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l Dorothy Dix Says-

NO WAY OF TELLING HOW WEDDING WILL TURN OUT

Neither Science Nor Prophets Can Advise Ai Reliable Method For Determining What i Husbands And Wives Will Be Like |

A ymuh. who is a conscientious objector to divorce, wants to know if there is any sure way by which men and women who are contemplating matrim0ny' can determine. on the safe side of the altar, whether they ale

- adapted to each other and will live happily or scrapplly together if they take the fatal step.’ Alas, no. son. Neither science, nor religion, nor the gift of prophecy has been able to devise any reliable ‘nlPtllb of iorctelliug how any wedding is going to turn out, The best that tlic most prud- ent and careful can do is to shut their eyes .0 the ]X‘l‘ll.$ they are about to encounter and keep ihtir lingers crossed for luck. Marriage always has been, always is. and will be the greatest gamble on earth. Of course, there are certain. rodliglit signals set along the path oi courtshipi tl should warn even the most foolhardy" ag t the danger of two people of diainetric-I ally opposite temperaments, backgrounds, faiths‘ and opinions marrying. A male and female' bigot, holding dliferetit creeds, should step nigh,- wide and handsome around each other, tori , v instance. The old should not wed with the nvuug unless they are looking tor trouble. Ncr sltaulcl butlc inaic with grubs. Btu when it comes to just the (on.- m .1 millriin oi everyday men and wcmen. there is no distinguishing mark by which they can tell winch ones are their preordained mates. They simply have l0 take their chances blind. and they do not know before-' hand what they are getting in marriage, or how they are going to like it; when they get it home.

'l'his is not lxcatisc men and women are conscious deceivers. They do not pa: cn an act and rxise as romantic heroes or pin-fenthertd angels ' Ir to entice the party of the other part into “BCIICCR. They nct

he skill to do this, but their vanity forbids it. Zlhey think that icy arc tlit-y are attractive enough to ensnare any ones fancy.

Surprisrs in (‘litirat-tcr

one is soincitilug, lil iunrrifigt‘ {that brings out unsuspected phases tf tier Lll both iucn and wcinen. as a hot poultice brings out a rash in tnemles, and it is literally" true that. cvcry bride and bridegroom are as much szi-angsrs to each other as ll they had never met before the wed- ding.

and woman may have made mud pies together when they were! " may have gone to school together; they tnay have played tntr for years; ihcv may have thought that they knew eat-hi oLn.i i-y thought and taste and peculiarities and ways and. were sale in mciiiyiug because they knew exactly what they were getting.

But after marriage each found a surprise package on their doorstep. John discovered that. he had never even dreamed of how Mary looked with her complexion off and her hair in curlers, nor hoyv aggravating size, could bt- never‘ paving the top on the tooth-paste tube and leaving hail" in his brushes. Ntar what. a poor cook and manager she was. nor how dull it could be talking to a woman who never read anything but the soc- icty columns i.n the papers.

And Mary found out what she had never suspected-that John had a padlock on his pocketbook and that he had to be practically chloroformeit befc ‘c she could get a. nickel out of it; that he was fussy a tit his eating and was always throwing his mother's cooking in her teeth; that he ex- rxcted her to be some sort of a wizard who could conjure good meals and! prctcv clothes out of the air; that. he didn't think it. worth ‘while to be‘, polite or entertaining to a mere wife.

Marriage Works Changes

Furthermore, what complicates the. problem about. picking out the kind 0f husband and wife you want while you can still exchange them at the laargain counter ‘is that sometimes after marriage they change their chartizieristlcs. Sometimes the drunkard turns into a prohibltionist; the lazy loafer becomes a. go-getter and Den Juan develops into Darby who never looks at any one but the Little Woman.

And we all know girls who ‘were spenders when it was Papa's money. who pinch every penny when it is their husbands‘. We have seen girls who danced their slippers off wear out. their house shoes walking the (‘OIlt‘, and frivolous little playgirls tiun into the best of wives and mothers.

So. you see, son. there is no way of guaranteeing that the girl you pick out for a. wife is going to come up to speciﬁcations aftelﬁyou 8ft 119i”- Probably’ she won't, because the ideal wife is a myth, as is the ideal

husband.

