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If Newly Wedded Couples Have t0 Live With

~ ,1 Parents, it is Better That They do so at

the Home of the Bride’s Family

~ Dear Mss Dix—Our wedding day was set when the sudden need of tnoney for business made it impossible for us to marry and set up the little homo we had planned. The only way we can get married now is to live with either my family or the girl's which is worse, living with our families, or postponing our wedding? M. A.

Answer:

lf there is any prospect of your being i able to establish your own home within the next COHPIe of years I should say wait. 1i not. marry and pray Heaven to give you the wisdom, patience ,tact and forbearance to make a success of a marnage under trying l circumstances.

For a young couple to go to liic with ‘ their parents when they are married snouici 1 be, one would thnk, a natural and pleasant. l I _ p arrangement that would bring happiness to l _ all concerned l: Lets the parents still have l . to nappiiit i. of titcir child's society and it enables a boy and girl to ‘ !lliil‘l‘_\' \“lli'l. t u) could not do so if they had to set up their own home. ‘Illencfi and purtnts should be pleased and the young toupln grateful pm,

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Th1 the zlicory of the case, but in real life it seldom works out tlia‘ way. no parents secretly resent having to support a daughter-in-law or ii soii-ui-mw. The young husband's pride jg cut to me qirck by no, being nble to provide a home for his bride. And if he goes to ilve with his v." -' people he goes with a chip on his shoulder, always looking 1o. slit; lllltl patronage and ready to tight at the digp o1 a imp '

i .. e with the bridegroonrs family, the monny and “M oi 1.1m other. Each is suspicious that the other is trying to .nc poor young husband who is torn in two between them, The .t.lt is bitterly disappointed at not having her own home. lt she ten up llL‘l' jltll to marry she has nothing to do, nothing [Q interest .. igctpt to tiuarrci with her mother-in-law and think mean things aoou utr. .

0i ttilfst‘, this should riot be thus, and sometimes it isnt, 1 have known ul‘ (its uiid brltiegzooms who went to hie with their 131111335 when; the arrangement made for the happiness of both parties, but in these cases the ilcuplr: were of high character and determinedly adapted them- selves to the .~iitizii.on. ‘The mother arid father were broad and tolerant iii dealing with the young people, and and young people tried to be real runs and tnitigiitcrs to their iii-laws. ,

So it can be uuiie, but hvuig with their parents is a risky t-xpeiunitiit for any young couple. 1t nearly always brings about family quarrels that leave scars that never heal. But, if the necessity is iorccd upon you, it is iar better to go to live with the girl's pttrents than the marry, because a. mother anti (laughter can get along better together than a motlier-in-iaw and (lllll-lllltlf-Zil-lilbi‘.

i t Pillow U10 SOII-lYI-lflb‘. being out of the how-zc nt work all ciuy, s0 mucii upon the nerves of the mother-in-sitv as docs the -iaw ,\iho is always present. _

Dear Miss Dix-I am engaged to a young man who is all that any girl could ask for in a husband ,a.nd we are very much .n love. But I made the mistake of not waiting for the ONE man ,a4id since meeting and loving my fiance I realize what a fatal error l committed. It happens that lie knew about my previous life before we met, out! he has tried lll every way iu_ forget it and push it out of his mind, but ctuinot do it. We are both miserable, for I now realize the feelng a man has about his irife. But what can I do to make him forgive and forget‘! I have told him ovar and over again how much I regret my mistake. We each feel that hie without the other would be empty. WORRIED. Answer; .

There is nothing you can do, because you cannot undo the things you have done. The most terrible thing in life is that we cannot retrieve our blunders, nor wash out our mistakes with our tears of repentance. Nor is there any magic by which we can blot. out from the memories of others the wrongs we have committed. All our lives we must go paying for the pinning of a moment. '

It is iniposible that your fiance should ever forget what you have done, but it seems to me that under the cirrnustances he might wcll for-

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ive you and let the dead past bury its dead. i-le loves you, his happi- less is bound up in you, he must know that you bitterly regret your wild yrlhood and that you will not be guilty of the same follies again. so why not draw the veil of silence over what has been. and look forward only to the future?

