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MR. AND MRS. S. M. CRABBE AND ATIBENDANTS.

Double Ring Ceremony Unites Happy Couple

rie Baiiingall. Her only jewellery was a strand of pearls with match- on Saturday November 2-1. l9.')ti at in.: earrings, gift of the groom.

A quiet wedding took place at Central Christian Church Manse.

2 pm- ll'ili'n Lottie Enid, daughter The bridesmaid. Mrs. John Pet- of Mr. and Airs. Arthur Houston, ers. friend of the bride, wore I Fredericton, and Stewart Maurice, street length dress of blue crystal- Ion of Mr. and lirs. Ernest Crabbe ette with white hat and gloves. Milton, were united in marriage ,and I nosegny of pink carnations.

The double ring ceremony was The best man was. Mr. Ralph perfonned by Rev. M. D. Dunbar. Crabbe, brother of the groom. The The bride wore a street lcngth bride's mother chose for her dress of china pink, peau de sole daughter's wedding. I dress of- taffetta. with three quarter iength.blue crepe with velvet blue hat sleeves. scoop neckline. and full and gloves, with I corsage of yel- Ikirt. matching headdress Ind liow roses. The groom's mother lnltts. She carried a white Bible l wore black lurcx. sheath dress with gift of the bride's aunt. Mrs. Guth- l matching hat and gloves and cor-

ELLEN'S DIARY

The Old Yecir Moves On

crispling softness And the tangy scent of the Strait spreading ita sweetness about.

Ever nearer to its Winter and Old Year moves. giving the wait-

” dm ”' "" Fa" '” ”' ”" "" And below the cliff. I tide of (army, And surveying the Qlllei Fall washing the beach. Not I bit skies and bare pE'zit'cful fields like that of Summer, so happy. these days we wonticr what wcath- . This, which broke now was lonely, or is now in the offing: will like the season.

it snow? Or will the glass drop to. And sometimes How we give us the ring of certain snow-tshould like the children to have

esa hard-frozen pre-winter spellstseen those proud full-rigged schoon- iers of old! - out on the smooth land-years? ,ribbcn of channel, a vessel made And in present days of "openyher way hzirborward. Perhaps weather" the fieldwork is bcing hauling in coal from Sydney for continued. At Alderlea, there was winter-fires. to unload and pick manure-spreading and a bit of up a general cargo there. Or it plowing today. And over the fields might be a fine lady going out. and beyond the hilltop on other sails billowing. taking aiittle girl's farms, ends of plouinc tit-re h('lIlg fancies with her, off to strange done. And it came to lllilitl u'iim- ports taking too potatoes -The

Ilwlly that 1'! is in F-"Ill? ful'- island-blues and the white-flanked

rows that the bones of the Old reds. favored by cooks in the mak- Yenr go to rest. lng of breads. Intriguing cash-crop

'But there. may be Iplowing inynf Fail: to pay for Winter - keep; January - it uouldn t be .ihe to pay too the smith and wheelright figst timc"' mm of the faintly offer- t the saddier. the cobbiler, to name

- "some of the occupat on: once so

"YES. Mid NW0 may be drifts i necessary to rural living and now, an the fields that I horse can't even the term; almost vanished get through", another said. from there,

"Or a silver thaw!" James re- Along the lane from the shore- minded us, cvidrntly rm-ailing the field. what I pleasant trip that burden lust .l:iiuiary's posed. wns' To a rise, which looked out

Bluejnys lcft haunts bv the mill- on the village below - the Church stream to fly up to the old orchard -spire to mark the Sabbath, the there to announce their shrill fore- belching dark smoke. the Imithy. casts and to add bright flashes of horses at the hitching-posts the wings to the sunless day ... And store where penny lollipops grew- gver at ttherhrgisekon thie hill. Mr- l)oV;n thgn. the IAOTSIG easlnlg tlie

. was a is an mil. rawing up 0a .3 it, to t e ower roo to it. as did James at this house. bridged with rustic poles. and up I prthtectign of clay. M f lgentiy then to the yard of home.

