Many relatives a nd friendsl were interested in the very love-; 1y wedding which took place re-i gently of Miss Janet Hazel Mac-4

‘Rae and/ Mr. Carl Murphy. Thel bride is a daughter of Mr. andl

MURPHY-LMacRlAE NUPTIALS

Mrs. H. J. MacRae, Summerside. The groom 1s__a son of Mr. and Mrs. i‘JClWll1 Murphy, Sea Archdeacon Harrison officiated at the wedding solemnized at St. Mary’s Anglican Church. The ma-

Notre Dame Academy Had tA Successful Centennial ’

l A very pleasant conclusion to 1’ the business in connection with

Notre Dame Centennial took place

on Sunday afternoon, January 26 , at Notre Dame Academy. fol- lowing the regular meeting of the Alumnae at which Mrs. Fred llynes, vice president was chair- man.

In the absence of Miss Anna J. Macliinis. secretary of the cen- mnnial committee, due to illness, Mrs. F. A. Coyle, chairman. read the correspondence. Mrs. M. A. Farmer, Treasurer read the fi- nancial statement.

In her joint report with Mrs. W rLawlor, co-chairman, Mrs. Coy e thanked all those who help- ed in any way to make the cele- bration such a memorable one. she made special mention of Miss Anna Maclnnis and of Mrs. Far- ineil and said that the success- ful carrying out of the plans for

egcentennial year‘ was in no

Imall measure due to their splen- did work.

M1's.Coyle also thanked Sister L/.»t._llelen, Superior and the Sis-

ters of the Academq for their cooperati.-. and praised their un- “Fl!!! efforts to obtain a worthy tribute to Notre Dame’: one hun-

* ‘Nd years of service.

Alpretty wedding took place De- tember 14th, at the home of Sim- on Nicholson, Montague, w h e n ltev. W. A. Paterson. George-; l0Wfl. united in marrriage Vivian Florence, daughter of Mr. and

3- Henry Richards. Murray Harbour to Melville Lawrence, 3011 of Mr. and Mrs. Philip 0’- C°_1m0r. Milltown Cross. The bride chose for, her wedding‘ a dress of blue figured angel satin. 5l1e_ wore navy and white acces- sories and a corsage of red ros- Is and rosebuds.

let-in-lawof the groom was ma-

NEW HAVEN w.i.

N“!!! January meeting of the 9W Haven Women’s Institute, was held at the home of Mrs. °1l!ld Buchanan. The president I- Stanley Newman presided 9“ Opened the meeting by sing- l§‘3 lhe”"_ode” and repeating the d in unison. R011 call was answered by 13 Members with a dime. Minutes lirevious meeting were read Dr lliproved and signed by the mesident. The sick committee re- aed that two were treated. di Prespondence was read and Sfllissed. Thank you notes were "fill from several of the shut-ins 0 were remembered at Christ- re?» also a "Thank you,” was whovered from Lloyd Murphy. .€W&s‘ home on furlough for “received. Ma W515 moved -by Mrs. Lloyd ° seconded by "Mrs.

11111011 ‘"1 Moore. that all bills be paid.

Next

Ejfihhfilme of Mrs. C. A. Frizzell, rs rs. Foster MacKinnon and - Everett Boyle on pro- amme Committee. relgige gall to be allS\A'Pl'C‘(‘l with article £01‘ a supper dish and an value Or a auction sale to the mo“ tot 50 cents. ea‘? ed to 80 cents. mg closed with the “Queen"

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place of meeting to be at’

-Collection ‘

Mrs. Coyle concluded by. tell- ing the members that the special donor’s list is still open for any- one who would like to make a gift to her Alma M; ‘.er and have her name entered in the Record Book. She told the Alumnae that Mo- ther Superior now has this book. _ The ple: it task of present- ing the alumnae gift to the aca- demy fell to N’ . Farmer. In ac- cepting the substantial cheque. Ma" r Superior ‘banked the mem bers that a suitable remembrance would be -selected for them by the Sisters and would be placed in the ‘Convent chapel inscribed as their centennial gift to the‘ Acad- emy.

Sister St. Helen concluded by voicing her thanks and those of

the Sisters to all-who had‘»‘workedr'*

so hard during tlie‘ past two years, and asked God’s blessing on all in the years to come.

Mrs. Lawlor then presented gifts to Sister St. _Helen, to Miss Anna J. Maclrnnis and to Mrs. Farmer, on behalf of the Alum- nae Association, all of whom made fitting acknowledgment.

