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gather. have no children. If I plan something for ou

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onc comes to the me a complimen

sonality complete no good. What's

ANSWER:

wives eyen when they are fond

FEELS

This is particularly the case

is his wife's inferior in looks, or

Then he justifies himself to him

Then there lire men ofcruel

They get a kick out of inflicting’

in agony and, of course, the wi of these inhuman monsters.

homes; who never mention anythi

apparently begrudge her the food

and who make marriage pecially is she foolish to endure ‘fare would depend upon having wife of such a man should just p

to torment for his diversion. gear for any woman who has se

DEAR DOROTHY DIX: enough salary to meet the I am dissatisfied and tired

ANSWER: If you have to husband brings in the money W

the rent of the house you sweep? I grant you that it is to its utmost limit; who has to

hills. But if such n woma

£69,.)

but "F

and does everything a sloppy housekeeper I am.

with her for a while."

duct is that he is a sort of sadist. _ _ _ _ men kill the thing they lave," and. while that is not strictlv true. it is true that many men get a neurotic pleasure out of tnrtiirini-Z

others by trying to humiliate her.

I think anv woman is foolish who stands such treatment.

five children. the oldest 12 years old. _ _ , bills for our absolute necessities of life. I

rlo all the work in our five-room bungalow-washing, iron and bakiiiml, of trying to make both ends meet. I am.

an absolute slave and wisli I could get a divorce.

when you had to do the cookinS. children, and also earn the money

hard for a woman who has not the gift of money-making:

“I'VE nsver soon s whiter, brighter wsshl" That’s what you want people

iooiioiiiv DIX sus- g i Sadistic Husband

Man Takes Pleasure ln Torturing Wile

I have been married four years to a young man of good character who professes to love me, but we have never in all the years we have been married had an hour's enjoyment to- I have worked constantly since we have been married and we I do not understand my husband's attitude toward

r enjoyment, he sulks, argues, fights to ruin the evening. If some house to see us. he tells about what If one oi our friends nays he remarks: “You ought to live 1 have killcd my own pcr- ly to keep peace with him. but to the answer to this terrific problem

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of ho\v to get along with a man who says he “loves you, yet docs everything to make you miserable.

VERI LYN

I suppose the real explanation of your husband's con-

Oscar \\'ilde once said that “all

their of them.

INFERIOR

when the man secretly feels that he

mind, or disposition. or achievements.

sclf and thinks he shows off before natures who enjoy torturing others. pain and seeing their victims writlic fe is always thc preordained victim

What pleasure a man can find in making his wife needlessly un- happy no normal mind can understand. There are plenty of husbands who never say a

But their perverted souls do. pleasant word in their ng their wives do except to knock it;

who go out of their way to insult her family and ll\"l‘ friends; who

she eats and the clothes she wears:

for her a good undcrstudy of the Inquisition.

Es- it if she has no children whose wel- a father to provide for them. The ut on her hat and Gilli mid-

It is no woman's duty to offer herself’ up as a R06! f0? 8n)’ ma" The martyrs

halo isn't a Drop‘?! head" rise enough to make her o\vn living.

I am a married woman of 35‘ and have My husband makes JtISt barely;

yVhat, do you think? MARRIED

slave to make ends meet; when your

ould you have nn easier time of_ it washing and ironing for your five. to buy the food you cook and pay

to be married to a man who has to stretch every Donny work beyond her strength, slaving

{m- her children, and who lives always in the black shadow of unpaid

n‘: husband is good and kind to her, and if i ter than trying to keep a sufferer Continued on paso 9

lNot iust whiter, not iusi brighter, resh-uir-Fresh" . . . even when dried indoors

'still under observation in a mental .

And you don’t need hot, soft wstorl Surf gives you instant, long-‘ "ng

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0man’s Realm/Social and Personal/Fashions/L

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By James W. Burton, MJ).

MOB-E ABOUT RELIEVING UN- BEARABLE PAIN BY OPERATION

There are so many men and women in the world today suﬂering with deep grief and depression and so many others suﬂering with un- bearable pain. that I find myself ivriting about the relief cbtalned by the simple operation of cutting the nerves supplying that portion of the brain in which these disturb- ances occur. This operation is called prefrontal lobotomy.

I have recorded the results ob- tained by Drs. Freeman and Watts who were the first to tell the world how grief-stricken men and women could Obtain relief. Later, in addi- tion to removing grief and des- presslon. it was lcarntd that this same operation gave relief frcm "in- tractable" pain.

