea) in respect to a girl he hasn’t been dating more or less regularly. And your daughter isn't allowed to date. didn't you say"

Or is it the custom. perhaps, in your part of the South for neigh- bor boys to “take the initiative in squiring girls to such sou- ees? Even so. mannerly boys don't bid for invitations of the sort from girls they barely know.

I would consider it a compet- ent mother’s business to dis. creetly devise a logical appro- ach to rounding - up a suitable boy for the cecaslon. if the girl is so left-out of things, in the younger crowd. that she feels driven to use the phone to try to corral a partner for a school dance.

,So. to sum up: you are mis- sing the nub of the problem in asking (as you do) if you are

our valley: those of the great and ~varied machines presently widening the T01. items al- ways of much interest to every last lad. who dreams one day of operating such giants.

e drifts of blackbirds over the fields. or maybe a par- cel of crown on dusky wingst flying above a hilltop. And this‘ afternoon gave us also the rare calls of the blue jays, from the spruces along the head of the} river below. .

The stream Is clear and mir- roring these days. You see fin- gerlings boat below the lane- bridge. And listening. you can hear its quiet song. It is a gen tle music that which goes with September‘s mellowing days. You see a red leaf. which eul- barked up the creek. float by on a ripple of current. And there, close by. could it be for pretty winter bouquets. or for Hallo- we'en‘s torches only. the cat tails are wearing their freshest brown velvet gowns?

There are too the sedges, the same plumed grasses, that by way of “Everlastings” adorned parlor mantels in an era now one. . Where. we sometimes wonder. are the peacock’s fine feat-hers that in handsome sprays were also favorites on parlor or sitting room manteis we knew? Gifts those were from the pair. that was among the delights at “The Doctor‘s" at the Corner, in our young. re- membered years. We recall how pretty they were as they

sed on the top rail of n wea- thered iongered fence on the‘ opposite roadside. on a sum- mery Sabbath morning. w h e t. folks. having come by horse and carriage or on foot, were ga- thering to worship in the “Old Kirk" close by.

In a move for added conven- ience in the choring at Rob‘s, a barn has been moved to a new site, and is being repaired these days. At Alderlea. the fencing has been completed for late time, and pro-harvest prepara- tions. which have to do with granaries and lofts. are being

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ade. Dusk drops earlier. now that we are into September — And now. exquisite moonlight this night gives. in the wake of a day that was pleasamt.

Until tomorrow —- — Diary- Goodnight. . . . . A

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“right in your restrictions." or if your daughter is “entitled to more freedom." Your policy. as stated. is well meant but al- most and wisely responsive to the special circumst aces. Your daughter is entitled to intellige nt family leadership and supportive guidance. rather than to a blank check (so to speak) of “more freedom." .H.

PISQUID EAST

Miss Shirley Jay left Wed. nesday for Halifax and St. Petersburg, Fla, and will re- turn to Edmonton. Alta. where, she will spend a two weekst holiday with her parents. Mr. and Mrs. Harold .lay. .

Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Craig. West Covehead were visitors at. the home of . d Mrs}.

a H a w o r th counsels George Jay Saturday. . through her column, not b Mr. and Mrs. Albert Lannan. mail or personal interview. and family. West Royalty were;

Write her in care of The Guard- an. Wallace Birt Sunday.

VIR. AND MRS.

ALAN CARR

Honeymoon In New England Follows Burlington Nuptials

Roses. lilies and snapdrago decora t e d . Stephen‘s Church. Burlington for the Au-‘ gust wedding of Helen Jean Murphy of Sea View, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Murphy of Sea View to Alan MacGregor Carr son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Carr 0 North St. Eleanor‘s. Officiating clergyman was Rev. W Eric iIngraham, rector of St. Mai-- garet's of Scotland Anglican Church. Halifax. The sol- oist. Judith Woodside of Sea View sang “The Voice That Breathed O'er Eden" as the bride entered the church

d “0 Perfect Love" during the signing of the register. She was accnmpanied by the bride's great aunt. Mrs. Hazeli Cameron. I

Given in marriage by her‘ father. the bride wore a fu I II length sheath gown of white’ peau de sole. The long tapered . sleeves ended In points and but} toned at the wrist. Her head- dress, a tiara of lace and seed pearls held a veil of shoulder length tiered tulle lllusion.’

