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{Dorothy Dix Says-

Vl’0MAN ROBS MAN’S HAPPINESS OBJECTING TO HIS VOCATION

No Grounds For Doetor’s Wife To Worry Over His Seeing Women Unattractive In Illness

DEAR MISS DIX—I am engaged to be married to a very fine man with whom I am in love. but I have made it a condition of our martial‘? that he give lllp his profession. and he ref-uses to do so. Hhis a doctor and I simply cannot bear the thought of his giving most of s time and thoughts and attentions to other women. I see red when I think of him holding the hands of neurotic women all dolled up in ink silk and lace Iwflllgflfis. and listening. with pretended sympathy. whi c they talk about

my life eaten with

meanselye- and their symptoms. I don't want to spend u

Jealousy and suspicions, but when 1 plead with him to give up his profession he positively refuses. Says that all oi his life he anything or wan

doctor. That it his Cglliilil. That he spent {c1115 tha he

other occupation.

Don't you think that if he really loved me. he would be willing to give up his profession for me? UNHAPPY FTANOEE.

Lair MEDDLIENG WITH MAN'S VOCATION PERILOUE

ANSWER-I think you are a very silly woman, as well as a very sell- Ish one. to even ask your fiance to make such a. sacriilw as giving up is life work for you, just because you imagine that it will in some way 1i- tate against our owning his body and soul. To every man who h in him any a ition and purpose in life his occupation is more thanajlllb a way to make money. It is a vocation to which he vows himself and into which he puts the work of his hands and his dreams and aspirations. and with this a woman meddles at her peril.

Take away from a man the work he loves to do and in vihich he

finds a never-faiiinglinterest. and delight. and you rob hiim of his happi-

ness. lilorce him to an uncongenlal occupation and you make him B

Gallon. for we have to nut our hearts as well as our back into our labor we succeed.

Yet many wives fall to comprehend this. They refuse to go with their husbands to some place where better opportunities are open to Chem because they don't want to leave Mother and their bridRe four- somes. They can't see why John wants to go and bury himself on a farm. or why Tom doesn't give up trying m writ or nant pictures and take a steady paying job selling shirts and neckt es in a haberdashhy. And they can't understand why Sam won't resign from the Navy or the Anny and go into raising potatoes when he knows they like to stay put in one place. and that it ma-kcs them nervous to think of him being so ar sway.

There are some things in even a. husband's life in which no wifepgas a righ lto interfere, and one of them is his choice of a profession. at is be een hun and his own soul. and wise is the wife who recognius

an? w .makes her husband's life work her ally instead of her rival.

In this particular case I should like to say to Unhappy Fiancee that she is certainly going out of her way to hunt for trouble in being iealous of her doctor fiance's prospective feminine patients. The more of these, sick ladies. outside of

the better for her Nor need she feel that their pocketbooks. have any special allure. No man sees women at their worst as a doctor does. There is nothing in a peevlsh. iretful invalid.

witn her hair in strings and her complexion off. that will make her doc- tor forget the healthy. hardy. alert wife at home. Particularly if she has

enough good sense not to nag him and be suspicious of his patients.

DEAR MISS DIX-I am a. much perturbed husband who is being wrongfully accused of infidelity by my wife to whom I have been faith- ful for more than thirty years. My business is such that throws me in the company of women as well as men. and during all of this time my wife has accepted the ation Jun as it was, with never a thought of ealoiisy. _But now she has gone off of the deep end and accuses me of ing olzmoestinelv mixed up with another man's wife.

The woman in question is young, pretty. friendly nnd one of myégild customers. and nothing more. There is absolutely no reason for my e's suspicions But I am tired of havin her treat me like an inferior being and accuse me of doing things that would not condescend to do. for I am of a religious bent-honest. and have the respect of the commun ty.

