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THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIANW"

Whﬂi 1s V Finds Men S

A Man ' A d Women

A a... Dorothy Dix 3.... ... Ll-Iusband? I Judgments

'A Vast Chasm Separates lllaifs and Woman’s Idea of a Good Husband —- To the Man, it is Spouse Who Brings Home the Bacon; to the Woman, the One Who is Loving, Tender and Sympathetic

\\‘h:\: f-LF-lfl husband‘! 'l‘herc is no subject upon which men and wotiitn differ mote rutlirztlly than tipon u-hztt each considers the ideal qllilllllt‘: thui ll husband should jiossess. 'l‘h:tt's the reason there are so many bewildered husbands and disappointed and disgruntled wives.

A mun thinks he is a good husband when he provides for his wife, and, if he tiiroivs in a fciv ziutoinobiles and diamond suiibtirsts and things, hi; swells out his chest with self-right- eousness, and thinks she should be burning toss sticks to Lady Lurk for having bestowed him tipoit her.

llc niitjv be cold ti: an electric refrigerator. lie may be as grouchy and irritable as a sore- headed bear. He may be a petty tyrant. who

keeps his wile" in trembling feat‘ oi him. Ho may be so slirigy that. she ‘has to ctvlascrcu' carry jicnny out of hiin, but as long as he feeds and clothes hr!" and keeps a roof ovci‘ her hciitl he considers that he is a good husband.

Other men colloids-r they tn-c good husbands because they are moral. qpcy (1011 ,,1,,i>1;._ ~ - -. tl-"itk. 'i‘he_v don't philander. They llll‘8 homely and Dﬁitlt‘ aged SlplliblCfS for stenograjihcrs instead of bcauicous blonds flap; . They punt-h the home time clot-k exactly on the (to: cvcry tvvciniig. Tilt‘; nevcr stcp out to any place of amuse- ment after d iner and tlllllf are sure that their wives must regard them ' as the aiisxir-r ‘o tlicir ])l‘.i'~ arr» ioi" inodcl husbands.

i-"rs .s if they acre mere hmlsellttld conven- z or self-regulating cook stoves. instead of r done anything since their wedding days to

lie tactuim cl 'i‘hey linvt 1e.

THE COOK’S ' CORNER

Apricot Jelly Squnfgg

l1; cups dried apricots

‘i cu pgelatine

1 cup cold water

2 cups sugar

3 titblcspoons lemon juice

'2 teaspoon III-lid

Cook apricots 40 minutes and mash them through a sieve. Soak gelatiuc in cold water s. few minu- tes to soften, then ado sugar, lemon JUlCC and riiid. and boil gently 20 minutes. Renioic troin heal, udil apricots, mix thoroughly, and cool. Pour into a shallow pan lined with waxed DBjlEl‘ turd allow to set over night. Reinuvc from pan, peel of: paper, cut into squares. Roll in pow- dered sugar. T1115 candy must be kept in a cool place.

Fig u inger Candy,

l cup dried figs

‘i cup candied gliigrl

i; cup brown sugar

i tablespoon butter

l cup granulated sugun

"i cup thin cream

01' evaporated iiiiJl-z

1 teaspoon vanilla

1 cup seedless Xlllblll‘

Boil ﬁgs 5 minutes, t. \.. and cut or chop. Wash off stlgiti‘ ..o.n cand- ied ginger and cut into wry small pieces. Combine the sugars with the cream and ﬁgs; cool-t to 4 degrees F. (Soft: ball stage). Reroute from fire, add butter and \.‘!llll'rl, cool slightly. tlicn beat uni.‘ creamy. Add raisins and ginger. lint-ad and shape into a loaf. Slice as needed.

to sivc them pleasure, and when their wives 1 with them they are justvas responsive as ttnd for all that, they never have a doubt tune-ribbon prize in any good-husband show.

that ‘hr; would take r31:

One of the things that men grow most sarcastic about is the tint-en.- sortable Etllfild" -'l..t zvonzen take toward. their husbands. They can't tinder-stand w so often u ivoinan is a perfectly reconciled widow when she loses r» ha. Ptl who has been a model of all the virtues and a lead» ing church member and an example in the community, while another vsoinati will break her heart. over the loss of some poor, weak, faltering husband who drank too much and whom. she had to take in boarders to flpf-‘urr.

B l‘ fill‘. uoiiiztn could tell them that; the exploitation lies in the dif- ferent standards that men and women have as to what. constitutes a good husband. and that very often the best men are the meanest husbands. while frequently an indifferent. man is a good husband.

A n-titnuns idea of a. good husband includes, of course, his being a reputable citizen and a man able to support his family in decent comfort, for all of that is part of his being a. real man with strength and intellig- ence and energy and force. But ivivcs are not overcome with gratitude to their husbands tor providing them. wiih- bread and butter and ralment. Theymntwsiclet- that. they earn thon- own board and keep by the sweat. of their hrmvs and 1hr lilllOY o‘. their liaiitls in making their husbands‘ lwrncs and roaring their Cilllflrtil. Neither Ls a pearl necklace a satisfactory sub- stitute for everything clsc in life to a. woman, though plenty of husbands seem to think it is.

