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NOT RUSH INTO MARRIAGEl

Xoung Folks Should Be Well Prepared To,

Meet The Battles That Always Come Later In Life

A netti- Miss Dix-I am s. girl of 1'1. very much h love with I boy of l9, who wants me to marry him at once. He earns $20 s week Can

we lire and be ha r on

week, and there is a younger brother. fiance has had one year at a 111F110!‘ college mid

that? i-lis mother is a widow who earns $20 a

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plans oii putting himself through college. I. tuu. had planned on having a. college education, but he objects to that. as he says it would Dill m‘? out of his class. He does riot want. me to date any other boy or g0 out of town. Saiys if 1_ (i0. 1 will go out of his life frever. would it be wtse for us t’) ntairy secretly now. 0i‘ wait iint-i1 we finish college? ll I married him now. would I add to

his burdens?

ANN A.

ANSWER-One of the most pitiful fhlflfii in the rsorlo, Anna ls that so many marriazcs

5 that ironic have been gloriouslv happy.

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heartbreaking failures bccause the boy and Hill

lacked the courage and tl1€‘\\'lSCi(itl1

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unti‘ they were prepared to IIIH1‘I‘\'__FOI‘ it lakes

a lot of tiiings beside love to make 1118111‘ It takes enough B29 for a coupe to

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- i t want in their mates, and tr) be hltflswtlmalhglllslgtltl: éllg-llagirji-Rgllllg t: tes are formed. It takes enough slgljolvqpy to live in decent. comfort and not be harassed by \"°"'l‘?""l€

where the next meal is coming from. It takes adults and Ml children to meet the problems of miiiilhéirl’ and boy hi" thesfi ‘M for children in their teens to marry ls like assuming the burdens that. strong men and women can bps!‘ with one, but that crush babes when put upon them. Don t try U115 hazardous experiment.

Education is important-

You and your sweetheart ‘both want a college education. Ifu. off your marriage until you are trlrmlZfl school. By the end of_ that time you will know many things you do not lmow now. You will have me‘. many different people. You wii. have changed your 90ml 01' Vie" m i, thousand diffs-rentmibjects. And. above all, you will know whether you still want. ear-h other or not.

PP-Fhapl you will. ‘Perhaps voii WDtTl- But. if you find W“ hi“? lost; your allure for each other. how much better to have found it out before marriage than after- wards. And if your love is riot strong enough to stand a four- ycars test. how could it endure the strain of marriage?

Never Marry Secretly

At any rate. whatever you do. never marry secretly. It always leaves a sear uPOIL t?“ 3m “d” docs it. for a ‘SODlIlSlZICaI/Qd woild iicvci" believes in the validity 0i l1 bclated wedding certificate. Uri- lcss a man is iviilintt T0 ma"? i0“ openly before the World. d0 119i marry hkn at all.

Perhaps if you are a wizard 0! I manager you can live on s20 a week and be 112mm‘ 0n a diet of bread and cheese and crackers. but there will be no margin for extras in it and no chance to save 11p anything against a. rainy dfly- And no one is suie against that.

Suppose you have sickness. Slip- p059 s, baby comes. Suppose 3W1‘ siiectiiezirtls mother lose; hei __l0b Suppose even X0111‘ b°Y “Fwd ‘ghfiuld loo his job after marriflfflt- what thcrl? carrt vou see W a miseries you would be called i100" to bear. what anxieties to suffer. and how you botli would wlill ti?“ "iou hazi waited to-{marfy lmlf} 3°“ were prepared l0. meet i" re" r-pouslbilltlcs? .

ix— am s woman ofDlliallrnlltllligaDlittlezx zlrl 1° F?!“ 01:1. After one unhHDP-l’ mafilafle and divorce and Wars of a lciiiiic Struggle iiyiiig to support my child. I fell in love with a mar! and six months ago we were mar- ried and established a little i“°‘ 100m efficiency apartment. I kent on Willi my 10b and Put my fall‘; mg. into supiwrrms the he“; =1:- paying all of my childs cXll-BB-S- but iii spite of my (101111)! me ('°°l“ iiig and housework. in addition to contributing to the 119K990 "l the home. my husband i185 810W“ dissatl fied and sullen and threatens 1o walk out on us. His ex:use is

my child, who, he sass. 1'5 a 5351a”;

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fresh brat and that. he hate; the sight of her.