_I think my wife's affection died with the coming of our prosperity. and she thinks of me as a darn good provider and nothing else. l have not ccme down to brass tacks with her on this matter. as she alwa s cries and carries on hysterically whenever she ls the least bit reprimand- ed for anything. What shall I do? PERTURBED HUSBAND,

IIYSTERICS ACT SILENCES HUSBANDS

ANSWER-A lot of wives get away with practically murder by hav- ing hystcricswhenever their husbands put them on the carpet; for some- thing they are doing. It's an act that nearly always doe; the trick and silences the husband. because few men have the courage to go through with a scene. ‘This is a mistake. '

Inasmuch as you are innocent. tgll your wife in no uncertai terms, and do it in a way that will make her realize that you are talking tug-key to her. that you are not coins tostand for any more of her nagging ard auspmions. one that if she doesnt desist the next person she will tell it to will be the judge in a divorce court. The chances are that that will stop her _i'or. even if she has lost interest in you as a man. she still re- tains a vital interest in you as a rnealtidset, and she won't want to cut herself off from that. ~

But don't you think that

if. after thl f marri ,

niddenly turned jealous it is because she ldtgesxylgvg $011. anriaggcasrtsee 2i: sees her good looks fading and is afraid that he; hold upon v01; wm g0 with Hence she gets green-eyed over every woman with whom you asaascrssatzsssssrtsm‘ "Bu" "c" a" 1- “=1 h" m"

Perhaps she only needs you to make fng her for granted. and tell her that

love to her again. instead she

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1n better days you had stuffed most; now it’: more Prim-loll W add-meat to stuffing. Combine cubes of leftover beef or ham or whatever you have to bread dress- ing and saute lightly. Place in greased casserole and kc in a moderate oven (350 degrees P.) for an hour- Serve with leftover gravy or with ttmato sauce.

Brown sugar is less inclined to become lumpy when stored in a tightly sealed jar.

When drying stockings hang them between damp towels so the mois- ture evaporates evenly and streaks are avoided.

HINTS ON ETIUETTE

Don't interrupt people who are talking- It is a form of insult, as if what you have to say is more important than hnythng the speak- er may be talking about.

MORE CHILDREN'S CLOTHES

A Prices Board order increasing the sup l'v of children's clothing for the retail trade is expected to be announced in the near future The order probably will help over- come a "tight" supply situation in some centres. Restrictions on styles for women's clothes will be con- tinued since no extra material is available

covn-rasv ran-wanna!)

Stanley Ernest l-lenworih. retired British cloth manufacturer who died last April. was impressed by the courtesy of the young shop girl who waited on him in an electrical store five years ago, in 10.13am England Probate on his will re. ~ently disclosed he left the m1 Mrs. Alli Earnshaw- now 26 and daughter of the shop-cwnciq the equivalent of $90,000.

SOCKS INTO MJTTENQ

Even if junior’ feet on the fragile side coinrgagerlnttgg others he can can still make good use of father's old socks. the legs of which are usually good long M. ler the feet are worn out. Bring them out from their hiding nlagg in the rag bag or the bureau Wash them thoroughly and m" ‘it: info mittens. your" “m! flak bse _ liaht-weight mittens - e eautifullv covv Hnfnqg gm Juniors heavier outdoor on",

WEI I5 YEARS 0F SIIGGESS

wo ld f I . mcxuth 1'2‘ tiléltllss fin???“ and “we DEAR DOROTHY

when he sans! ' Pack

hour. I am quite cute. but just sit ano cry and cry over him.

ANS our mother is ily.

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Living fie’ Leisure

The Woman's Realm

THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN

Woman's Re alm I Social andPe

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lnchasatoneondoftboold - lomlhoniesvoslimiiro inthcnswpiiiowtiohSt-i tho

pening to the d shake hi’: fgatbsrs. a r m!!!" "I" new pillow ticking. Then sow

up the opening-

lxperts have estimated that the amount of coal saved by inltllllnl tight-fitting storm windows is more than Bfiotgounds per window. which means at by uslns vhwl more than a wn o! coal can be saved each year in o home with ‘six windows

TOUGH GONG

Two navies were having a meal at an eating house. One of them had been hacking away at a steak for quite a time. but without much success. Turning to his mate he said in a loud voice: “Taint the food wot does yer good ‘ere Alf: it's the blinkin’ exercise."