‘ yer book

roses and ii}

The matron - of - honor the bride's sister, Rita MacAu—I Bloomf i e 1 d.

stand of

covered with

red

was

The

bridesmaids were the late Lois Murphy RN. sister of the bride‘ldia has promised South Viet

and Elizabeth Hiltz of Kensing- Nam ton. The flower girls were tance in "the Carla Murphy. niece of

bride and Kimberly

the Murphy.

sister of the bride. The brides maids and matron . of - honor wore satin sheath dresses with

lace overskirts in green. gold. Their head-

pink. and

deep

dresses were lace pill boxes in

matching colors. wore identical

Flower girls w hi t e nylon-

M on of white carnations.

For 1 honeymoon to the New lYork's World's Fair and New Engla id States. the bride wore a two piece walking suil (‘f .pale blue brocaded rayon anti satin with a corsage of White .carnatinns.

The newlyweds will‘reside in INorth St. Eleanor’s where (no ‘ groom farms and the hr i d e teaches school at St. Eleanor‘s. tom of town guests included ers. Hayden Dixon and Ma- lrion Dixon. North Bay. Ont;

[andhluo outflows I

IMr. Mrs. Alan T a tc . IOttawa Ont : Rita A, Murphy, IBismark. North Dakota: Dr. I and M r 5. Rob e rt Murphy, iHalifax. NS: Rev. and Mrs. IE r i c Ingraham, Hall! a x .

3N.S.: Lillian Tate and Mrs. Annie Tate. Ottawa. Ont. . Photo by Heckbert Studio)

Miss Lois \‘essey. daughter of r. Mrs. Louis Vessey. ‘. is a patient in the P.E.l. I Haspitai. shower was held In York

' A .Hall retentlv in honor of Miss

Z -s an :1 D. § .II

V Harry Lewis I have returned home after spend-

Hug the summer at Stanhope

Mrs. WI). Cooke has returned . to her home in York after spend- " ing a holiday with her daugh- j for and son-in-law.

ngs, RE, Bell and family, i‘Toronto.

I Miss Beryl Vessey. York is [visiting ln

Dartmouth. N.S.. ; the guest of Miss Linda Hardy. t Miss Vera Mallett. York has ‘returned home after spending Ia holiday In Cnvehead. with friends and relatives.

Miss Florence Vessey. York, is visiting with Miss Sharon Hardy. Dartmouth, NS.

’ Mr. Barry Metcalf has re- turned to his home In Dart- ‘mouth. NS. on Saturday. Sep- tember 5th. He was accompani- ed back by Mr. Reg. Masher. York.

. TO All) VIETNAMESE

NEW DELHI (Reutersi-Jm and assis- economic. social :and humanitarian fields" in its fight against the Communists, External Affairs Minister Swa- ran Singh told Parliament Tues- day. He said South Vietnamese Premier Nguyen Khanh sought aid in a letter to Prime Minis- ter Lal Bahadur Shastri.

co-operation

over - satin dresses and white lace pill boxes. . The best man was KennethI Carr. brother of the groomi The ushers were Lloyd Murphy. brother of the bride and William Parker. cousin of the groom. For the reception at lrish- t town Community Hall. the : bride‘s mother received wear- 0 ing a beige linen sheath dress ‘ with accessories of beige and brown and corsage of rust I mother chose a blue two piece

uvisitors at the home of Mrs. I She carried a lace covered pra- ‘ dress of pure silkwi‘th white 4%.“.4“,

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