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COUPLES FALL IN LOVE TWICE IF MARRIAGE IS SUCCESSFUL

In: Second Love They Don’t Expect The Impossible Of Each Other

the husband and wife fall in love with lach other twice. The first love affair is founded on illusion. Boy meets irl and all is circling wings and trailing clouds of glory. They know were made for each other and that their marriage will be a grand, FXWBE Sims. with never a discordant note in it. He sees herpas a beinB pt unearthly perfection, and she beholds in him her Fairy Prince.

So they are married; but it isn't long before their pink chiffons of romance begin to show signs of wear and tear and to frazzle out around the edges. They wake up from their trance and what we call the clisil-

lusion of marriage takes place. They take their first good, long. appraising look at each other and wonder what ever made them think they wanted to spend the next thirty or forty years together.

He sees Geraldine with her complexion of! and cold cream on and her many imperfections thick upon her. She beholds Tom huns aven and shorn, with fussy little ways and given to saying brutal things about the coffee. Both of them see marriage stretching before them as a long rocky road that ls going to be hard to travel, instead oi the flowery pathway that they thought it would be.

Probably there is not one bridal ‘couple ln a - thousand who, during what is ironically called

i Q the honeymoon. have not regretted their mar-

3 > riage and been on the point, a dozen times over, of packing up their doll rags and going back to Mother, Many do throw up their hands and quit, for statistics show that divorce is much more common among the young than it is among their elders, and that if a hint-ridge lasts five years the chances are that it will be good for the 0X1! llll

The reason for this is that after the boy and girl glamour love is as dead us u coffin nail the husband and wife fall in love with each other for a smonti time, and this love lasts because it is founded on fact instead of fiction. They no longer expect the impossible of mnrrizige or of each ollicr. ’l;‘hey have ceased to yearn after thrills and lilgh- ressure senti- ment. For they have found out that they; would get as sic of the grand passion as they would of a daily diet of c ocolate creams.

Curiously enough, husbands and wives fall in love with each other for the second time for entirely different qualities than those that in- spired their first love. A girl's pretty face may have catight a boy's eye, or a girl may have been swept oft’ her feet by a boy's dashing air. But what a man loves his wife for is not her peaches-and-crenm complexion. but her tenderness and devotion and his knoweltlge that if all the world turned against him she would still stand faithfully by his side. And what a wife falls in love with her husband for is not because he lo_oks like a cinema hero. but because in every line of his tired face and his sagging shoulders she reads the story of his selfless toil to keep her sale and. warm. and stand lwtween her and hardship.

To tir on-looker the middle-aged men and women. who have lost their figures and ivhatever allure of youth they may once have had, and who call ouch other Ma arid ‘Pa. may not. seem figures of romance. _ But the husband who never looks at his wife's work-knotted hands without thinking of how many shirts she has washed for him and how many rlinncrs she has cooked for him. and who never sees his wife's faded eyes n-itlinut remembering the sleepless nights she has spent watching over his sick bed: and the wife who never looks at her fat and bald-headed old husband without thinking of all the sacrifices that he has made for her and the children. are the only ones. in reality, who ever know the full beauty and grandeur of married love.

it is because this second blooming of love brings with it so much more happiness than the lrst that it la a pity that the young have not the pat- gilt‘? to unit for it.

In every successful marriage

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There was a knock on Serena's - door. Shedpaitsed in her packing use

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“Who is it?" she called.

Her mother-iii-la/w’: voice am- wered. "Serena - may I speak to

you?’ ' .

girl stood rigid, flghtlnl In impulse to call out. “Please go sway! There is nothing more for us to say to each other!” After a. moment's hesitation, she went and opened the

our.

Mrs. Cornstock came slowly into the room. Her face was white, and she had an odd, beaten look. Her gaze traveled from the half- packed suitcases to Serena's hat, coat and handbag lying on the bed.

Then, she faced her da hter-ln- law. "Are you still resolv to go?” . Serena nodded. without speaking.

"And-—and Paul?"

"He must do as he wishes."

Mrs. Comstock drew a sharp breath. “He loves you-he will go with you."

For a moment. she seemed to waver. Then she sank into a chair and continued speaking, in s. strange monotone.

"I came to apologlrc to you, Se- rena. I have been very selfish and inconsiderate. If you will write a note to your friends, telling them that we shall be glad to have them visit us, I shall have Thurber take it to the village to mail at once. I—" She paused, covering her eyes for an instant with her hand. ‘ realize now that I have treated vou too much like a child. Serena. I hope that you will be generous enough not to hold it against me. I should not want my son to feel that his mother-that his mother acted unfairly toward his wife Will you forgive me, my dear, and —and stay.

Serena did not answer at once. Stay! Turn her back on freedoml But there was Paul-and his mother had turned, incredibly, press to suppliant. She was old. she had set aside her pride to come asking forgiveness, . . .

impulsively, Serena said. "Very wcll—I'll stay, Mother Comstock."

'I'he older woman's slum d form straightened. A glint came ack into her eyes.