To’ conclude the proceedings the color film taken during the celebration was shown tfor the first time to the members.

O’Connor- Richards Wedding ls Solemnized

tron of honor. She wore a dress of turquoise bengaline, brown ac- cessories, and a corsage of yellow roses and rosebuds. Mr. Emer- son O'Connor, brother of the groom was best-man.

Follwing the wedding a delic- ious supper was served to ap- proximately fifty guests. Many /beautiful and useful gifts were op- ened by Flora O‘Connor and vers- es read by Mrs. Ralph MacLean. The remainden of the evening was spent in music and dancing.

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MARY HAWORT_|_-_l

Speaks Well I Of Psychiatry

sing in my life and marriage.

a week for two years. , IQUGH R .

My huisban children by .then and many dif- ficulties were coming out — fi- nances, sex, etc., — and I de- cided to strike out on my own. We separated; but went back to- gether in six -months and this time the going was really rough.

I pulled away from church, drank heavily and got involved with another man (though my husband never knew). Anyone looking at our marriage after

ment would have said it was the -worst thing we could have done.

‘ But they would have been wrong.

I joined a group therapy pro- gram 18 months ago, in a sub- urban clinic, in addition to a .regular weekly hour of private treatment; and now—what a dif- ference! The improvements wrought in this ‘time are unbe- lievable! Meanwhile, my husband has been progressing too, in dis- eatangling himself from mama's apron strings.

HAS GOOD WORD

If you wonder why I am writing to ‘disclose all this, it is because I want to say a good word for psychiatry. I know that psy- chiatric treatment has been right for both of us. We are seeing each

other, and the others problems.

tron of honor was Mrs. Clifford Picketts, sister of the bride. The best man was Mr. Clifford Pick- etts. —Photo by Edwin Heckbert

Dear Mary I-laworth: I started reading your column in 1949 and from the first began to see the places where something was mis-

I began to put pressure on my husband to go to the local Mental Health Clinic, and shortly after he started, things “blew up” for me and I made a suicide attempt.

I too started psychiatric ,reat- ment, but as the waiting lit at \the. clinic was so long, I went to a private specialist once a week, which proved insufficient. I transferred to a commu ’ty psychiatric service available to mothers. at that time, and even- ’tually had four hours’ treatment

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Lena Caroline McLure. Women’: Editor. Phone 850!

Warns One

Ruhamah

I \‘vasn’t just being polite when I told Mr. Perry he looked won- derful. True, he was no longer young but there was an amaz- ing improvement in his hearing and general appearance since I had last seen him some months ago.

“Whatever you’ve been doing has certainly agreed with you,” I said. “How about passing on the secret.”

“It isn’t a secret," said Mr. Perry. “Everyone has heard a- bout it. It”s like you say — peo- ple, able-bodied or handicapped can’t be hemmed in, wrapped in cotton-wool and coddled and make, the most of what they've got. ’ That goes for elderly people too. And that's why I left my big sunny room in my son's fine home and am living now in a tiny room —— but my very own. I can come and go — with no one to tell me to be careful and remember I’m not as young as I was:

ALMOST CONVINCED

“All right, so I'm not young,” continued Mr. Perry, “but I’m not an OLD MAN -—- old and weak -—- and childish too! But that.’s what my son, John and his wife, Alice seemed to think I was -- mind you, they're as well-meaning a couple as you can find but they're young and they can’t help thinking anyone over seventy is Old — Old as Methus- aleh — and fit for nothing but the chimney corner! And they almost got me thinking of my- self that way!

“You know how I always loved to go fishing,” said Mr." Perry—” well they pretty near spoiled that for me’. The sun could be shining but Alice would squint up at‘ the

Wed, Jan. 29, 1958 ' WE AND OUR NEIGHBORS Don't Coddle Us Parents

Fhe Guardian Page 9

Of Them Now

S. Frank

sky and say rain was coming and should I not stay home and if I was bound to go she would load me up with sweaters, overshoes and a rain-coat. I balked at the umbrella! And once when caught a cold —— and who doesn’t —- Allc almost drove me crazy hanging around and fussing over me and saying with her eyes, “I told‘ you so!’

“The worst came after my re- tirement" said Mr. Perry. ‘Alice and John found out I was looking for part-time jobs and kept tell- ing me to take it easy —— what would I do if I over-strained my- self and got sick. And what would the neighbors say if I took this or that job! So far I've kept migh- ty well —- and don’t turn down any job that I, can handle."

was RIGHT .

