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DOROTHY DIX SAYS-
PAIN t ORGANIC OB FUNCTIONAL
The modern physician would riot like to be without the aid of a lab- oratory. either connected with his ofIioe or at a nearby hospital. It is a great help in making e com- plete diagnosis, and thereby getting early treatment, to the patient, i0 know that a certain suspected dis- ease is or is not present.
However. physicians today, while still using the aid given by the lab- oratory, spend more time studying the personality of the patient as far as this is possible in home or office ‘visits. Thus they learn many things , about the patient that the laboracry icannot tell them.
I In "Journal of he Canadian Medi- lcal Association." Dr. Dean Mac-
donald. st. Catherinek. states that
people, sick or well. are never alike. l They are different in their conscious l and their unconscious responses. physical, mental and omOtiont-ll. Therefore they should be just as in- dividual and different to the psy- sician as they are to themselves. This means that the physicians must "understand" the patient and the symptoms. as stated by the pat- lent or found by the physician, must be considered from the standpoint of the emotional stability of the patient and his surroundings at home and at his work. The most ‘important point here then is that the physician must be a good “lis- tener.’ Any lack of interest on the part of the physician as the patient tells his “story," gives the patient the feeling that the physician is not deeply interested in his case and there is little use in going into de- tails about his symptoms.
A large number of patients either cannot or will not. accept, reject. O!‘ change their mental or physical surroundings. This is why they de- velop frustration. fear. anxiety, hos- tility-that is, from depressed con- flicts. Because tsey have no normal outlets for these emotional cori- flicts. they must have an abnormal outlet. The outlet may be an ab- dominal or other pain. It ls at this point that the family physician who “knows? the patient, can explain how repressed emotions (conflicts) can autuelly cause pain in abdomen or elsewhere in the body.
Ae Dr. Mecdonaidfls article was on abdominal pain his little eplgram. “You do not get peptic ulcers from what you eat. You get peptic ulcers from what is eating you" is particu- larly appropriate.
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1. What is wrong with thin ren- tence? "It looks as though it was going l0 snow."
2. What is the correct pronunc- iation of "faoetious"?
3. “Which one of then word: is miemelled? Pretentious, preposter- ous, presumtuoue. pertinent.
4. What does the word "cep- tious" mean?
5. What is a word beginning with ump that means "making no dis- Dl-Itv. or outward show"?
ANSWER!
1. Bay. "It looks as if it were going to snow." 2. Pronounce fa- se-shus, a ac in ask unstressed, e as in lee, accent second syllable. 3. Presumptuous. 4. Apt to catch at faults. “A vulgar man is caiptlous and jealous." — Chesterfield. 5. Un- pretentious.
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Q. How does one give l. cocktail party?
A. Invitations to these affairs are very informal. usually in person or by telephone. The usual hours ari- from five to seven p. m, or some- times later to suit a special Occas- ion. Cocktails and appetizere are SflrVfd- A thoughtful hostess will also provide fruii juice for those who prefer it. Refreshments and conversation provide the entertain- merit.
Q. Should one ever select a. wed- ding gift that l5 someihing only the bride can use. if one is not ac- quainted with the bridegroom?
A. No; ziltvays select something that can be used and enjoyed by both the bride and bridegroom.
Q. Should the man or the woman make the riiove to stop for cori- versation when they meet each oiher 0n the sires-t."
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A PARTICULARLY lively and possibly dra-niaiic state of affairs is forecast. ln which it is probable that the accent may be placed upon the purely personal, romantic and surprising. In such connection it. may be well to anticipate the un- foreseen and unpredictable M sud-
slirrin; denoucrnerii. probably (1721:;- tic change. In all contacts and al- liances use exceptional discretion. Make no move under strain or ex- cltement.
If It Is Your Birthday
Those whose birthday ll is. may he prepared for a sudden and radi- cal change of tempo, new adven- tures and experiences, particularly in relation with the private, dom- estic or affectlonal life. As well. creative talents. ingenuity. flashes of genius, may be dramatic and in- cite high ventures possibly in un- tried fields or contacts. While the change may be dynamic, unpredict-
rapturous orrrush with composure, careful appraisal and discretion, lest blunder or excitement happy occasion.
A child born on this day should be exceptionally
fly icito strange ventures without much analysis. or precaution.
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SAUCES ‘FOR COOKED CAULI- FLOWER HEAD
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. 1 can condensed mushroom. celery or onion soup, with or with- out té cup grated cheese added. Cheese may be cheddar or process (plain or pfrmento.)
BCALLOPED CAULIFLOWER
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Fc é Th 5+ S soxs CHIEF orrnnnans - - f . ) e ars ay (2 The sin of not writing home letters ls one that is oftcner commit- yg By Quinn“, Kpmble yplted by boys than girls. Very few daughters forgot ho\v eagerly lllPiI‘ ‘ jlpnrcnts awiiit news of liic birds that have left the home nest. Bu!