N» two human beings think alike. or have the some tastes and habits. But. if you have intelligence and purpose. you can compromise your dif- fertnccs. She can give a. little and you can give a little tuitil you make a. ivlatfcrm on which you both can stand ln peace and hﬂplllfless-

That is what we cttll the adjustments of farrlage, and it ls what keeps marriage a goingvccnccrnf DOROT-HYJEX;

. dlgnantly. my sister." SAFETY FIRST

BYOWIlZ “That young man who t has just entered the club seems to

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TINTI-ID FLUFFY FROSTING

3 P 2 ivhiies. 1l1‘.I)'3I1‘_"ll 2 l-4 cups S}!!! l‘. l-2 cuo watt-r 51 teaspoons light corn syrup. red coloring, 1 1-2 tcnspaons vanilla,

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-—The Woman’s Realm

FACE THE SUN

Don't look for trouble,

But. look for success,

You'll find vahat you look for, Don't look for distress;

1f you see but your shadow, Remember, I pray,

That the sun is still shining But you're in the way. . Don't grumble. don't blaster. Don't dream and don't shirk; Don't think cf your worries, But think of your work.

The worries will vanish,

The work will be done:

No man sees his sthadnw who faces the sun.

The normal balloon tire on an automobile flattens to between l0 and 12 inches in gripping the road.

When sweeping a room. open all the windows and sweeﬂwward the centre of the room. .ls prevents _the dust from settling on the Wrocl- work and the walls do not get so dust-y as they otherwise would.

A little olive oil rubbed over paper that. has stuck ti a poli=hed surface softens paper and makcs it easier to remove.

FIRST PICKING‘

Almost. always the first. flowers picked by small hands have stems about 1-4-lnch long and cannot be used at» all. The child dses not mean to be wasteful of the blooms and she should not be sroded. lnsead take her out to the garden and show her how to pick flowers correctly, explaining why the stems should be long enough to rracn the watcr in order to receive nourishment.

Casters will stay 1n the legs of furniture if the holes are filled with melted paraffin and the caster rapidly put back into place

r0 can FORTIOAIE rsu

To can asparagus at. home, use only freshly cut stalks.

Out off any woody portion.

Scrub thoroughly wvh a. brush to remove sand and scales.

Tie in bunches of size that will conveniently slip int.“ a p‘nt jar,

Stand the bunches upright in a saucepan with about zwo incite; of water.

Cook c‘.o"ely covered for four minutes.

Pack in jars. allcw one-half tea- spoon of salt to each pint jar and fill with boiling water Use the water in which asparagus was cooked. adding sufficient freshly boiled water to flll all jars to over- flowing.

Put on rubbers and tops and par- tially seal. If screw top jars are used seal completely. then locsen one-halt! turn. If Fpflllﬁ‘ top jars . are used press down on clamp.

l Place jars in sterilizer. If pres- I I I

sure canner is used follow directions 40 minutes

for the type and allow mkicveier

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bath canner ls used tultw water to cover jars at least 2 lnohee and sterilize 2 hours. Be sure that the water is kept boiling.

When jars are removed from the sterilizer seal at once.

Cool, wipe dry and ltore in a cool. dry, dark place.

CARE 0F BABY'S TEETH

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Those pretty teeth you lee in the advertisements did not just happen. says Dr. Richard Bolt, Di- rector of the Cleveland Health Association, and noted child spe- clallst

Tlhe foundations for good teeth are built. before baby is born.

The tooth buds begn to a/ppear a5 ‘early as the sixth week of pre- Inatal life. Therefore the expectant ‘mother can do something about. assurin her baby of a good start in the gooth business by having the proper nourishment while she is carrying the baiby. . It is a fact that breast-fed babies have better teeth amd dental arches than those (ed artificially frcrn birth. Even a few months of breart feeding seems to give the baby a. better chance. ' Teeth are formed front elemental in the food. principally calcium and phosphorous salts foinzd in mllk,] eggs and vegetables. If the diet is deficient in these. the child may grow defective teeth which readily succumb to germs always present in the mouth. Use of the jaws in chewing food ls the best. exercise! for developing healthy teeth. As soon as teeth come through the gums. if at all possible, mother should take the baby ‘.u the rlentlst and see him every six months to

lned for earliest signs of decay.

Some of the infectious diseases of children may affect proper de- velopment of children's teeth. Pits, fissures and thin enamel often are found in the teeth of children who have one cf these diseases ln the first few hours of life. Therefore. . after the child recovers front such ti? illness, let your dentist examine

m.

When the teeth finally come through. other conditions enter which may need attention If the child ea-ts much sticky. refined sugar, and t-he pits and fissures of his teeth are covered with plaques of bacilli. decay is almost certain to occur unless the teeth are prop- erly) cleaned and scalei periodical- ly y a dentist.