Mr. Perry felt a lot better af- ter he got this - and more, off his mind and then said he felt really ashamed to complain when his children were so interested in his welfare. But according to high authority he had no reason to blame himself.

Dr. Walter C. Alvarez, one of top consultants for the Mayo Cli- nic is quoted as saying he is giv- ing “serious thought” to organiz- ing a society for the prevention of cruelty to aged parents by their over-solicitious children!

There are perhaps more com- mon forms of cruelty —— neglect, lack of consideration — but with the help of our old age pensions hundreds of thousands of "elderly parents can and do live their lives in their own way —— and need not feel themselves a burden, when and if their strength fails ,-

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sympathetically now. We are ready to go back to God with our .'total lives; and we are trying very hard to give our children- now four in number —— the right sort of approach to life.

The whole future, no matter what it may bring, looks good to us. We have.been since 1949 get- ting here. I now that not every- on will put up the‘battle against get ing well that I did. _But if this admission will serve to encourage anyone in treatment to believe that it really is worth all the pain, and to persevere in the uphill climb, I shall feel repaid»; ‘

And to you, my. deep gratitude for helping me get started a long time ago. Most sincerely, - C. Y. REAL Me-coY' - ,

Dear C. Y.: Readers who’ve been through. the mill of psy- chiatric treatment, and who’ve had first - hand experience of group therapy sessions, will rec- ognizethat you are talking about The Real McCoy — in reviewing your faltering but undeniable pro- gress towards mature self-posses- sion.

Psychiatric therapy that gets right resultsvis a long relentless

struggle against backsliding el-

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Yes, pretzels. Surprised? Yet six or seven thin pretzel sticks rate only 100 calories. In addition pretzels are easily digested be- cause of the triple process of boil- ing and toasting. Moreover, pret- zels call for no butter.

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ements in-the Self that doesn't want to know or face the truth, much less act upon it. .

It isdnteresting that you finally hit. the jackpot, in terms of rad- ical ! In or 0 v ement when you joined.the group therapy sessions. The reason is: you were ripe for this experiment in shared under- sta-nding~and in ‘adaptation to a group situation.

All the drudgery that had gone before, ‘in private and clinical treatment, suddenly paid off. But without that fierce, prolonged, preliminary battle for insight, the group therapy venture would have been valueless. You wouldn’t have been able to see or hear what was going on (really); thus couldn't have fitted in, in a profitablef give - and - take

exercise. -‘ M.‘ II.

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To make: Mix 3 c. cooked, fine- flaked fresh or canned crabmeat (shell removed), 1 egg, 5/; tbsp. flour, 1/9 tsp. salt, 1 tsp. paprika and 1/: tsp. pepper. '

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I tossed salad, or with an egg- parsley cream sauce.

Tomorrow's dinner — Celery- tomato soup, Baltimore crab cakes, sauce tartare, spinach but- tered rice, tossed lettuce avocado salad, apple-apricot pie, coffee, tea or milk.

Celery-tomato soup: Prepare 1 (101/2 oz.) can condensed celery soup by directions on the can.

Just before serving, stir in 3/4 c. canned tomato mashed into shreds with a fork for delightful favor and color contrast.

Cumberland sauce from the chef—Grate and crush the peel from 2 lemons and 1 orange. Add the juice 1/: orange, 1 tbsp. sugar and 1 tbsp. prepared horseradish.

Put 1/2 c. currant jelly and 1 tbsp. hot water in a saucepan. Add .1 drop Tabasco. Stir over a low heat until the jelly slightly melts. -

Stir in the fruit juice mixture.

MEADOW BANK W.I.

The January meeting of the Meadow Bank W.I. was held at the home of the president, Mrs. Stewart Miller. Meeting opened with the Creed. Fourteen mem- bers answered roll call by nam- ing a keepsake.

Four expressions of thanks were received for gfts received at Christmas. Correspondence con- sisted of A letter from Miss Mac- Leod, one from the March of Dimes and ‘a thank you letter from the Salvation Army.

Reports of Committees were: Sick reported that they remem- bered shut-ins at Christmas, sent fruit to one sick child, gave one Baby gift, and sent one sympathy card. School reported that child- ren were treated with fruit and -candy. Red Cross gave out sew- ing.’

Donations for seven -dollars were received. Mrs. Colin Mac- Phail read a letter from the

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