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Mother Asks Why Children Don't , Write Home To Anxious Parents DEAR MISS DIX: l-Iow about the children who do not write home
to their parents? Our son left ue more than two months ago and has never written us a line. The days drag by and we long for just
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the sight of his familiar handwriting. We don't (‘are if he is not mak- ing good. We just ivzint ln know how he is. Why do children never .. ask themselves: “Do they miss me at home?"
MRS. H. G. C.
ANSWER: To say that it ls lack of thought in-L stead of lack of love that keeps children from ivriting to their parents does not excuse their cruelty. Neglect can he ris much a crime as any over act, and nothing can pailiate the offense of forgetfulness of a father v zind mother whose whole lives are wrapped up in their sons and daughters and who have no interest in life outside of them.
The young seldom moan to be unkind or ungrateful to their pzir- enls, but they are selfish and self-centered. absorbed in their nun iif- fziirs. They forgot flint every little detail of their lives is of more im- portance to their parents than fl. world cataclysm would b0.
it is a common thing for men oiitircly to evade the duly of writing ‘to their rnollicr and fziliier. Sometimes a man's only letter to liis mother is n short fnrmzil nnle dictated to his secretary. Most married men wish the job off mi their wives, which is a poor makeshift, lic- rausc no matter how nuirii a mother likes her dnugliter-ln-lnu’, it is her son who is the (‘ore of licr heart and from whom she wants to hear directly, not through a third party.
Life isn't very guy in the old house after the children leave if. The days lire long mid cniply and the only thing that brightens tlicm up are the letters from the sons and daughters that tell of their love ‘and remembrance of the old people, and that bring to them new life iby making tlicm sliarers ln their children's lives.
' Think of lhc pleasure tliiit a letter can give, you selfish children ‘who never write homo. and sit right down as soon as you road this ziiid write mother a love letter.
1 DEAR MISS DIX: Is there any excuse for young people in love lbclng unconventional and disregarding the marriage vows? I am \'CI‘_\' much in love with a man of 28. who is practically unemployed. 1t lwould be absolutely impossible for us to get married. He argues thril [love is the only thing that matters and that marriage vows don't make l people true to ench other. I have suggested that we be married secret- ly. but he feels tlint such a marriage would be sarrilegious rind not a ‘true marriage at zill because we would be dodging the responsibilities of marriage. What about it? PUZZLED
ANSWER: The commandment: "Thou shalt not commit adultery" is not affected by economic considerations. Because a man is out of work and can't marry a girl doesn't Justify him in leading her from the straight and narrow path.
I never heard so illogical a set of arguments as your boy friend advances. l-Iow docs he figure out that a secret marriage is sacrilegious while n liaison is righteous? I do not approve of secret marriages because I think that a mnn and woman who moan to livc together should have the courage to come out and do it openly. But a secret marriage, where n woman can produce her wedding lines as a proof ' of her honesty. is certainly much better than a liole-nnd-corncr intrigue.
Of course marriage vows don't make people true fo each other, but There are many marriages that endure for a lifetime, but
girl to whom n man proposes a free love union lnstcnd of mi until- rlcntli-ilo-us-prirt one may hc very sure that the frce part comes in his feeling free to leave her whenever he gets tired of the arrangement.
What can you do with a housekeeping crank? I have a sister who was born with a scrub brush in her hand and she makes us all miserable with hcr incessant cleaning. Now is ‘the time for cleaning and she is on a perfect orgy. and there is not a place from cellar to attic where we (‘an sit down in peace. OLGA ANSWER: Why, -I'd leave her to her scrubbing and be thankful that she was doing it instead of I. Anyway, there is no arguing with a vacuum cleaner. DOROTHY DIX cannot: reply personally to readers, but will ans- wer problems nf general interest through her column.
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well and separate into flowerets. Place in a greased baking dish, pOllr‘ ( hot sauce over lop, sprinkle with By Roberta 14a (é buttered bread crumbs, grated l cheese or small pieces of bacon. Place in a very hot oven. 4E degrees F" until crumibs are brown or cheese melted. Yield: six servings.
Candle Grease When candle grease has dropped onto one of your good rugs, scrape it off with a spoon. rather than a knife which would injure the fibre, Press the spot through a blottu: with a. warm iron. Repeat until the grease is removed, shifting inn him. ter from time to time to keep a clean surface over the spot. Baked Potatoes
Rub bacon fat or oily-e oil over the potatoes before baking and it will keep the skins from shrlvellng, and also add to the flavor.
Mending Marble
Broken marble may be mended by sticking the pieces together with a mixture of Portland cement find water in e. very stiff mete.
Worry of FALSE TEETH
Slipping or Irritating?
