OMEN

Page 8 The Guardian.

Thursday, Sept. 1, 1955

ELLEN'S DIARY

By An Island

lrrnirlitvnly to bring our season of harvest at .-lldcrlcn nearer. the caniast-s were taken down from I rlmei under old eates today and repaired. thoiigli the binder re- mains still in storage. Hui locusts raspcd their sensoiial tune. gossa- mer floated. zind ihc harvest-haze in tints oi tiolei veiled softly the far hills.

Looking 'lini'k altiiig "We had a busy da). though we didn't set-rri to accniiiplish much viork” James said.

'lilici'e itas a shippiiig out of ntrttltetahltt lltigs in the iiitiritiiig. not innm ii is true. lllll odd ones to xii :i',':itit.st the hariesi-Iuinc hl'ttIl'.'lll in. the extras needed in the auiiti;-il seriiciiig ill the binder and thc store-teed iihich in every

the hours.

Icawn i-tunes in supply in the Wtttzeries it keeps mothers and siiizill onus t-niitciil. ueziiiliiigs grnwiiig ihrttiili. hogs faltcnitig. in the c.tcl:- of that hiisliandry which has in-en ever ati integral part of our fariiiiiit: It nas a day

uhich r-mtiaiiir-rt a spell of fencing.

a day tor t isits of livestock blt)t"r.x and salcsniaii as vicll. . . I broken. bust but on the tvhiile

qiiile s'Zllikl)'il1).1 day to the farmers coiiceiuii-il

The aroma of pl'L'.NDI'lES in the making lingered about the door of ilie "tilts? across the Lane. Plum? VP-E laiilttii its place in the season- like strait berries which belting with cliiiers and roses. this is bound up with hollyhocks blossoming. and dahlias and golden glow. with liarrcst-fields beckoning and stint- mcr days drawing in at the dusk.

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Fnrmer's Wife

And fullness and I vague feeling of sadness. or it is onlyl a sol- cmnity" titer the farmlands. Tlicre too among a number of visitors of kin. I wee lad. I sturdy. pretty chap tried out new words and walked about on steps no

more than a week old. to Grand- tEdlll1 was tiio months pregnant -1 land but for this situation we cerw

daiighierls interest and delight. This was grand-nephew to Jeanie who with his parents is leaving presently this land of birth tn make for theniselves it new home and life in an eastern State to the South

''I'm not too fond of liabiesf Mack confided. stepping off to the liarns "I'd rather kittens. wouldn't you'''

llis sltIt'k of these was added to in a happy surprise this after- noon when R secretive mothcr-cat 0' HIP Dlace hruiighi for the first

time her trio of it-cal.-' from smitt- iindiscovered nook of birth about. tn play in the sun at an open barn-door.

”l caiill liettcie Ill) eycsl"

llrlai-L smiled his delight above the active ireasiire-trove Then B momentary shadow descended ”I guess." his voice was sober, ”six altogether wont be too many to keep W a good nian.V moiisers. can't we? And id say from the look of them

311- ”l9)"T? ROIHIZ to be fairly smartf. . .Nice little fellows. arenit lhP)".' he cuddled one lovingly l

allainst I young cheek. ”The best yet, I'd say!"

And this day with September now come? Preciuiis and good. Until Tomorrow. Diary Good-night

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ELI! lAWoI!l'I -I-A Young Couple Meet

In Mental Hospital Need Reacliustment

DEAR MARY HAWORTH: Since coming here from England last autumn. my wife and I have sought comfort. in the midst of our dif- ficulties. by reading of others pro- blems in your column. We met as patients in I psy- chiatric hospital in England - to which country I had gone in I951. at the age of. 20. seeking I don't know what. Although the pairing- ioff of patients seemed to be frown- ed on. for some reason our com- panionship never came under fire during group discussions.

Our marriage. which took place

a year ago - on the day we left lthe hospital - was graced by I pleasingly large attendance of staff members and fellow patients.

italnly wouldn't have been married. lnr even out of the hospital. Sllflll.