I grant she does answer back, because she has never known me proper discipline. I have worked since sire was a tiny baby H1101 never could be much of a mother or train her a. she should nave been. I am very unhappy We!‘ my state of affairs. I haven't the money to send her away to school. If I send her to her fat-her and his parents back Enst. they would keep her and I would never sec her again.

Lliate for my second marriage to be a failure. I don't see how I could take it again and I don’: know what to do about. my child and am almost crazy from \‘.'O1'i‘_\‘.

M. R.

ANSWER~ Surelis no ivoman ever lace a. nmre heart-breaking problem than the one who has to decide between her child a-ncl r. second husband. and f nilv you from the bottom of my heart. and wish that I could tell you some happy way to solve your diffic iltv. But 1 know of none. because it is only in fairy stories that men change their natuics and from having been cruel ctepfathers turn into tender guardians of their slep- childreii and real fathers to them.

You cannot count on that miracle taking place, or the child behav- ing tactfully towards vour husband So that situation will grow worse and your life will become a tor- ment trying to keep the peace be- tween tlicm and shield the cli 1d from him. But is is up to you to decide which of the two is more neces ary to your happiness".

Inasmuch as you admit that you have never had the time or the opportunity to be a real motlirr ti) ice cnild, and give her the disci-

pline she needed or even make a real home for her, don't you think it would be best for licr for you t.) send her to her grandparents for a few years?

This is the formative period of her life, and if it is spent in the atmophere in which she is now, with her rebelling against the in. justice of her stepfather and quar. reling and fighting with him and cefyiniz him and with you dragged into the domestic warfare an’! with no one to control her. it will vraru her nature and make her one of the wild girls who know no law but their own wills and come to no good end.

It will require a great sacrifice oin your part but. after all, her good is the paramount considera- tion. DOROTHY DIX.

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FRESH RIIUBARB

No product cf the farm is more welcome on Canadian table; than the first tender, flowing pink stalks t-f fresh rhubarb. Canadian rliiibarb is now on the market ready to be consumed in a va- filly of ways. The Consumer Sewlr-e section of the Marketing Service, dominion DFipflflllifnl of Agriculture. offers the lollow.ng tested recipes:

RHUBARB (JUSTARD 3 cups rhubarb 1 cup sugar 2 tfibi05P.O1I5 flour 2 tablespcons butter 2 iggs Chop rhubarb. Pour boiling wa- ter cver it and 1st stand 5 manutcs. Drain thsrouglily. Beat egg yolks and add sugar, flour and melted butter. Bake in a slow oven Z5 min- utcs or until stt. Beat egg whites. When stiff add 3 tablzspo n? sugar. Spread inmrgue C11 custard. R2- turn to ovcti l0 set and brown slightly.

STEWED RIIUBARB 6 cups rhubarb (Washed and cut into I. inch

pores, but ml peeled) 1 ("up stisiar

Put l‘i‘il'l73'h in lcp blrlrr. Cwnei" (“c1031 boiling watrr until tender. Add sugar. Rwnove f1“.t'l1 fire but let stand crer water, ksepirg clc."1y ccverri uni.l sugar is d?- sclved. Less sugar is required if ad- ded after making. A5 aiidzty v.1?- ies. more sugar may he riquired

with some varieties,

RHUBARB BETTY

Cut bread in 1-2-inch slices. But- ter and cut slices int: cubes. Gait rhubarb in 1-2-inch. length In a buttercd baking dish place bread and rhubarb in alternate layers. sprinkling each layer of rhubarb generously with sugar Have top layer brzaxi. Cover and bake slcwly 34 hour. Rcmcve cover and bake 1-4 hour. Serve hot or ccld with cream.