Don't be embarrassed by loose feiee teeth slipping, dropping or wobbiw when You eat. talk or laugh. Just. sprinkle l\ little FAS- warm on your plates. This pleas. ant powder gives I. remarkabie sense of added comfort and se-
/ curity by holding plate; more / firmly. No eummr. gooey. pasty taste or feeling. It's alkaline (non- acld). Get FASTEHIH at any
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How can I make good varnish for linoleum’!
A. Melt a Innll amount of glue in e pint of water. See that the lin- oleum is clean and dry before ap- plying. Apply with a paint brush at night and the surface will be dry and hard by morning.
Q. How can I remove grease spots frcm a carpet or rug?
A. Rub with a mixture of fuller‘; earth. oxgall. and water. Then rinse thoroughly with clear wafer. and ‘rub as dry as possible with a dry
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By An Island Farmer’! Wife v m}???
"Doee it look like rein, Ellen?" James inquired of u: momenta ago. rousing from a refreshing nap on the couch in the kitchen. taking up we think the threads of thought severed at the approach of sleep. Farmers ask that these days, that continue to shorten, brim them only fair weather, so that the field ivurk hastened now by the fraying season may be brought to an early close. Alone-and yet not actually solitary but with Pard a white scout in the dark to keep us company we have just come from an outing \vliich at length had set us down at lane's end. The night was still and possessed of that strange calm which pre- cedes a change. "It's a bit cloudy. and foggy in places—but that may clear away" we said. But Jun“, who doubtless has had more than one spell of ‘regarding’ during our absence shook his head "I'm thinking, Ellen,“ he commented “thcreil be no saving of turnips tomorrow!"
We blames might chuckle at tliisIJ were “at the turnips" to- day, continuing a chore coni- iiii-nccd the first of the week. l’. is an extended operation at besl. at Aidcrlea because James is a farmer who likes to have an abun- dance of these succulent roots to fbvd to the stock. “What if lhClt content is mainly water" he will re- mark "Lo my mind they make prot- ty good eating for them-or drink- ing. if you will!" Of course no vast acreage is devoted to their cultivation but on the other hand sufficient to keep the [armor-g m. gagcd at their harvesting for e number of days. Today's takings dug by the potato digger. a method not entirely satisfying to James, a ncxat workman, were consigned
to ilic born-cellar, a sizable stor- _
age space reached by way of the barn floor. A broad chute con- veys the turnips down the in- Clint‘, though not always with- somv assistance. Here it is that “pale hands" or indeed any that are willing l0 lift a vegetable are in much‘demand to speed the chore.
In the ahternoon James had ap- peared in the kitchen “to see how the time is going." In reply to our inquiry they were "getting along-pretty vcu-el, but if we just had someone to help a little in the barn" whore we were led to believe the work was only nominal if llefif-‘SSHFY- It was a nice place lo come io. The sun cast a shadow like Summer by the open door. and burnished the drab meadow beyond. where the cows and their youngsters grazed. Clouds mean- dered along the blue above a hill- lop. and at the sky line a wild apple tree was spread with ruddy fruit, that shone in the sunlight.
Barns continue much surety for farm folk these days — mows that burst at the seams with hay; loft: with straw: granary coffers replete filled to the dlmness of rafters with a golden reserve and now a cellar filling with roots. At her fancy. granddaughter caught rides on the farm-cart or remained with us to chatter and laugh at e variety of callers: a sprightly bou- duetof piglets. noses clayecl, and inquisitive! fl dainty pullet search- ing morsels so complete "the mak- ings" of a breakfast egg; Tabby keeping ivatch and ward in a dim corner; the black pup anxious about our small girl's whereabouts; a bevy of sparrows with common instinct and swift wings alight near the doorway. and all about iis the delight of a fair but fleet- "ill Fall dfly- A pleasant spell we spcnt there this afternoon. when we hclpcd the farmers as they harvested and stored the rows of turnips.
Our excursion this evening took us to attend e showing of "The Snake Pit". in the city. We m. member that the name had arous- ed our curiosity when the book chanced into our hands. and it was a similar sentiment, a curios- ity as to how it would be filmed which carried us off from the home fire tonight. It was interesting- ly done. in fact extremely well we considered-this story of the wo- man sick in mind and bewilder- ed. and in time. healed and re- stored to her home, and husband. Educative and most interesting u the probable cause: of the illness were determined, the source go- ing back to childhood years. Arid in the unfolding of the. story. it came to us. how woven together and inter-dependant are mind and body—and soul. and what a vast responsibility this business nf child rearing brings to parents, in order that their small ones may develop sound minds in sound bodies. It must be undertaken with'patierice. with wisdom, with firmness yet withal with mercy. with much love . . . and prayers.
Until tomorrow - Diriry-Good- night . . ,
Don’t Make, This Mistake When Child ls Constipated
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