"I think‘ it would be wiser if we kept our little misunderstanding to ourselves." she said, rising. “Nothing is to be gained by letting Paul know that you contemplated leaving. Un- pack your bags, my dear, and let us act as ii this unfortunate matter had never come up."

She walked. almost briskly. to the door. Over her shoulder she said.

“What did you say your friend was? An actor? A painter?" "A writer. Alan Leighton. He

and his sister Helen were our clos- est friends in New York." "Is he young?" “Fair "

Mrs. Comstcck, lifting a playful forefinger, said with mock serious- ness. "In love with you. too, I dare- sayl Still—as Pau ‘s wlie—I imag. lne you are able to handle the situ-

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neared. The Ooinstock family had athered on rcb to await ad been unsea- hot and darkness d brought no relief. ‘There's a storm coming," an- nounced Estelle. Miss Peasley gave s. little cry then covered her mouth spologetically Mrs. Comstock turned to loo at her. "I wish you wouldn't do that. Leona. Your fear of thunderstorms Please try to control yourself.”

"I—I'm sorry, Matoel." said Miss Peasley abjectly. Then, leaning close to Serena, she clutched her arm arid WIBSDCNO, E‘stelle’s ri to storm! I can feel i . Oh. my dear. you have no idea how frightened I am of llghtningi"

Serena patted the old lady's hand soothlngly, but her thoughts were elsewhere. She was wondering what could have happened to delay Alan and Helen. Had they lost their way? Though she had written them ex- plicit directions, strange roads were confusing at night. They were al-

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“Your guests are late. Serena." said Mrs. Comstock, finally giving voice to her irritation, “Dinner will be quite ruined."

“I know-Tm sorry."

"Devil of a place to find. any- way.“ said Paul.

"Couldn't-couldn't we go ahead with dinner?" Serena asked un- happily. "I'm sure they'd fee] much better if we did Heaven knows what may have happened. They may not be here for hours-J’

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table before my guests," Mrs. Com- stock said firmly, “and I do not pro- pose to_ forget my duties as a host- ess tonight." '

Estelle muttered, under her breath. “Why any one in their right mind would want to come here in the first place, I don't see."

Shut up, Stell," hissed Chad.

Serena suddenly Jumped up. pointing excitedly. "I think — I think I see them! Aren't those

headlights Just coming around the curve?"

"Yep!" exclaimed Paul. also ris- ing. "Here the ycome."

Mrs. Comstoclc turned to her sis- ter. "Leona, go in and tell Advent that our guests are finally in sight. And Leona-remember what I told you about the salad last night. I don't want that mistake repeated."

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Paul caught hold of Serena's hand. "How about a run down the hill to meet them? Stell-Chad- want to come along?"

Estelle accepted with a shrug. but Chad curtly declined and went into the house. Paul took the two glrlsvby the arm and started them running down the road.

Mrs. Comstock, left tiione on the porch. sat stlffly with her hands folded in her lap. There was no movement in that figure. no relax- ation. Onlv her eyes moved as they followed the slow progress of the car's headlights up zhe hill. The roar of the low gear grew inund-

Then, she rose to receive her daughter-in-laws guests.

(To be Continued)

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2 cups milk

1-2 cup sugar

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MILADYS STOCKINGS CAUGHT 1N MACHINE

Making stockings out o! auibsti- tute materials is a headache for the hosiery manufacturers.

Taste in stockings has been hi h in Canada in the past and no rl considered herself smaril turned out unless her outfit incl-u sheer full-fashioned silk hose that fitted her ircm toe to pantie with l. wrinkle if possible, produced the impression that she wasn't wearlii stockings at all. Now silk is out an into war industries so available rayon and mercerized cotton are left to “pinch hit". Neither of these products possesses the texture or elasticity of silk.

Colors, too, are being limited, to save dyes, but there is still a. wide choice for lng and fall - air force blue. aki, tan gunmetal, black, white and four other shades chosen at the discretion of each manufacturer.

The changeover from silk t0 substitutes and the necessary ex- perimenting to improve them has

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The violet of the fl - times iitiht and other .225." deeipar,_ one of the novella; gm season,

The black lace blouse ls gaini in popularity for informal el/Oillrlg wear. Combined with a. black Sign it makes a complete costume,

now YOU can RE-VAMP THOSE TIRED CLOTIU-Jg

Dresses with worn sleeves b9 salvaged by replacing m, sleeves and ma n: a shoulder of a. contrasting fabric, either contrasting weave or the 5m, weave in contrasting color.

If the garment “c5 been ruined through underarm perspiration or wear due to strain o; m; gum,’ one can suggest either:

That the good material be used to make a jumper or that the good

contrasting fnbrzc _ which will allow for cutting away the destroyed fabric.

A garment vmicli ls now too tight for the wearer can often be altered with the help of a. pat-torn that uses s. panel of contrasting fabric down the front.

A foo-short garment can b; altered to fit through either in inserted belt or waistband, a yoke,

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