MOTH EB.

‘Happy’ he with such h: mother! Faith in womankind beats with his

blood. And trust in all things high comes w .

easy m, And though he trip Ind i811 I-Ie sh?" not blind his soul with clay." 1 nnyson.

BOW T0 MAKE A QUILTED HOUSE JACKET

If you have g, discarded cotton frock that doesn't fit and doesn't look well. or even a playsie or rot- ton housecoat. you're in luck! You can make yourself a cosy. attrac- tive house jacket for this winter's chilly, indoor days.

Any simple jacket pattern can be used for the cutting out and for the quilting you can use an old blanket worn thread-bare in naris. or a light-weight coat or wncl dress -a.nvilrine in fact made of warm maibrie] that "nu don't ouiie "now what to do with.

Rip nllseevns and stltchir" first and wash all the nieces. Washing the pieces rather than the whole warment gets the flirt out of the seam allowances. ‘Fhen lav the nat- tem on the pieces of matrrlal and cut out two natterns. one from the ;r\l‘lon. one from the other mater- a

Then tack the pieces of printed cotton and other material together. sewing around all the outer edges.

Next. machine each niece of ms- terlal with parallel dievonal lines of stitching. leaving 1 1-2 in 2 inch- es between the lines. ‘lechlne. again in the other direction with similar lines of flltching to from a series of diamond shapes. Then make un the house jacket i" ‘he usual way.

FEATHERLIGHT PLASTIC

The woman shopping for costume Jewelry these days will be - pressed with the quantity and rar- iety of plastics. which. unlike most costume Jewelry. are very light The new lines of plastic jewelry are “light as a feather." and the shop- per who has g tendency to Jud the value of a. trinket by its weig t

ll ham to choose some other method of evaluating it.

I curt’ eat. sleep. or ldopalrTyTliiranigfa-rlirgkijiiii o! ama" I

don't even bother to wash u

. My she wont even bother with me any more.

' WEB-Go and have your head xamined mbably won't find an evidence that e f l“ Y the one who is am

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way to shut a jealous woman's

Sinatr swooner. him. The other night sat down and cried for over an s any more. I mother ia so disgucsted with me What shall I (o?

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Wool lobvlu . . . Dip wool fabrics regularly in Lu. Never dry is hot or mid air. Sudden changes of

temperature lend no shrink wool.

Swollen a . Di unsure is h: no remove ma ag perspiration than so and man. Ban ape, following drawn out- line, and dry flu away from hell.

SUMJVERFIELD SUB DIVISION

merfield Catholic Women's gue was held Sunday Nov. 7th with the Pres, Mrs- James Lawless in the chair. Meeting opened with the League prayer. On motion it was decided to send $5 to T B League for Christmas seals. The treasurer reported sixteen boxes packed and mailed to boys and nursing sister overseas Convenor of war work re- ported nine dresses made and sent to Red Cross also two being made aficr the bus completed the President introduc" ed the-Diooean President, Parnel McMahon who gave a very inspiring address on the good work

store a good and lasting peace for us all and that mmebers are to work as never before in unity to help and encourage dear ones in strange lands that they may be snared to come back to their homes in the near future. Mrs. McMahon also vvrlro vet-v n~r~n<rrgqlrr~ in the sub-Division. although- t-‘he good work they nwl d~n~ in the short time they have been organiz- ed and hoped for bigger and better achievements in the year to come. A vote of thanks was moved by Mrs. Croken. to Mrs. McMahon for her splendid talk. The Chaplain Rev. ~ F7. Murray spoke thanking Mrs. coming to the meeting to give such s. fine address. He expressed his retrei. that there was not a larger number to benefit lecture and rave great oraise to the local Sub-Division for the work they» d" hAAh wnvlr“ ems not." nh. ligations. 0n motion meeting ad- iourned.

per cent__90l>p91'. l? Per cent__z_inc.¢9ri_c-_l-_ial£_pound of cltron, all of

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Yea, Whole-Grain Oatmeal leads good for my baby when only very every natural cereal in proteia- ygung?

fhegrutvltsliiyfsctotthlflmelt’! A. Yes the extra ration for corn main elemeaoClziidren mustbave syrup is for babies under two yell’! lrior normal growth. Adult! must of age. However. if for medical

have it for stamina and to help fight fatigue.