Two of the latest reports on lobo- ,tomy for relief of pain ccme from itho Mayo Clinic in “Minnesota lMcdicine" and from Di‘. I-I. E. Lc- tFﬁber in "The Ohio State Medical lJournal." Drs. J G. Love, M. 0.. ‘Petersen and F. P. hioerah. Mayo‘ ‘CIIHIC, report nine patients who‘ .suf‘fered from intractable and uii-. icontrollublc pain in various parts, , of the body and who were operated. . On by this method. In four cases ithc pain was due to real or or-| Rﬁnlc disease or disturbances: iul the remaining five cases no organic‘. cause could be found for the p.iin..l In six of the nine cases the rcliif 01 Pain was remarkable and ins, considered satisfactory. One dia- betic patient died of diabetes. One Patient was completely relieved for B. time‘ but later developed a be- havior problem. and the other is

hospital. In the opinion cf these Mayo Clinic physicians, therefore. the operation, lobotc-my. is justified and should be used on certain care- fully selected patients who have intractable pain. whether caused by l organic or functional conditions. Dr. LeFeber reports several cases In which Iobolomy was carried out ‘for the relief of organic pain. Hc found that though pain is relieved by chordotomy (surgical operation on the spinal cord), there is still the “fem” of pain, Whereas 1n loba-

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GU ARDIAN, CHARLOTTETOWN

NOVEMBER '25, ,9, 7i

Richards-Robertson Wedding

Mr. and Mrs. Donald

Farrell Richards photog

iaphcd as they left Trinity Unitccl Church follow-

i.'lL' illvll‘ marriage on Tuesday. Oct. 22.

Thcii‘ att

ciidiiiits were: the bride's sister, Mrs. Keith Cham-

pion as matron of honour mspian; bridssmaid, Miss ushers, Mr. Wilfred Robert man.

Little Cickic Robertson was flower girl.

; Mr. Champion as grno

l\Iai-y Mathcson, R. N.: son and Mr. Donald Sta lit

bride is Elvia Cyrene. daughter of Mr. and lllrs

Arthur Robertson, East Royalty.

son of Mr. and Mrs. Farrel

The groom is the Richards, Athol, ltlciss. -—Garnhum Photo.

iiomy both pain and fear of pain fare removed. Also in lobotomy not ionly is the pain and fear of pain lremovcd but the patient never ‘ thinks a. serious disease is present.

l Lobotomy is certainly much bet-

with uncontrolled grief and great.

pain under the stupefylng effects of! morphine. I

I-‘TRST “BItlTONS"

'l'lie first known inhabitants off

Britain were Celtic and Iberian in- origin. i.

BRIGHTER

ORDINARY CLEAN

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"SURF-ClEAN“

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.5 How Can I!!! 7/5 By Anne Ashley

Q. How can I clean the rm- broidery cn an article that. cannot be laundered?

A. Covcr it with a thick paste of alcohol and powdered chalk, roll and lay it away in a dark place for a few days, then brush on’ the dry chalk.

Q. How can I prevent oysters from being indigestible?

A. Should the oystc-rs be indig- estible. the Chances are that they were overcooked.

Q. How can I keep wrinkles from forming when fastening oilclcth to the kitchen table?

A. Instead of tacking the oil- cloth to the table, try fastening it with flour paste.

Modern Etiquette

By Roberta Leg

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Q- 1| l‘ 11mm! to attend s. inas- quwlde dance. t0 which one has been invited. in ordinary dress?

A. No, this is discourteous. All guests should be suitably attired, and only if spcciril prmiission has been secured fncm thc host or host- ess may one attend ln ordinary dress.

Q. Is it permissible to ask the porter on a train to call one at a certain hour in the morning?

A- YQS; thzs is the correct and customary thing In do.

Q. When tho gucst-of-honor is a man, where should he b. reared m, the dinner tahlo?

A- At the right of the hostess.

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BAKED CHICKEN LEGS AND - nnassrs

p Brown each piecs of chicken in it smsll amount of fat in frying pan, Arrsngs chicken in baking dish. cover and bake in a moderately hot 0V9". 375 degrees F.. until tender, removing cover during last. 15 m1... “i=1 o! covklnsz. For snail iegi and breasts (7 to 9 oz.) allow about 43 minutes; for larxcrr lcga and breasts (10 to 12 oz.) allow about 1 hour,

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h | ' ELLEN s niiiiii i By An lslsnd Farmer's Wife ii 1n s movs to further strengthen the resources at. Aiderlea, and st- ter a somewhat distant-excursion, a parcel of ewes was added to the flock tonight, as well as a young- ish "son and heir", akin we sup- pose to that favorite of mother- iilailiels in Scottish verse. Of this one we shall be wary, once Win- ter is here to stay. and the flock has come to their Winter quart- crs. More than once in our stretch of farming with James, he has rescued us, just. in the nick of time, from the fearsome onrush oi one of these, and the small ones in the family of the past, have, also had their thrilling experi- ences and escapes. We recall run- ning to the yard anxiously, one Sunday in the byegone days, af- icr we had returned, with Rob from attending Service Ln the old Kirk. Jock a small fellow was stretched at full length on the ground. “Is he sick?" ivc inquired bruathiessly. "No," Rob laughed,