it no ng. we con ancy sot were ever the dau hters of that easily the silve shades of thelfarm afforded sine: more royal Suntinliierl - biicac ed tscawccil. the mode of travel than that which on nine II use onrc 0 protect an a Fall day tucked one or another old home from inroads of frost. It of thcm in a safe corner on I load was drawn from heaps that rested l of seaweed in the farm-cart. when gag "the fajr tedgte) of then shore: l theilr father a patient and meme

e - ere us a ove te r y now in: parent. atten to cliff. By horse and farm-cart it items of the banking! was taken. with usually a small; Until tomorrow - -- Diary - girl perched in I corner of the -- - -Good-night... .

we remember of some former Is-

'.(i”'j'l'3M Weight increase is Problem After Surgery

By IDA JEAN KAIN

Why is a weight gain so com-l man after surgcryT Tho iendcncy to add wolglii is undcrstandable when viewed in the light of lim- ited activity during the convales- cont period. Then. too, greater em- phasis is placed on tasty food to tompthppelite. Snacking at odd,

hours becomes ll means of whil- Illl away idle hours. it is this aornbimtion of lessened Iclivity' and increased calories intake thItl hikes I weight gain "inevitable-"

Ideally, it is best to lose the u- i CHI before surgery, if time per- lllits. and to control weight dur- I: the inactive period by restrict-

rnenls to the basic protective hails. p Glen the weight gain Ifur nr-I

largo bones. When!

it goes un- has gone

lPrv is so gradual. noticed--until weight

cnnipistcly out of bounds. Today's,

lcttcr should give heart to all who find themselves in such I predict- ment. The report from this admir- Ibie reducer from New Jersey given convincing proof thnt I pon- operative weight gain need not be regarded is you Inent. Also, it is significant to note the credit given to the simplified cIiiiuhen- ice which were-In important part

of her Iliniminl Pfvxrbm. "After I rmior ops:-Itlmi. ibn pounds crept on . . . week after week...nntillwohuponI morning to find I was tippl g the scales It 192 pounds for rm". Itartad fol-

uge of pink roses.

Following the ceremony I re- ception was held at the Queen Hot- el, Charlottetown, for about sixty relatives and friends- Rev. M. D. Dunbar proposed the toast to the bride to which the groom respond- ed. Mrs. Garfield MacPhee, Iunt of the bride was in charge of the guest book, A three tier wedding cake was cut in the traditional manner.

The bride's going away costume was I dress of rayon Ind wool blue tweed topped with I turquoise

of town guest included Mr. and Mrs. Bruce MacDonald. Halifax, and Mr, Eric Paul, Halifax. Mr. and Mrs. Crabbe will reside in Halifax for the winter months and lIter make their home in Mil- ton.

Photo by Meyers.

MARY HAWOR'l:i;i

Man, Naturally Bored, Drilis

Dear Mary Hnworth: I have I problem which is as old as time -but very new and heartbreaking to me. I have lost my boy friend to another woman. I am 46. and have been divorced nine years; and George is a widower. 60 who lost his wife 12 years ago.

I guess I just took for granted that he always would be around. after we were steady companions for six years. We had our little

isundc iandings. but always made up.

He wasn't the affectionairiype; or at least I didn't think so. as he nevcr forced any attentions on me. And I really am affectionate, but I guess I buried my feelings and was just so happy to have his companionship.

George was such good .ompany, and also handy to fix things around the house. I always provid- ed good meals and looked out for his comfort. But should I have for- ced my affections on him? Evide- ntly the other girl did, because he tells me now that "We can he fri- ends -that's all we ever were."

Since I have lost him. I find that my emotions nre wakcncd and I want to be his swecthcart. Is it possible that i could win him back? He has been going with this girl only for a few months.

He is such a nice person. doesn't

Lena Carolina Ilchuro.