No other natural cereal, lint or cold, restored o: nor, gives you: hmllythcprotecdonoi‘ is. Grain Oatmeal. So servo 4 this hot, delicious Whole-Grain brash ha! each morning.

reasons the child required eddi- tional corn syrup in h" d1" 5"" sho is two years old. this could be obtained if a signed medical certi- ficatc were presented to s LOCII Ration Board.

Q Am I right in believing that when tenants o! my‘ lllflflmofll change at an early date, it will be necessary for me t0 i190“ 49ml! of the new lease to the tenant and also to the Rentals Administration?

A. Yes. You should obtain ies of the form nc-io from ths Wartime Prices and Trade Board. fill them in and give or send one copy to your new tenant and an- Itrlther to the Rentals Administra-

on.

0 when do the sugar and tcs or coffee coupons remaining in the No. ‘l ration books expire?

A. These coupons expire in the hands of consumers on December 31. They should not be cashed. however. unless there is real need for the rationed goods which they represent.

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l TWO CHANCES A-NYWAY

One Negro was worrying about the chance oi his being drafted for the arml" The other consoled him.

“There's two things that can happen. boy. You is either draft- ed or you ain't drafted. If you ain't you can forget it; if you is you still got two chances You may be sent to the front and You may not. If you go to the front you still got two chances, you may get shot

land you may not. 1f you get mot,

you still have two chances, you may die and you may not! And even if you die. you still has two chances.”

PIGEON IDIT

It was his first trip to London. and the man from the North was being shown round. The Tower and the Houses of Parliament left

aiasm when they came to St. Paul's Cathedral.

“Bah gum." he sal-i in an awed voice. "Vparson chap here keep! B» champion lot of piaeonsl"

which has been chopped fine. Mes- suro six cups of diced apples and two pounds and one-half of brown su r and mix all ‘* .y- 59l- g0 with one tablesnoonful each of cinnamon and. mace and one-hell’ a tablesooonful each of sali- and cloves. Stir in one quart of boiled cider. Bring to the boiling mint and seal in sterilized l!" ‘mm ready to use.

him cold, but he registered enthu- .

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dows With New Drapes

FOR A NARROW WINDOW Here are bright curtains-lust the for a narrow window to

up its barman. Don't hesitate for a minute because you think it might be loo szpensivflo buy new curtains or drapes. Malta them yourself!

z cups brown sugar, packed down light

l 3-4 cups hot coffee (or water) B tablespoons butter

2 pounds seedless raisins.

i pound seeded raisins, separstcd 1 teaspoon salt

quilts are ness WE!

Mrs .

that is done by this organization 1 teaspoon ., ’ cinnamon.

for Home and qountry all over 1-2 teaspoon (each) ground cloves Canada, particularly for our armed and allspice-

forces who are doing so much to re- 2 eggs l

3 cups once-sifted pastry flour or 2 2-3 cups once-sifted all purpose flour '

2 teaspoons baking powder

l teaspoon baking soda

i. cup nutmeats (preferably “ ” almonds)

1-2 cup alivered mixed peels Simmer sugar. coffee. butter. rais- ins. salt and spices together for 5 minutes. Let stand over night. Beat eggs until very light add and combine well. Gradually work in flour, sifted twice with the baking powder and soda; include nuts and peel with last of dry mixture. Turn into one-pound coffee cans, which have been lined with 3 layers of greased heavy paper. Bake in blow oven 300 deg. about 1 3-4 hours. Cool well before storing.

Country Minaemut

Chop fine three-fourths 5 pound of suet and mix with four cups of dried bread crumbs. Inspect and wash two pounds each of currents and seedless raisins and odd in the first mixture. together with one- fourth a pound each of candied lemon rind and orange rind and

small for

Murphy, seconded bv Mrs.

a few words lillcMeho-v for lrer

by this fine

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