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l‘ ENEIIGEYPIC OLD MAN

' Insurance doctor (examlling ap- plicant for ‘life assurance) — giolw old was your father when he lot " l Applicant (determined €Xillll1llflliOI1)—“lU5 " l Insurance dOrt31—“‘JVha,L w“; the I culls/e “of hi; dear-h?" All‘). cant _ "The rope snap ed livhiié he was moilntnineeringvp

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s ilnre-shotlldered f, flillriv. Hts stvc ' 3,9,- glgafnng ' ,w11cn 11c recountxi hs Army ouys. .‘Y0s," he said, looking down at his ,i1isl’g11if:<."1111t cotnlpanion, “ii-henl ‘was in the Guard. the drill was

pcrtccr When we presents-d arms

1111 . i 110.11" was ‘slap,’ ‘sin-p,’ ' ‘Wail you in tiny regiment, _ good 111:1" '2"

“Aye, s01"! of, ye know. 1 was L11 the Lnncashile Fusiliers," h, n. plied. "Drill irristft s0 bad, ve r11 parade and all you

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‘Helpful Hints For The Women Folk

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By CLARENCE FLYNN in New mil contain :10 pockets.

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DIX SAYS

_USE SOME COMMON SENSE WHEN JEALOUSY REARS ITS UGLY HEAD

lDon’t Let the Fact That Your Husband Sees a Former Sweetheart Perturb You

Dear lifiss Dir-I Jiave e bad case 01 Jnters 11nd here is the reason: An old flame of my husband's has come back to town. after having llVed 1n the East for several years, and he has been seen out with her.

first time I heard o1 1t 1 ivllsni. s0 terribly upset,

another gellllcliiuu with them. so l

took 1t for grllilted that ilic other 1111111 ivas her‘ escort. But since then 111y husband and the 18d)’ have been seen mono 111111 1. lccl sure 111111 he still ; thinks a great (lCill o1 her. Bill" Asl1‘L a ycung ivoman ~ any more, but they tcil 111: she 0111i retains 11111011

looks. I illust 111111111. illat the lady

in question has always been a most wonderful ohB-r- ' ll s lit-ed a fine, 011.111 liic.

Iaxn

et simply bursting" to lei. 111111 1111011" tilut he isnlt DUI- 1111,11 anything over on 1111- back 111 town and that inc. getner two or tnrce limes. would you just let the ulizur ride?

urn liiut I know she IS nuvc becn seen out t0- snuil 1 do this, or

WORRI ' .

he women who explain Wily husbands hove to lie t0 m" l =

their “nus. 11nd why they have to do llllilln» Swllllv 11114‘ undercover

1111i much rulhei" be ir.111_k mid Ohfu 111111111. 111cm, ccnuuonpluce thing ".1111 011111 r.e1ll'_r_ _

hits hlippsilcci that no doubt WHY "m" M- A" h" (‘"5

lulsbrpiu W011 1i like‘ t0 talk ovell" with ut your iciiotc jeiloilsy orccs _ _

111111 1o keep silent 11116111 1t to save b11111 Svlwoi Elfiflllflie. ellfiflged

Dear Miss Dix-I'm a young girlkg

i), sqcne. He can't say to you: "lvialy one of the finest young men in the

1.111110," tr wlnllcvcr net‘ name is, "is in town and I met her on the street 111111 took ncl to union,‘ because ll. he did you would raise the r001. still

,i1ss c1111 he suggest your lnvitlng 1161'

~10 111111101‘, so i1 he sees her at. all he

;l1os to do it on the sly and make an

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l Can't you see how silly you are |‘ll(‘l.illi_-{'t' you are burned up be-

cause this middle-aged ivointin who l0 51111199“ a _1"-1““}-\ |l1.1s11't been liolne lor years comes lo college and 11011

-b11ck lo he r old town.