EMO'l"l().VAI. RIFT DISTURBS iB(lTll p Now we have a line baby 5""

aiul olicn cuiigrtitulale ourselves on

this and other aspects of our pro-!

gross ii-gctiier. We love each other

and want to mnke a good marriage.

anti have more children; but the big prohlcni. more recently. is that Edith finds lovemaking intolerable

4 anti l liectinic iiiorose when re- hiiltt-ti

We are both aiixioiis to viork lhro-icli our dtlticiilties and this letter is a joint project Having

been together in a hospital where trctiiincnl is by group discussion. up kiinti a great deal about each otlit-i".s pziisi. Our family situations had much in common: botli iitiliappy at home: but each lof us had one comforting relation- ship - - she with it brother, I with 8 sIslPl'. I may say. for myself at least. there is a great deal of; "'tran.sl'ei'eiice" feeling in my mar- riage: in fact. I frequently use my sister's name in addressing my

wife.

My histui')'. li'dt'liciilarly during 18 months otciusens before going to the hospital. makes an ugly tale of In - it.V and irr - '- bilily. Edithls entanglements were homosexiial during four years he-

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Millet-Deighan Vows Exchanged

ln Ceremony

St. Peter's Cliiircli. Toroiilti. iitisl the setting for a siiiiinier Vl('(l(llIlL! on July 9. I955. nhcn Susannc Ernestine Ilcighan. daughter of

Mr. and Mrs. EFIIBSI l)cighau. PILL. bccniiic the

fure She me. me " at which time ihride of Mr. Flovtl T .IlilleI sun oi

lshc was 20, anti 1 22. We shall be pinto;-osinil in your advice: also in lany books you may rect)inm;nIi:)l.y

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I)l'1.-Ht II It You and Edith need twofold help. to work thrntiith "19 eiiiottonal block having '0 fl" Wm! .her recent (Ylftlplllslt! tanrl under- standnhlet recoil from married lovemaking.

First. you need the illumination inf mutual insight into the anxious. infantile. angry and injured mean- ings of your implicit "demands" and her implicit "i'efusals." Such tinsighi would tend to promote in both of you a splid advance emo- tional growth towards stability. maturity and unselfish cooperation.

i Second. you need to merge your .

married companionship into the fabric of community life - to be- come part of I healthy social give- and take. in ivhat we might call a "respiration" of larger interests tthan simply yourselves. This move ptowards community relatedness leads out of the ittale confines of morbid personal preoccupation: and static emotional frustrations. 11! brings fresh current: into your lthniighl-feeling: and has much the same tonic effect on spirit Iii fresh air and sunlight have on bodies. Much Is Edith may value your allegiance aml attachment. and much as she may cherish her son. the neurotic elements in her per- sonality Ire sorely aggrieved and affronied tiinconscioiisly It lP,8Sll by the "trapped" character of her necessitous marriage to you. Al- lhoiigh she may concede, riiefully or gratefully. that you behaved magnunimoual, in sharing respons- ibility for the child. still. she feels t I say ”fecls"l that you are "to blame."

EACII COMMITTED CONCERN

l Thus to Edith - h her con- tinuing half-sick emotional Itate. with her ...ychologi ' functioning

-still more childish than Idult -- yoiw lovemaking connotes injury and penalty to per. brute selfish- ness in you. etc. She "feels" thll, without plumbing or voicing It - iind shrinks lnvoiiintnrily from your embrace, stony with unconscious

defensive resentment.

Her adolescent homosexiial hiiui indicates In Ilirly ingrained fear- flxntion In regards male inten- ptlons; and concomitant uiireIdi-

ties: to progress confidently into fully nerlged womanhood. Now. in relation to you. that old over- whelming fcar-fixatinn has become re-Ictiviitcd. tempo utly. But this time. let'ii hops insight or deep

- understanding will dissolve it per- manenfly.

Your mornse reaction to 'ldith': symptomatic difficulty means ynii are hurt - smIrting with I child- ish sense of outraged injustice to i state of miter darkness. As if you'd been pushed Iitide by your mother. on I tiresome little boy. when you wanted reassurance of one never-falling love. To help yourselves: 1. Resume psychiatric Solllolll in your present environ- ment. 2. Find metal Ind religious fellowship through church worli or I 10011 nrlyer group. I. Read "The Helllng Mght" :MIcIiatiter Park)

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10 DELI"

by Agnes Sanford. . . Mary Haworth cniinuln through her column. not by null or per- sonal interview. Write her In care of The Chnrlottetown Guardian.

HOUSEHOLD HINT

nrnlui and ct-Icka around the dues of your linoleum. If not re- paired ll time. can prove quite lugcrouo II heel catch .. nII Ilso nerve ll tlepooftorloa for .wIfcr that will eventually rat the i underside of the linoleum. To re- pair the damage. melt Ionic Inl- lttg war of I color to match the ltnolecvn. run it carefully into the brunt: Ind smooth it flat before n&.

lMr. and Mrs. Merton Milleit. Wolf-

villc. NS. Fathcr Mt-.tl:ilian cele- bratcd the nuptial mass and per- formed tlic cercnioiiy.