-Woiviziv

Wendi I2 51 X

Page 8. The Guardian Friday. Dec. 7. 1956

' HAPPENINGS

Senator Elsie lninan returned Tuesday evening from Ottawg, December fifth was the Senator's birthday. Among the congratula- tory meesages she received were telegrams from the Prime Minis- ter. the Rt. lion. Louis St. Laur- ent and Senator Ross MacDonald, the solicitor general and leader of the Government in the Senate.

Min Sandra Gallant has left by plane for Toronto where she will resume her studies at Loretta Abbey. Sandra lb a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John James Gal- lant. North Rustico.

"Red Oppression Appalls Victor- ia girl in Vienna is the caption of a front page story of I leading British Columbia paper. The I!”- ticle continues as follows:

The oppression of Hungarian freedom fighters by Russian troops has been termed by I Vic- toria girl in Vicnna as I ”wth Century crucifixion "

”The pcoplc are the most cour- ageous I bfslleked pusssible for I nation to be," pianist Carol Woot-

lton. I student at Vienna's Alrad-

emie. wrote to her parents. Mr.

coat with white accessories. Outl and Mrs, R, A, woutton, 1255 Vic.

toria Avenue. Victoria.

”They have so much heart and spirit and have stood up to cor- ruption without fearing the ter- rible consequcnces that are pour- ing on them now. They are the only people who had the spirit to stand up in the open and denounce to the world I system which can no longer exist."

She wrote that while walking with I friend. "we saw two young men with packs and green badges tihe wearing of the green is the sign now for all that is courag- cousi, We wanted to cry-"Two Hungarian refugees' . . . .

"I am going to try to give what ever help I can to the refugee cen- tre, They need it so badly. Pieasa

m:.

drink nor even smoke: and my heart is almost breaking. to think I failed to realize that I man wants more from I woman than just an easy chair and a good meal. What can I do: L.M. N0 SELF-REPROACH

Dear L.M.: There are various reasons why you shouldn't re- proach yourself for George's fade- out. First. it's possible he may be back again - though I wouldn't count on it. Second. it wasn't your fault-it wasn't any failure in empathy. or any shortage of son- timent on your party-that gave the other woman her Innings with him. Rather - point three - it was written in George's behavior from the start that he wasn't in love with you. or susceptible of being so. You Just didn't appeal to him that way. so he kept you It arm's length. And you. being Igreeable. took the hint and consoled your- self with the inference that good desires. This was your instinctive face-saving reaction to emotional frustration.

As for his intentions. all along. it appears he was simply passing the time in your company. be-

bined with exercise, my L merits were 38-3241 find I wore I size 20. Now. almost two years later and 50 pounds lighter. I tmcasure 34-37-37. and can easily lflt into a size 14 dress.

METHOD IMPORTANT l "The important point I want to bring out is not the fact that I was successful in reducing and re- istoring my confidence, but the 1mInner in which I exercised to bring about this change. Due to my opcration. I could not do the difficult straining type of calls. thenics often called for, but I was determined to find mine way. Here are thI two exercise: I used :

"For the hip;-sit on floor. it-an slightly back with legs stretched out. held together. in I rocking motion. roll from side to side II for over as posiiihlo-50 counts. (I lost 4 inches in this way.I

"For waist and hips-lie nui- streichcd on floor, arms mil It shoulder iovel Raise riizht log and swing it across left leg, touching floor with toe. Swing back and touch floor on right side. Repeat to times with each leg.

" I routine only takes Ibouf 5 mimics and is just enough to be effective Ind yet not too much to be tiring My favorite time is right after the children leave for school. Besides doing my figun I world of good. the exercise was helpful in stimulating blood cir- culatiop Ind making me feel pep- pler Ind ready to meet the day's challenge."

Congratulations Io this resolau worn-. Also. our grateful thnka

lowiogyoorprotoctfvIdiItcI-

for sharing.

. Ba1ce'cbjsdeliciotisCOPFEELAYER(1AKEl!

'm cause he found you kind-hearted and i J?---; and b your pleasure in his company

kept him from being lonely. And I gather he felt he was repaying your interest adequately. Ilmply by accepting it and doing handy- man chores as your guest.

BORED WITH SELF .