"he's been showing inc how he. nionagco‘. to save himself, wiitrii the ram threatened him!" o s a Pure brcd thcsc recent pur-

chases are of a Shropshire lllll‘. and besides trusting that they will add odd dollars to a farm-purse \\'l'llCl’l swells and slims in truth and in prospect, they will aid their kind in ridding the fields of woods. News of their arrival was re- ceived with thc satisfaction it is usual for a farm wife to experi- ence at tidings of an expansion in herds or flocks. hut at the same time with some uneasiness ovci‘ the welfare of thc few hut prrcious shrubs about lawns and yards. Above all others, the Forsythia is a favorite hdibit of theirs and given their own pleas- ure, at their Winter exercising they would devour evcry twig of it, and bud. The sound of this inarziuding. as we become aware of their quiet footfalls causes no uneasiness to James, snug on his p.llo\v in the wide old bod nf his people. “It's those shccpl" we ex- claim, our heart-beats accelerating ovcr what we fear will be a sad vacancy in Spring. But James cuddlcs down more comfortably. offering the assurance that "Well they can't do much harm, Ellen, before morning!" O O O

At Rob's today, feeder-cattle were added to his herd, and hous- ed in a stable, modernized to some. extent, in a Summer that was extremely busy there. Smooth con- crete floors were laid, extra stalls made. by appropriating space that was barn floor. lights installed and a water system, by virtue of the power unit which continues to function satisfactorily and is of inestimable value to the family. providing lighting for the choring, which so often goes into thc- over- time, as well as water on tap for the stock, a boon to the "one-man" farm. There assisted by Jamcs re- cently, last turnips were gather- ed, thus bringing to an end their harvesting 0t '49. As at Aldcrlca. the current interest is the plow- ing and it was to the scene of this, that an outing by way of the fields carried James this afternoon, to dismantle a fence in the way of the advancing plowman. The countryside is now damp and for- lorn, hedgerows naked and mea- dows colorless. But evergreen groves and woodlands are huddled close from the kinds. and one knows, providing shelter for many a creature of the wild. James re- latcd that a covcy of pa'tridge had drifted to this haven from a neigh- boring stubble field and close to wood-s’ edge a fox, a bold thing sat, calmly regarding his going.

O O O

James‘ return was heralded by a great hallooing which brought granddaughter on the run to tell us: "We'd better get busy right

Continued on pMZO 9

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HIS DEAL

The landlady brought in a plate- ful of extremely t/hin slices of bread rind butter, which rather dismayed her hungry boarders.

"Did you cut these, Mrs. Smith?" asked one.

"Yes." came the stern reply.

"Oh," went on the boarder. "All right; I'll shuffle and deal."

PROOF

"They're very much in love with each other."

"Arc they?"

"Yes. When shes away she writes letters to lliif“ whether she needs money 0r not.“

The Stars Say - - i 2 By Genevieve Kemblo é

For Saturday, November 26

EXCELLENT auspices are noted in this day's siclereal map for put- ting over ambitious ventures with energy. tact. and perhaps trying out fresh ideals. in new environs, asso- ciations or entirely changed plan of action While the mentality is alert and sharp, yet affairs may be as- tutely developed by use of hidden factors, by strategic moves, or strangely stimulated ideas or polic- les. Unique, curious or odd cprn- ings or sltuatiom may come up for quick decision or grasp. with bril- liant. dcnoucment.

Those whose birthday lt is. us u- sured s year of brilliant accomplish- ment. probably involving major- change, with fresh ways and means. shOWing much versatility. ingenu- ity as well as tact, finesse and saga- clty in putting over eiwoptional pro- jecls. The odd. unusual and bizarre may arise for appraisal and quick decision, with exceptional skills or talents, incited by feelings. emc- Lions, ideals as well as intrigue or subtlety. Swift and shrewd action bring surprising results.

A‘child born on this day is ex- ceptionally talented. adaptable and

SMART SEPARATE!

This ilmple. tailored style of blouse suits any fabric . . - il extra smart in the westsrn plaids that mate with sisirta or slacks. Tho skirt is one of those wizard fail-nic- saving models. cutating from N" one yard of 54-inch fabric. (TWO separate patterns).

N0. 288s is cut. in sires 10. 12. 14- 16. 1B. 20. 36. 38 and 40. Silk 15 requires 2% yards 35-inch or 1%

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?. é Better English g By o. c. Williams

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1. What is wrong with this IQ|1| “"1697 "T715755 m1 awful nice “"1 Y°l1 may sit it on the table."

2. \Vhat._is the correct pmmm, lation of "inccmparabio"?

3. Which one of these words ﬂ misspelled? Obituary, oblique. ch senc. oblivious.

4. Wihat does the word "lament. able" mean?

:5. What is a word begliiiilq with nu that. means "to make wit. especially legally"?