And perhaps his-own past has been immaculate. Perhaps he, too, has wandered oil the straight and narrow pazh and. has been guilty of the very sin of which he condemns you. But unless he does forgive you freely and fully and is big enough never to speak of your mistakes again, don't , marry him. There is no torture a wife goes through equal to that of having her husband bring up her past in every family spat.

Dear Miss Dix-I am deeply, hopelessly in love with the finest girl in the world. but she happens to be my cousin. I know that because oi our relationship we can never marry, but why should God let cousins love as we love when all that we can do is to breakbur hearts and part?

JOHN

lAnswer:

Read Dr. Wiggam’! fine book. ‘The Fruit of the Family Tree." After discussng the problem of cousin marriages from every scientific angle, he gays: "The sum of the whole matter is that cousin marriages in themselves do n01. produce or (Ill/USS anything. They only intensify bad things and in-

Sensify good things. That is all there is to it." DIX.

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A farmer who had had too much to drink sold his wife for $105 in the market at Kaschau, Slov- aikla.

But the woman objected strenu- ously. The police interfered, and the husband was made to return the money.

He and his wife then went home ' if nothing had happened.

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LIDA LABRIMOB! ( Continued)

He. might be telling the truth. though, the girl offered, glancing at Jim. There was a light on in his place. He might have left like he said, when somebody - ' ‘ at the door.

‘The sergeant took the names and addresses of the witnesses-Frank Wilson and Gladys Smith —and sent. them reluctantly on their way-

We'll take you over to head- quarters, he said to Jim.) leading the way t0 the police car.

How long will you keep me there? Jim asked.

That depends. We can arrange a preliminary hearing tomorrow. Can you get bail? he asked. not unklndiy.

Bail! Good Lord! He was under arrest! '

I think so, he said. It will be necessary for me to get in touch with someone at Meadowbrook. Mr. Vaughn is not at home.

You can call from headquar- ters. the sergant said.

Miss Vaughnfls oar? Jim asked.

We'll send a man out here to take care of. it. let's get going Kelly.

Jim liked the sergeant. He had a clean-cut, intelligent appearance- His manner was neither bullying nor inflated with self-importance. Jim squeezed himself intothe p0- lioe coupe with the two men and resigned himself to the unpleasant aspects to the immediate future.

Chester-town was a sizable bor- ougt eight or nine miles from Glendale. Jim's mind was occupied with thoughts and eonleetures. It was Tommy. 0f course. But where had he gone Even though he'd been frightened out of his wits. Tommy wouldn't have left Dolly, dying perhaps, at the side of the road, and run off to hide-

There was some explanation. He Jim, would have to keep the kid out of’ the mass until he could get in touch with Mr. Vaughn. He felt responsible. He shouldn't have let Tommy believe that Dolly might make troulble with the moon-calf. puppy-love letters the boy had wi-iten her. He'd probably taken her out tonight in an attempt ‘b0 get them. Dolly had looked so small and so still on the stretcher. was it possible that Dolly was going to die. . .?

When he had gone inside the highway patrol station with the officers, Jim asked if he might, make a telephone call. |

Jim giwe the

operator Mac- Phei-sons number. After an in- terval of insistent whirring, he heard MaoPl-iersonk voice at the- other end of the wire. Peeling‘ grateful that Mrs. MacPheriim had not answered the call. Jim sketch- ed his predicament, asked Mne- Phersonfogo up tothehoiise and; make sun that every member of the family was there and come at once to the troopers‘ headquarters

at Chestertown. MaePher-soifs yoice, controlled, calmly efficient. reassured Jim, There was no cause for alarm, he told himself. The ftflowing hour was un- pleasant enough. The sergeant and

his associate asked s wearying number of _, tions. Jim knew that they did not believe his story. Why should they? he

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