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still 1n iO\'t', tvhen each of them has ltillrrlcd and 111m a. dlillcuit llle and

,’I‘hat will turn back distrust and

syrinx. Tile uistlumciu is quite occn happv and satisfied?

lworld. We are desperately in love land here 1s 0111" pruolcln: Shall we marry" now, 01" 11o liivlly to college": If we go to college. 1t ivil‘. be at least live more ycrtrs that we will halve to ilvait, and l bclicrc that 1.111s 1s tOO long for any engagement.

My fiance is :1 \‘0l'_\‘ ambitious Ilmn and works 11111-11. H1» 1111s been offered 1t position Willi l1 sail large 0110mm 611i; Llld We go

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ups 10s.: Luca“ 11,119,111 11S other 111 orller to becume educae B Does education realty

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L» you tomorrow, or-uru oi the hBPPiBBF 1111111‘ 111011311 to tunik that the lire Devi“? 011 can" 1W“?

BRlDE-TO-BE.

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You'll be thrilled to see how quickl it bring! to all your skin a fresher, love ler,

longer-lasting youthfulness.

Follow this simrple Palmolive beauty treat- M. ace, throat and shoulders,

and for your bath, gently massage into your er. Cleanse

ment. For your

skin a warm, rich, Palmolive lat the pores thoroughly. Rinse with

water, then with cold. That's nil. Yet there 1 is no surer way than this, to help keep

real, all-over skin beauty.

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Sugar MWater etlwd: wash the fruit wolf and WW9 1i dry. Out the orange; mu lemons into quarters or cimtlu from stem to blossom or naval end. Out away the pithy portions at the centre of the fruit and discard titese. Remove the seeds and cover them with ivltier. Then slice the fruit its tilmiy so possible, or put the fruit through the food chop- NOW measure the sliced or chopped min 111111 111111 a i-l times as 1nucl1 ivlttcr. Mix it weil and set aside ovemght. The next day drain the “tater irom the seeds and fififl lstoltf) th_e érultwfsririg the fruit w I and cap tlmtling pg;

for 1 hour or until the

, uncove fruit rind ll tender. Remove from the hem and again let stand overnight.

O11 the following day, meagurg the fruit 11nd liquid and measure an equal qudntlty of sugar. Heat the sugar in a, slow oven with the door slightly 11,1111- so that. bhQ sugar will not scorch. Meanwhile bring the fruit to :1 boil, then add the henttld 1.1111111‘ stirring 111115211 this is all dissolved. Then brinlg the mixture to 1t ‘.311 rolling boil as tlguicrltly as Kefip it

e lng un tie 1e [$3.35 l; ritlflhed. It should not take moms 1111111 l5 or 20 minutes.

Remove from the fire, allow 1t to cool skghtly, storing it once or =tw1ce, then pour 1t into hot ster- ilized jurs and cover tvith a thin dnyer of paraffin, When this has not add another lxtycr of pareffm 121d place lids or tight coverings on the ars.

The pUPpDSC of allowing the mar- malade to cool slightly while stir- ring it, after it has been retrieved from the fire is to dispeirso the particles of peel throughout the jolly evenly and to prevent them 111i rising to the top when you have poured the mnrnlnliide into the i Jars.

GIANT BITII SIZE SAVES YOU MONEY

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EGYPTS ROYAL BABY

For a new shaped topping for

doubt.

ma}. new not “Mme W“ Me for the orange b10ssoms while

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lcompiicaterl, but 31111111112 enotugh. As the 111.0 P941 105 011 £111‘. it sets cert-nu .

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apple pie, cut the crust wllih I doughnut cutter. Place the rings {next each other on the filling and ivhcn the pie ls half-baked, stick

the principle 1s

CAIRA), April io-Farida, Queen,

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CIPES FOR THE O MOST

of Egypt, gave birth to her second child, ct girl, lit 6 pm. Sunday".