One can only guess It the na- ture of his interest in the other girl: but I surmise that it is mostly I case of happenstance change. for the sake of change. Being a man who gives very little of himself in relation to women-- ns witness his "taker" perform- ance with you-naturally he finds no satisfaction: of the heart for hardiy,anyi in such IlliInces II he forms with them.

There is a dullness. I tedlum. about his own personal feelings in any dating association that has become routine. And that is where his girl friends lose him. The Id venture of I new acquaintance ship. or I new flirtation. in tin usual "mil" by taken by I shal low sclfi.-iii man when seeking re- lief from built-in boredom. But this is In Intidoate that doesn't last long-only his habitual negnt lvism scope to the fore IgIin.

Is it possible to win George back? Well. if you have I chance. it consists in being completely casual about the whole thing. Don't lift I finger; don't run after him. Don't write or call to be- moan his absence. Go on living valiantly without him. getting II much social variety into your days Is possible. M.H.

Mary Hnworth counsels throu; iiercolnmn,notbymIilwpIr- IoIIl interview. Write it h can of this nowspapc.

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..I r auto-oI '""t"""" Ioizhgfowdu 1, out-none-Ii. mu” -5. . 4 . larpihouo F-m -.. IBIIIID-I-w ,

understand whn I I eanlt send any clrda this yea the family -M heart is too full and I would like to feel my free "'11? km for the hungarians. TM World is. I am glad 10 Ice. concerned over the fate ii! W0 Hllllllliln people and I just 2:99 "ling!!! ct till; Ru.sl:l,'In pan- O W G vigilant in Innillhatad. W Please don't send ma anything '-'lr93ltxG for Christians.” she wrote. Just let me give I dona- tion to the Red Cross here for all "10 W00 oglfhanl Ind refugees from Hungary. Min Woman is I granddaught- er of the late Mr. and Mrs. George E. Goff -who resided It "Wood- vllle." Cardigan.

Mrs. D. A. Matheson tformeriy Blanche MIcDougIll), Emerald, P-E-L. accompanied by her sis- NT. Mrs. J. J. MIcLeod, Broadsi- blne. and Mrs. Jack McI(enna. Role Valley, left last week for Tor- onto. On. to spend a two months V1!!! with her son D.A. Mntheson. -If-. Ind Mrs. Matheson (formerly Vivian Kuting of.BraadalbIne.i

Mr. and Mrs. George Bowness of Kensington, have moved to Charlottetown for the winter 1110 ihI.. and Ira residing at 17 Roe ford ', ,

Mr. and Mrs. Alex Mat-Kay Ontario, are spending a few days with his mother. Mrs. A. 5. Mac- Ksy. Central Street. Summerside.

Mrs. L.A. Johnston was hosteaa to the members of the Women's Missionary Society of Trinity U- nited Church, Tuesday evening. 12 members were present. Mrs. Ethan Stewart and Mrs. Arnold Wightman ledr devotion. their to- pic being "Not Your Own Doing". Mrs. Stewart offered I special prayer for the renewed health of Mrs. (Ravi JM Fraser. Regular reports were given. Mrs. Leon Johnston and Mrs. A. E. Inga spoke briefly on the W. M.S. rally held in Charlottetown.

when Miss Whittier. missionary from Central India, was guest speaker.

Mrs. Lorne Wigginton and Mrs. Ethan Stewart were appointed from the chair. as I nominating committee to bring in the new slate of officers for the coming year. An interesting chlptar of the study book was covered by Miss Alvnh Brehnut. 43 calls. 38 cards and In treats were re ported or October. Meeting closed with Mlzpsh Benediction.

may itrrr.t.c-it mi. The regular monthly meeting of the Mary Miller evening Auxiliary

MOORE 8

Md Young daughter of North Bay, :

:

w.u.s. of frinlb VIII! and. Charlottetown. was h& h the West Parlour on Doe. ti. &

has and I pom P. Tmmffmmp aarVl0.0 tori Z of I candle-till"-ill ml

was very impressive. Mrs.