Special music by the St Boy Choristers was under the dir- ection of Rt Rev J. F iloiitiii. (',hoirin.'isIer 'lllic nuiiilicvx stint.- were Cesar Fraiit-k'.s ”ll:nii.x -tnizrl ioiis” iiiitl Racli (1nniit-d'- ”.lic Maria". Vlr Ai'tnsii'nni; was thi- nrga ist Red and white ('.'ll'l'liIlltIns adorned the altar

Given in niarringc by licr brotlivr. Stanley llctgliaii. the hrulc clum- 1 ivalix length gniin of iihitc nci .wlih long train and lace it-ii iicr

lll('B(ltlrf'.K'- was coriiiict .sl)l0. cin hroidered in pearls ller bouquet was red rows and nhitc cziriitit

ions centered by white plumes

The bridcsniaid was tlr.- I-'.ditli Milletl. sister of the hridt-. Slit- wore not over sniin iiitli inatctiiiig cape and hat llcr bouquet was red roses and yellow carnations centered by yellow plumes.

The best man was Mr Clarkin

The tveddiiig ri-t-cptioii was held in the Mayfair Room at the Flin-

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C Kegping JewleQIlr7BrtQhiWTy

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Pearls. especially the ciilturci variety, are becoming more pop ular. are more in demand. each season. A string of good cultured pearls is a prized posscssioii and. like all prized possessioiis is en titled to care and attention.

Pearls should be kept clciin. warmth of the human body en hances their luster. they should be worn as frequently as possible not left in that velvet-lined box for ”hesl." Keeping pearls locked

ELEANOR ROSS

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In Toronto

ton lloii-l uitli Slit giicsis present.

'l'lic lliiiis Kiiutiiiiin trio played

sclt-cliiiiis 'l'liit toast to the bride

was proposed by Mr. Lorne Keefe to nliicli the giooin respoiidcd Thel lhrcc-tier ivedding cake itas cut inl the trntlitioiizil inzuiiier ii)" the liridcl. land grtioiii.

Alter the ticdtiilti: rt-coptioii the bride and groom were entertained at the liunie of 'l.lr. and illrs. Keith .MilloIi irlicrc the wedding gifts

ling was spent in music and danc- int:

'l'lu- iwtili nods it-Ii on A trip to (tit.iun. t)nt.'ii'iv The bride's riotiig mini co-.iiirnr inns 3 black illltl wlulc nriiu-on style dress

with hat and accessories to match.

llv and llrs llilleti will reside in Toroiiin ivlterc the groom is A hrickl:i)'r-r nitli Ilillcti cniitriictors IIONORHI) AT SIIOWHRS

Hrs 'llillcii tins prcsciitcd before her mi "ice with an electric kettle and clock by her lFlltlll' wni'i:t-rs in the T ll. Priiiiint.' Press Co. and Mix Ilrliili Millctl entertained at a shutter for her.

(llll-tllrltnln gticsis prt-sciit were hlr and llrs. Lorne Kecfe.(inoks- villc. Ontzirio. Mr. and Mrs Ralph llarldcr. Vi" lllan.. Mr and Mrs lrinc. (litniva. f)iil;irio: .' hlcrtoii Millctl and ldautzlitcr l.iiid:i. Wolfville. V S.

Mr Buriiie and Dickey Yilillett. Wolfyillc. N. S.

up in a jewel ho). witlioiit air In long periods of time will dull thent tPPl.Y l'ERFl'3VlII

If you are ivt-iiriiig pt-rliiinc. llI'lfl put ii tlali on your neck. give .ilie .'il'ttlIfll tune to evaporate he-

fovc donning the necklace. The lBl('itll(tl content of perfume. while in the liquid state. is distinctly

hiirmftil to delicate pearl surfaces. : Give the string an occasional going over. uipiiig it gently with 8 soft. sliulilly dzinip cloth.

SPICE

like new freon? Try Shirriff's I-lonoy Spica . . . the first "milk and honey

spice cake mix.