If you will build 2t lltlt‘e fence

To kcop all hard words 111, .~ l . .. 1 .... - ~ - -- --1~ -_l U ~ - l, ,

Forum“ cums l" you “.511 Nmqve this rmmnpense_ 1:11 loosened anxious to illufivyfitlixs-b iillJliivh-yigitiilluizlr ztblc L0 WIKLCVAVIJI. alter l The b_:1b was named Fawzia. mrnshmailoivs into the holes in tint E o" To keep the friends you win. p’ l e510 ' that he would have gone to see her‘! ‘fake .1011!‘ 101112111111) “hm P The ChLd 11nd he!‘ IB-Yeflf-Old ")0- dOUBhW-"S- THE PICKAGE A person gggfiner He "om goo. courjcin l. huvfi kcptmtéiem unfit. glfiltelhpziil ipé-dtlpialucggtiliilii: Sileiifrstllllg: gilfitixwfilE (firing W611i and ‘ti? PQyB-l F Ian d 1M

If you will build yourself u am r v , _' H ~ 1 ut nei ier one as ex ed for 1e_ , ' »_ __ , _ _ I, r was a owns 0n 0 Onvfin- or an espece y e oul mun "7flfifggmlflflffmaflfflflfw9h" Through which Love only ggom lifehfgé 5f fflcblglciev mwunivd bi" a other exocpt JUSl. as n plcaiwtnt and Illliglllglsylfg ‘Lflllgaluurfid YJOIIBI 1910101118 0f $116 IIBUOH- T110 of tomato soup, combine a can of OToday send for “Kate Smith's Mfm-v “w b‘? ‘h’ i-"fimfis ‘"1"’ Wm‘? 'dr1venit ‘lav Rexrllillufi’ I111“ things iheizileligl-lflililcl gamhils. Pl-olxuniiintv l; one ol‘ the piflflce aid the sweet? of we capital condenfed inuihrmm “m” Wm‘ m‘ Favorite Re ' " ' Disammd “m b? 5°"? 5005. - t P ‘ "' “fmf 11m‘ ‘ , l‘. _ l, ‘ l d UHllIBb that 1e.» 1111-1111111 1111115111110. “ere b‘ ghuy “mm “Med and M" tomflm- F1115 1V1"! milk. l!’ d9- cipes -——a beautiful seated 1n frcnt of the 1on1 “net-l ti“ NWWIV-flllfi- tillcry boomed a. Zl-gun salute. 51m; In fact‘ mushmom soup

48-pnge book. Contains 147 recipes, 87 interesting illustrations. Explains the bow and why of tender, crisp, golden brown cake as only KIIO can do it. Use coupon below.

If you w:11 cut a ivtndow view domg me Steering’

From which the eye can see Only the beautiful and true, How fair the world M11 bel

Although the shoes may not. be mudh worn horses 511011111 be re» shod every four or five weeks so that the hoofs will not become over-

'I'n Renew Ilenthcr Chairs 2W1").

Boil l-2 pint llmerd oil. 0001, and Sophocles ivrctc 113 trllgeqlu; then add l-Z pint of vinegar. Mix

thoroughly and 11mm. Apply spar-

A merry-go-round carrying sov-

innly to any leather, shabby" m- eral children has been invented stained with a flannel, and polish $11M 04m 1X‘ erected \\'l1'.‘l'l}\'('l‘ cle- \i"11 a ‘diilitor. sired and operntrd b3." 1111;111:114 .ts

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For Thursday, April 11th MARCH 21 to APRIL 20 (Aries) I -—Best ltours for solid 11nd practi- clil nlztliitrr; are l;(.‘i.\\'(.‘(‘Zl 1 and H :1 1n 11nd 3 11nd 5 p.111 , say stzirs. Othcr pfilOlls t1 wcitghout day wnrll against impuisivciuss and over- nggrc sivencss Clever manage- ment nnd sound judgment should net satisfactory" results.

APRIL 21 t0 MAY 20 (Taurus) --li' you 11111 giro imuiotinl attun- tion and kccn nlertncss to all im- portant oxlulrs Wu will extract I lot of good out of this interestmg. energizing tilnulili tricky dtiy. Guard

(V1221 the difficult iszsuca but don't evutie

~11. \\".ll 1.11:0 pltlcnce in

them Anti be COHHIQIOUS with new 21nd lmprovrti ideas rmzl methods even lhnugrh you've lIlflllC mistakes br-lrrc.