Cairn: was in chnrli. 7 other ladies. Christmas

Mrs. Louis Simmons was in charge of the stud! P0l'l0d. which wu on Malaya Ind Indonmin. It was learned that those

have I majority of Iloslasnl, ha Christian Missionnriu of various denominations are active in this

tnge of converts to Chrlstinelty. Mrs. Keith Kennedy It the business meeting. It decided to send I halo of clothing to Toronto. This will be announced in the Church bulletin. The treasurers report showed I good balance on hand. Various N- ports were read and Idopted. At the conclu l of the businou the meeting the lectiion of new of.

was not

lis presided. and Mrs. P. A. Creel- man, convcnor. brought in the re- port of the nominating colnngltn tees:

President. Mrs. Keith Kennedy ire-elected); lst vice president, Mrs. Hayfield Gillis: 2nd vice prol- ident. Miss Alice Fraser; Record- ing secretary. Miss Doris Cru- well; Corresponding secretary. Mrs. Allison West; Press Secto- tary. Mrs. MIcPlierIon; Treasurer. Miss Lynnle Altken. ti-e-electedi: Ass. treasurer. Miss

ship secretary. Mrs. P. A- Creel- mun. Christiam Citizenship, Mrs. Gordon Ilolmes and temperance secretary; Community Friendship secretary. Miss Florence Dollar: supply secretaries: Co-workers. Iilrs. Harry Craswell. Goodwill group, Eleanor Bell; Pianist, Mrs. Tlionizis llell ire-elected); Social Committee. Mrs. Lorna Keizar, convenor, Mrs. Stanley Murray. Mrs. Christine McI.ure (re-eloct- edt: Mrs. J. Gordon McLean.

The meeting closed with the Mll- pith benediction after which I db licious lunch was served.'

SHAMROCK WJ.

Mrs. Emmett Hughes was hoo- tess in December for Shamrock w.I. The meeting opened by sing- ing the Institute Ode Ind repent- ing the Mary Stewart Collect. Sev- on members answered the roll call by an axchnngo of XuiII gifts.

Following the reading and ap- proval of minutes. the treasurer gnva her report. Communications and bills were read by the secre- tary. Mrs. Joseph Mulligan Ind Mrs. Joseph liagnn were Ippoint- ed to make up two boxes. with material received from Eaton'I and Simpson's and gifts handed in by each members. for St. Vin- centls and Mt. Herbert Orphan- ages.

School committea reported brushes and pencil sharpener need- ed for Ichool. Sick committee to- poi-ted no one sick. It was moved by Mrs. Joe Trainor and second- ed by Mrs. Ambrose Mccnrvilio that I treat be given to the school children It Xmas. It was moved and seconded by Mrs. Alfred Kel- ly that 35.00 be sent to the T. B. League.

New commlttcu were appoint- ed: School. Mrs. George Stordy: Mrs. Aeneas Hughes; sick, Mrs. Freeman Walsh and Mrs. Amby McCIrvilie: program, Mrs. Joe Trainer and Mrs. Alfred Kelly.

It was decided to Inrwered the roll all next month by I grab-

area and there is I small percol-

ficers was held, Mrs. Bayflald Gil- "

exAMs1,Hts moo, ANDI FEELMQRE t.iKersi.esPiiue .

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Emma Holmes; Christian steward- '

' HERE'S A some -sw some

NEiLSON'S &Li.S ON YOUR WAY

sov I'M izeAi.i.v no scuowzsuie HDRM

beg. Mrs. Joseph Mulligan invit-

MCLEOD

FOR CHRISTMAS . . . MAKE IT LOVELY . . . MAKE IT LAVISH ,. . .

lb”. ,ti1-mg lit.

NEli.SON'S tzous suize PEP vou UP...THEY'l2E.A REAL CANDY TREAT

NeilIon's Rolls Ire the handy candy - in two irresistible flavors. Tangy pep- - parinint cream with I coating of finest chocolate . . . or rich caramel coated with smooth, satisfying milk choooiug,

Equally delicious, but diitrent.

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them today! Just 10; for too big places