ANSWER!

1. It. would be much better is say, "That's a very ﬁne (or. lntlh eating) book. and you may set lion the taible." 2. Accent second iyl- labia. not the third. 3. Obscene. Pitiable; deplorable. (Accent syllable). "It was a lamentable mis- fortune." 5. Nulllfy.

Household Scrapbook

By Roberta Leo

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Celﬂ’!

Celery can be diced quick“ ' this method is used. rresien till stalks in cold water and wash ‘W’ oughly. Then cut the stalks iii In sections. lengthwise. Lay "v stalks together on ii btiﬂfti "ml m crosswise.

Hosiery Iii-mum!

1f one can afford it. it P!" "° w thres palm of hose o! t1" "l" color at the sumo llmﬂ- Th? "i": up process as they hi1"! l” m out; is g most economical m"!

Glue Bottle

use s piece of candle.‘ 11151554 i s cork. in thi- glue bcim. 1:1)’ glue will not dry out stint?

i’ versatile. with keen iiieiitiilityll

iu we“ M rgligbig rsliiC-iltliilllqfilgnlt“ iivc leads. ilromlsmr a b~~"- eventful career.

Needlecraft.”

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30!!! 150W W"? Wllh- suds in cool water. Hard water is “mum”, dmdm “s I, W - vr-csan.

Try! locsfor

Why, sure you do . . . But, you

know-you CAN have more! Yes, you cm have wsshos that are swnsrrsn too. Wnahss that ‘ﬁuh-sir-ﬁsohnsc

have an outdoors , s wondsrful, sweet-

ns-now-mown-clovsr moth-own when you have to lung tho wash indoors!

Surf dons this swash: washing

. , new liming-fut suds

iscovory that has outstripped in

ty 0v nlw prod uood tn for yous.

ti 80o why! Ham's what Bur! you:

I. iorfdtsulvos sllnglngwrocsy dirt

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"rain-water soft" to Surf!

Wonder of wonders-Surf is Am. you need for‘ Au. your washing! No more “specinl" soaps for "special" jobs! Surf whisks the grassy dirt from heavy work clothes. Takes gentle can of your dainticst washables-dresses, undies, stockings . . . sheer curtains, woolans. Evan for walls and woodwork, Surf is s wonder!

Talk sbout savings! Ounce for ounos Surf does 3 times the work of loading wsshday soaps-in hardest water! Get the attractive blue hox-mday-at your grocers Compare Surf with any soap you've ever tried.

You'll be tolling your friends Sui-I'd sweeter wsshday storyi

MICIOFNOTOI

3M1»:- wcasionnlly with melted m.

For ‘ Chicken Len: -_ Re. move bones from each chicken Ii-g (drumstick and thigh). Stuff with bread dressing. Sew or skewer to. Bﬂhelr to close opening and mo); as for Baked Chicken Legs nnd Breasts.

LU M BAGO ? tiivs ll Instant llolioti

I-‘or the piercing pain of lumbngii rind the tormenting aches of rho“. ~mnttr distress. what linlment iii so efficient. so quick tn bring romfqﬂ and relief as Nsrvlllnn.‘ It pone trains through tho tissues qulektv; it drives at the rare nf the pain draws the blood from the congest- ed area and thereby reflexes the pain. Those who suffer from stlf!

101"". Iwvlllnsu and rheumatic conditions should use Norvllino. Wtisro ordinary methods fsii.

Norvlllno can show its power. is" -—qutck to set-powerful and pom. trating, Iervlllns is efficient for lumbngn, lnms bar-k. snre miracles, rheumatic pains. Bold in 35o bottlu

gt all ¢sslsrs._

Canned Salmon and a lillls ’ Imagination

$ conjure up u?

party delicacies ‘ to some. Extend

that an a treat Canned Salmon a 9

variety of ways. Ml: sun mayonnaise,

yards 54-inch. No. 2021 is cut in waist sizes 22.

24. 26. 28 and 30. Any one of these

sizes may be made from one W"! 54-inch.

Bend 25 cents for escli Pattern which includes coinplsts sowlns guide. Print your Name. Addrﬂs and Style Number plainly. 8o sul’! to state also you wont. iudo postal unit. or zone number in 10m‘

address. Address Psttsm DfPl-Ymm"

CANNED

ALMO

chopped onions, and Tho Charlottetown GusMtI-Il- 8am“ Pattern No. 2885 and No- 3021 $5 lcllll rr " % olirznplcklss, NW“ pinmuo or rim of r a _ Mulls sandwiches In rolls, open Address [an or slim dochers. ~ City Province

:'i=§ii."-'-'i°d':na"':a£ method." $.12: corms of peroxlns powder from an‘ d": store. Ibririkls on a hot. wot Ho! . l

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