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Simple Recipe

"Many new ways .to cook chicken are being released. talked and written Ibout." I wu telling the Chef. "In these recipes the chicken in variously combined with almost every imaginable ex- otic seasoning. tropical fruit or unusual vegetable." CONVERSATION PIECE

"Some of these new chicken dishes may be good for service It I party to make what you call I conversation piece." he replied. "But as ll gourmet, Madame. I prefer simpler methods that bring out and enhance the fine natural flavor of the chlcker es- pecially for family service.

"In my opinion. iChickc te Brcsse' in an outstanding ix- ample."

Chicken dc llresse: For 6 per- sons. order 3 (2 lb.i all-purpose chickens. split and dressed. Wash. dry. dust with Zki tsp. salt. H2 tsp. monosodium glutamate and V4 tsp. pepper.

Rub a

large shallow casserole

stringing that is periodically nec-

lessary. entrust the task to your jeweler.

Pearls in bracelets and pins. siiicc thcv do not touch the wearcrls skin. should he rubbed briskly over the palm of the hand at least once I week. IMITATION PEARLS

Imitation pearls should receive

the same careful treatment if they are worthy of being worn. Wipe them occasionally with a slightly damp cloth. and have them restrung once in a while. i Costume jewelry and mount- ings with stories fastened in place

with glue should never be im-l mersed in water. They should bel carefully wiped with I slightly damp cloth. Boll. DIAMONDS

Diamonds set in engagement and wedding rings lose their sparkle. when they Ire allowed to

get dirty. It in safe to boil them if care In taken to do I proper job.

Place I piece of cloth at botlont of I small pan Ifler it has been filled with soapy water. Put the ldiamond jewelry on the cloth and let water come to I boil

Peter's were opened niid an eninyahlc cven- 1, very slowly. Allow the water to

llbnil until the Jewelry iii freed of lall collected dirt. Then rinse thnroiiglily in warm water and dry with I lint-free cloth.

PROFESSIONAL . CARI."

Here again. it is best to have your jeweler take citire nf yniir precious jewelry. giving it. the attention. the proper buffing itnd professional cleansing that only he can do. Such it check-tip iguards against the loss of loose- nod stones. since he checks mount- l ings at the time of cleaning. Colored gems have i have more ygentle treatment. they can't take I cooking. The sapphires, rubies. emeralds. amelhysls and such go nicely into warm soapy water. trike I rinsing In hot water Ind then get a polishing with tissue paper or a lint-free cloth. But avoid any irapid water temperature changes. since these may cause stones to crack.

at nm. ,Ind wcIrIitouL Id be tanned with

lost crumb

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Out Flavor Of Chicken

3' 11. galley Alla.-

Bdngs

very. generously with butter. In It, arrange the chicken skin-side up. the pieces not touchin . Pour over 1-3 c. melted butter.

Cover and bake 35 min. in a hot oven. 400 degrees F. or until golden brown and fork-lender.

SUNDAY DINNER Tomato Aspic Saladcttes Chicken de Bresse Potatoes Rissolee Buttered Carrots Spinach

Half-Frozen Applesauce Cream Hot or Iced Coffee or Tea Milk

Western Rainbow Bowl: Line a deep dish or salad bowl with crisp green iceberg lettuce and ro- maine Heap with a rainbow mix- ture ut' cantaloupe. watcrinclon and honeydew balls. Add rings of chilled cantaloupe and fingers of ripe banana. i

Serve with a dressiiig made ofl slightly sweetened and lightly salted fresh lemon or lime juice. I

TOMflKROW'S DINNER

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Back in the news for Fall

' i ii): butter and 1 tbs finc MM news” clown ' i i ' l .49” I clgacker icriimbs Serve lin howls. ""910?" cl-("HES - - - .59” top with minced parsley. famu-Imudv "FLEQ1 STREET" CLOTHES '69”

New England ('lam Soup i Shrimp-Egg Salad Platter Potato Chips Corn-on-Colt ,

The man tailored look by Tip Top Custom-tailored for you alone In exciting British fabrics

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Western Rainbow Bowl illot or Iced Coffee or,Tea Milk l New England (llaiii Soup: Heati 1 1 I105 oz.I can minced clams and their juice in I c. ivatcr. Meantime, melt 2 tbs. butler. stir in 3 tbs. flour. '1 tsp. each salt l and munosodium glutamate and 'i l lsp.. pepper. Stir iintii sinoolli gradually stir in a (ll. of hoiiiogeiiiw . ed milk. Cook and stir until boil-l

ii Add the claims and liquid. stir

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