Siak-YTFJRTBER. 24 to OCTOBER 23 (Libra) — Sgili-ncild for you ori- gngcd in 111w, I‘(\~'€ltl'Cl1, lrlholntory tests, surgery. ticteticn educational

against msultiglilciit and ex~ pursuits and olitcr actvitzt-s re- ¢,-,111,,t_»;,;11~1-_ quiring tncntril work. Private af- M/iy g1 m JUNE 21 (Gvminn- fairs 1115/) Zi-f"})l‘OV(‘<‘l.

OCTOBER -4 in NOVEMBER 22 rsznirpfn) -— Attrntfnti tn the little filings b11111. hPip t» mnkc life better and fuller for everyone and M- slflllfiil." n-pplvinig the Golden lRlllP is your birz lTSSllZIHITIOIlI. totlui/ Yo11‘1l he su-rprised hrw 111111111 tl1‘s conduct will dd ycu in busines- alfnizs.

NOVFWIBFR 2.’! in DECEMFER g2 1F~111"-"~~~11i"») —~ Soun- bctlrfiri-

You 11.111 i‘."l'l1ii‘(‘ any odds that may lppmll‘ to 11111301‘ your vrh cvcmvnt by keeping n cool, c.1ln1 11011:! and by not 9i1l1‘!‘l.1ll11lii’Z lmpiemmit “gummti Your thlly routine and |il essvnrini mnttcr; are fn-st in favor.

JUNE 22 to JULY 23 (Citncirr) _-I)ellbcraie crirofilliy before 1111K- lng bids. rzvilu cilmwt-s, 515111111! ngreemcrts. m‘ di=c"-n1lnnt2 m.

buying and iiuth ii-hom yrn as- lent vlbritfcns that tend tswnrn acetate. Srmc cxvtvflent infliteuces1prc'1'ressfvri1cs '1:1ri gvtiernl 1m- to be turned into COllSlJllfillVf‘ prottvd contlitf. 1s but you will have

channels. Iloncsl, inir meihcds ‘need of common sense and an lip- wm wit; my“; prccin-tlon of vttluc.

JULY g4 m AUGUST 2'1 (111301- DECEMBER. 23 to JANUARY ‘J1 1.... . _, __ ____,___._.; __._,-_-__._._~,. V_—;~_ 1:.- ~_--._-__

Use Purex for the tiny babe . . . no redness, no irritation-h . . sterilized, soft as silk, white as snow...SAPE!

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hoot slowly. \Vl11"11 quite hot re- B9501‘? W! $11 01' l-"lfllllm" 1F fimnvo from {m- ir-g, mp mmtly applied t0 111101011111 nil wax and | -\\'itl1 11 fiat n11":- o,’ ivootl fill i-Qiuvl grease should be rclnovcd frrm I G,n,,,|p,,nd,_1_;m;,¢d' _ the sltlcs. whcn the fur will break U10 Fillrfflfif’. BPIlZliH‘ is rrvntm- : Coboulx-Ontzitio. I tun 11nd nmi‘ easily: be rcmovcrl lllvnllfffl 1i H- (‘3011111112 54111011- . p1,", "m; nu-qg," 5mm" : ,Keftics should be treated in th.s 1*‘ I: | hvol-itc Recipes". f enclola 61:11: I twny once it “wk. : P°"'B="-"'P* 1 ——--- I NEW Underarm I The Kanok tree “Trips it: seeds ‘ t I N"'" : in_ n. perfect pwrtkzmfgc. The seeds. creun] Deodoranf I 444m, | 1"1"nll€‘d in ivntcrtvooi. vcuiilti-tirnnt : : 111~'1- safely I l. I

I Stops Perspiration /

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No waiting to dry Can be used right after shaving.