RI-IUBARB JUICE

Put rhubarb tl-irIugh the food olicppcr. Measure and allow an equal quantity of watrr. but stand over night. Squeeze through several tlfcknesses of cheeseclot . Bring to boiling point and add 3-4 cup sugar for each cup juice. Boil 5 mlnutea Use with rther fruit juices to make acidulat/sd drinks.

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A Romantic Future In the Cards

Love, luck. riches-it's Ill in the cards! And thrilling time! are in store for the girl who knows their meanings.

The minute you start shuffling your mysterious deck. everyone gathers round eagerly. Ladies flrstl Your "client" picks s name card- if she's a blue-eyed brunette, the Queen of Heart-s.

Ah! "Love at first sight," you pre- dict, "marriage in three days!" How come‘! Why, a TALL DARK MAN, the Jack of Spades, turned up be- side her name card. Then the Three of Clubl, THREE DAYS, and the Eight of Hearts-MARRIAGE!

If you've s skeptic to deal with. use the Mystic Method of the Sevens. 111st old gypsy method can't be w-rongl You twice discard the first card after every seven, then discard every seventh card.

For B111, fatefully near his name card is an Ace of Spades, l LONG JOURNEY . , . Queen of Spades. I WIDOW . , . Five of Diamonds, SURPRISING NEWS. What n for- tune you can weave therel

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Mother to keep British

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ships of ialthted food y mov “g amang the Nome war ‘ began. the Queen wears ti‘: maple he. of the visit to Canada in days before the ivav

and nightly bombings. As leaf emblem which reminds

For Tuesday, February 25th

MARCH 21 t; APRIL 20 (Aries) —Good for finishing iiic.ni1..‘.zed matters and carrying Lrwaid pre- viously made plans. Personal wisnts may have to be def-erred until a later date when the vibi'a.t-.oiis are more favorable for private interests, APRIL 21 to MAY 20 (Taurus)- Stars worn against to; much free- dom in sptech, thought and action. There are laws of state, cuiitry and God that should be respcvred and obeyed. Be fearless in following that which is right, and just. Business favored tcday,

MAY 21 to JUNE 21 (Gemini)- All mental wark and progress ve and useful matters shruld meet with

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JUNE 22 t JULY 23 (Cancer)- Uzillectloris, fnanclai returns from investments and money matters in general may nzt show immediate icsults but. all lines if honest in- dustry and business can make galls and headway.

JULY 24 to AUGUST 22 (Leo)- Illidltiatltfils today point to achieve- ment and solid benefits. Reflect Lrst oii what you plan to do; guard against, ova-enthusiasm lest it. misgu tie ycu. Be ccrperartve with employer, emrploye, all with whom you must work or asstclate

AUGUST 23 to SEPTEMBER 23 (Virgo) - mpeclally favorable for sicvi-maturiug pimjects, clerical and analytlVca1lo_rlt,__research, diplo-

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SEPTEMBER 24 to o-croiam 23 (Libra) — WaJte no time now. for this is a, day for getting things done-and d.iie in a. iffy, tna. New trys, new cdents, improvements, correcting errors and speeding up shipments and orders are among the favored items.

I BER. 24 to NOVElVEBER. 22 (Scorpio) - Not particularly aus- picious far financial transactions but plans f.r their cxecuttzn later should be pushed. Elxocllenit riod for pIEparatlDn and foun atlon work, general renovation and all necessary duties.

NOVEMBER 23 to DECEZMBEH 22 (Sagittarius) AJM. rays stress advantages to be gained in building, manufacturing. etigimxr- mg, consultations, agreements, in- tervieivs. P. M. best far carrying thr-llgli work and plans already begun and for mental problems.

DECEMBER 23 to JANUARY 21 (Caipriccrn) — Friendly for all sub- slantlal and urgent business trans- actions and activities, though you may have to work harder than us- ual to keep up with your schedule Keep smiling, tao.