Derav begins early. and by the time children enter sdicol. from 50 to 75 per cent of them have some form of dental defect. In manv cases the first decays lead to abscesses at the roots and loss of teeth.

This sad cmnrrientaiy on our lack of care for children's teeth may be brightened by closer co- operation between mothers. dentists and puhl": health officials C:m- munlty dental clinics for needy

i ‘I! do much to remedy

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For Tuesday. June 10th

MARCH 21 to APRIL 20 (Aries) -_Mars and Uranus are in favorable aspects to the moon during this ant. auguring for success along unusual lines, rcr lnvcntlﬂtls and other creative efforts. P M. es- pecially’ favors gains in industrial and others impzrtant matters. Heart interests ln second place

APRIL 2i to MAY 20 (Taurusb- Definitely a day for benefits through clever management cf your affairs and" novel methods for en- hancing and improving the qual ty of your out-put. Sound investments sponsored,

MAY 2l to JUNE 21 (CKHIIHIL- Before 9 am. and after 11:80 this evening. be most careful not to

enter into new propositions or cun- tracts without carefully investigat- ing them. The remainder cf the

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day favors advancement in general lines or endeavor and important constructive issues.

JUNE 22 to JULY 23 (Cancer)- Can be a gainful period under pro- gressive methods, competing with the latest in new devices and equip- ment and expanding to meet g.v- ernment and other important de- mands. Be alert, amblticus ,

JULY 24 to AUGUS’! 22 lI..e0)—— Excellent vibrations. You should be alive to the opportunities proffer- ed ln many disguises now. llcmazn practical. however. and do not go too far out on the proverbial limb.

AUGUST 23 to SEPTEMBER 23 (Virgo) - Many new ways evident today for making lasting profits and advancement. Step away from those hold-you-back tendencies. Give your talents and really fine capability room to expand.

SEPTEMBER 24 to OCTOBER 23 (Libra) — Specialists in indusq try. mechanics, building trades. tool-making. carpentry. chemistry ' and mining favored. Don't strain mentally and ycu should enjoy a productive day,

OCTOBER 24 to NOVEMBER 22; tscorpioi - Very oppzrtune for our unusual talents. Executive I ‘ility. handling difficult situations

tn finesse. cutting red taipe to get

iickly to the important issues.

Jtse are values that will be help-

. ful today. Favorable for YOUR advancement.

NOVEMBER. 23 to DECEMBER 22 (Sagittarius) — You can either develop new ideas and inventions with excellent results today or start on new projects. Much can and should be accomplished, e5- peclally 1n urgent matkers. Persznal interests, romance, seclals also highly favored.

DECEMBER 23 i0 JANUARY 2i (Capricorn) — You may have to forget financial returns but don't lose sight of the opportunities and fresh advantages offered this con- structive. day. Benefits through superiors and frcm our own efforts.

JANUARY 22 to FEBRUARY 20

1 (Aquarius) - "-1- ~ Early our. ~especlally advises against worry and walstln

[time on unesaeutin s. Balance o day receptive to wort‘: while en-

| deavors. Land, produce, manufac- turing government netessities and needed commodities highly favored.

FEBRUARY 2f to MARCH 2 (Pisces) -- Clerk. secretary. book-

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Can Dreams iForeshadow

Events in the Future?

Know Psychology of Dreams

What mysterious things dreams are! There's the case of the girl who dreamed she was marrying a strange dark-haired man with kindly gray eyes. Some months later she met such a man and actually mur- rled him.

Was her dream forecasting the future? Not. exactly, say psycholo- gists. But it does show how sub- conscious desircs and emotions are revealed by our dreams. Subcon- sciously she had formed a picture of her ideal mate. the man in her dreams. Naturally, when she met such a man she married him.

Even dreams that seem foolish may tell you vital truths about yourself. Do you toil up endless ladders in sleep‘! You have em- bitlons. but you harbor a secret, paralyzing fear. they won't be realized.

To dream of taking a journey may indicate a desire to get out of an unpleasant situation. Dreaming

~of n judge or jury may mean you feel guilty about some action, fear social disapproval.

Many such significant dreams are explained In our 32-page booklet. Discusses dreams and the subcon- aclous mind from the scientific standpoint. Tells how to read dream symbols. relate them to personal

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A CHILD BORN 0N THIS DAY will be outspoken. just. industrious. cheerful, but inclined to impetucs- ttv and wanting its own way too often. Exucttng of other: but not always of sell. 0f the intellectual group with great possibilities for o.

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