Instnnrly Sfnps [wflplrflflfifl for 1 to 3 days. RFHKHKCS 0110! from perspiration

A pure white, grcasvlcss, stuil less vanishing cream.

Artid has been awarded the Approvni Seal of tlic American Institute ol Laundering, tor being harmless m fnhriCS.

15 MILLION 1am oi Arrld love been sold Try a jarvfoduyl

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crluivped? Your star-rays incline that way, b11t, if you won't worry or strain at the leash y:.u‘l] got; through your work or ollicr .11- tercsts quicker untl IITDPE cil 010111.- 1.)’-

JANUARY 22 i0 FEBRUARY ‘.50 (Aquarius) — You born belorc Fib- runry 7 are likely tn experience in- tereding happenings 01111011111113 your personal life. Dlty hokls 111i- vnnt-ages for all Aqunrlans. Get sufficient sicc-p.

FEBRUARY 21 to MARC}! 20 (Pisces) —- Make fl. emu-act with yourself that you will achieve wnat you set to do, and keep that aglen- mczit! All you need is self-con- fidcnce and appllcnton ni‘ your 11.1.- tural resources.

A CHILD BORN ON THIS DAY will htti/e splendid business flCLllTlell, coupled with artistic, musical or literary ability that. should lend to unusual 51100055. And for all who celebrate this birihdate: Ycur year ahead ahcilvs happiness and bene- fits. Push steadily, cheerfully ahead!

_____i________ Try these unusual appetizers at your next cocktail party: Carefully

Haven't you intelligence enough t0 know thtu. the sure cure for any youthful romance is to meet the be-_ loved one alter the lapse of years?! For time docs things to all of us that dispels the glaincr that once encir- cled us.

The n-lzm hus cherished the vision , 0i a. 511111 and llssoln glrl with zti pcalclies-uiiu-crealii COXYlpJJXIOiI, 11110 11c gets tlie shock o1 his lite _".v11onl he meets a stout or scrabrly’ inlddic- | aged woman, with fifiiyllg hair and, ital-grown cluiaren who cull her. M0111.

To the ivoinun the man hastil- 1111.18 been i1 slender yum)‘ B°i"1111-’-| witn ambmslzil curls, and s c wants ,l0 die with twnagrni when she fmds ,l111.." puulichy, ould-hemded man 111 "ctoclcs irus once the hero of her gllllfiil dreams. ‘

And mentally they are more strailgclxs to ouch other than they are bhysi 11y, because they 1111 1c the some background 111114 in common to talk

Ailywdy. ‘lo 111_\," thinking, you have got tlie wrong stint on what eon- stltutcs 1111 cuututlon. You seem to think that it is all put up in school book packages and solo over the counter lit cuilizgcs and that they have u, nionciloly oi 1t,

Nothing is {urlhcr from tl1c iruth. The must that .'\11v szrnoul can teach you ls the loic o1 1111111111.; and the desire 101" ktioivloclgc, 11nd ll you nave that you “Ill g0 cnpeducat-lng yourself 11s long 11s you nvc. The word will stlil be lul. of 1100K“- 111197 ycu llrl- 1 lllltltl, so will it be lull of papers . 1111 inaigizinis 11nd sources oi‘ 11110111111111111. A1111 it 1s 111) W you whethcl" you will be an educated wolmin or not.

Don't blurry iulcss You Fccl Real 1.1111:

Dear Dorothy Dix - I rim a young man i11 my twenties 11nd have been oing with ii. girl 101" a your. I like ler, but I um not the romantic type. “111011 I kiss hcr I iecl as though 1 aln kissing 11 corpse, but it is the

" have led diilerent. lives,

some ivith other girls. I tlon‘t l-nloy dulcrout interests. dWI-‘lflllw "m

kissing int-111. 1t 1,5 gust. like I

kissing my own sister. My girl wants to marry, but I hesitate be- cause if she Ls looking for love 1 cant fill the bill. What is '0u_r ad-