JANUARY 22 tr) FEBRUARY’ 20 (Aquarius) - All your interests will need YOUR close application arid astute judgment toda but you can succeed in your en esvors 1f you will apply both rightly. Urgent mat- ters flrst. please.

FEBRUARY 21 to MARGH 20

. (Pisces) — One admonition for this ‘ otherwise benefl-cent clay: D n't be

too aggressive. Your own natural persuasive way will get quicker, raiirer results. Branch cut where you fccl it will aid your interests.

A CHILD BORN ON THIS DAY Patient, studious, somewhat of a thoughtful in

cver greater knowledge. Capable of

r reaching great heights but should’ . have encouragement. I (Lvldual if tfllp to its better nature.

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"Rufus, did y-zu go to your lodge meet.ng inst night?" " o, gah, we done have to post- pone it."

"How was that?"

"Do Grand-All-Pawerful - Most- rnvinclble - Uncanquerable Poten- tste got beat uip."

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Snow ll beautiful, no doubt, 0n palace or on hovel;

It's very line to write about, But mighty mean to shovel.

CON SQLATION

A friend met a cheerful Irishman who bpd plainly suiflfcred turd

“Well, Pat, how are y;u getting on now." he inquired.

“Oh, OYm still hard up, but Oi've s fine ljclb in Honoiulee, and fare paid. O sail tomorrow."

"Sure, mun, you'll never be able to work there. the temperature is» o. hundred in the shade."

Pat had cheerfull

. hopefully, "Oi'11 not be workln’ in th‘ shade all th‘ toime."

llll CONDITIONING II POPULAR IN INDIA

Air conditioning is making rapid progress in India. The principal railways have installed cookng equipment on many of their longer lines and travelling in air condl. tloned (LflClI-SS is finding great, favor with time public.

Executive officers in many lead- ing commercial houses are now cooled artificially, as are some of the government departments 1:1 Calcutta. Industrial establishments, especially in the textile business, have put in air conditioning alppa- ratus. In the last few years Bom- bay cctton mills have spent 1.- 590.000 for this purpose. Portable room coolers are much in demand acid dealers’ stocks are frequently exhausted.

Dry a paisley shawl thoroughly before pressing. ‘Ihen la a. damp cloth on the wrong si e _ of the shawl and ess with a moderately hot. iron tin il the cloth is dry. Be careful not to scorch the material woollens burn easily,

Know thyself and do time own work, says Plato, and each includes the ether and covers the whale duty of man-Montaigne.

m Swiss are the world's great- est milk drinkers, consuming an average of 232 quarts per person annually.

It is better to scrape raw potatoes than pare them when preparing to i311, Pull food value is thus retain-

Candies and pine knots dipped in pitch fcllowed early types of lamps. Whale oil came centuries later, then the kerosene lam and coal gas lighting and. fins y, electric iiizht- ng.

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Pedicure, shown its that m, be (xmfortablc and 2:91] 3101'! both at the same time. and "V; would keep our fret ill favor l1 u mus . ~ l d; assage slwuld rlo t“, - *_ Keep skin soft, smo-itlt flndtlllxglau‘ free; cunleraci. 11m mm ' that develc because _ [Eel- Fiflld a1 day long 7 foot or hand cream ' Well up from t/Ws zlsprefidxd ltofs out lo 1e ems rc n" (‘flirt-f start with uuifiiii. below lift-sill" "5 lPbWB. fit centre o; mo, a" work outward (lunar. 1.10.,“ l“ opposite directions) with a rdun: and round "pulling" mq-Nmm

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FINDS QUALITY or SLEEP]! MORE THAN QUANTITY

Quality of sleep. rat-her than quantity, determines how a person will feel the next day, scoot-db“ to a Czrmecticut scirntlst. Alter studyin the sleeping habits of all universi y students, he reported that five and three-quarters houn oii‘ sleep s. night is the minimum that an adult should have in otdei to feel properly refreshed the next day. Tho quail y of sleep is largely determined by the kind of nint- tiesses, bedflgrings and pillows upon which. t e sleeper; rest

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