A woman's idea of a good husband, then, is the man who possesses the common. or garden, variety of domestic virtues and. in addition, re- mains a lover. A man who doesn't expect his wile to be a mind reader who will know that he still loves her, although he hasn't. mentioned the fact for for-tyyc-ars. and never notices her looks or what she has on any more than if he were blind.

No, the man who comes up to a woman's requirements of a good husband is one who shows his wife in every way that she grows dearer to him all the time; who is always doing little things to make her happy even if it is no more than bringing her a S-cent bag of peanuts‘, who pays her cnmplimciits and members anniversaries and knows her taste and her size ll\ gloves and stockings, and who generally makes her feel that; she is the most important thing in life to him.

And a woman's idea of a good husband is the man who understandsl her and Fyllllliltlllﬂfi; with her. and who knows why she cries when she is happy, and why.- shr- goc: on a shopping orgy when she is sad, and who takes the iroulalc to manage her in a way that leaves her all puffy and happy l'.l"»'f‘l\'l oi irritated and mad.

only hr- iciidei- and kind and loving to his wife and tell .. z out i1": llTtV, and that she is the ‘only woman

. i litml. her and starve her and she will gladly ‘ti-w honor. for hiin and think he is the best husband DOROTHY DIX.

hot "mt il ill Illi- uurli li-"r fury"... In

she had tritrl on pnzr after pair flat and low. They make me look Ind found swine foul: with ihcrn alLpo m-nsible.

you mind, if the

With a pair of POllSPTVHIlYP- black: Hui. why should cnlf-sll. ll oxfortis on slit‘ turwerl licﬂtritrre wally not? comforted tr'm feet lll the HHITOI‘ and sighculjwersplnng salesman. with tllﬁllpptihllilvltl. But that's just it, comrplamed

‘it's the lire“ sll" :~J (l. they've soiilir- hnratrsserl lady. You see. I am. _. . ‘f. ‘ ... >. """""

“pour DISK CHEAP

,,. ammo POWDER wot“ AND EXPECT os- ga-l“ PENDABLE RESULTS."

SAYS MISS HELEN G. CAMPBELL “'“”'L'"°"'" 171791-11" OI line Chatelaine Imlltull

MAGIC

—coats not quite 1/‘ of a cent more per baking than the cheapest inferior baking powdoru, “by not use this ﬁne-quality baking powder and he sure of’ satisfactory results?

' "UINTAINS M) R LU“ .“ This ‘lllvmrnt rm every

white skin. Slice the oranges fairly

ONION-FRUIT SALAD CRISP

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Hitler

W/lien A Baby i

This is a picture of a man who controls the dost-lny of a mighty nation. as he appear d when he was not quit: one year old. Do you think this photo is prophetic of the figtrc he has become? The DiBWYB is ore. of Ado? Hitler, who was burn ll'l i889. His father was a cus- toms ‘official on the Austro-Bavar-ian frontier.

If you belong to thin guy crowd of savour-lovers who are devoted to Spanish union sandwiches. Mexican eggs, and the like, you will ﬁnd this a most intriguing salad combina- t-ion:

Peel two good-sized oranges deep- ly, so as to remove every vestige of

FZFZ ’I‘I~IEQ

om upturn;

or a deep rose pink for your table

thinly. Cut half a Spanish onion into thin

slices.

AITBllBC the orange and onion slices on crisp lettuce mid serve with very best I-‘rench dressing.

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r‘ ‘Armament it be acut, a bruise, sprain, burn or scald, Zam-Buk provides the handles! and auras: means to quick, perfect healing. it le from certain valuable herbal extracts that Zam-Buk gets it: power to subdue palm and inﬂ nnljﬂll, its germ.

destroying activity and m“ akin-growing property,’ Zarn-Buk is splendid (or

decorations. i am sefn at your dimer: if I were Quite a pretty idea- ls to embroi-

Personal -:-

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world, that's your liver which isn't daily two pounds of ’

water. laxative candy or roughage, tlonlt go for eno

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pons ble for the standing collar.

The modern version of the stand-

ing collar is a "collar" in name on- lw-upstanding bands o! braid, fur or folds of fabric rezch acres from shoulder to shzuler and do their fencing with necklines merely as a. foil to accentuate shudder width. CUIWED LIN"

"Curved is the line of beauty“- ﬂlld scalloped detail follows the curve of beauty for new gloves.

Scallop outlines in the shape of cuffs may require just two big coal- lopa to complete their amutness or may go in for a long line of little scallops. Scallops are nqt oonfirwd to cuffs, however. They also furnish stitching motifs for 'up and down the back of the glove in rippling color contrasts-

DROPPED SHOULDER LINES

Dropped shoulder lined for oven- ing, baring the shoulders yet; cover- ing the upper arm. are vezy courtly and iorninl in feeling. The "sleeve" is achieved by puffs or folds which give a broadentd lllle in keeping with the square shoulder stlhouetts Narrow shoulder straps enhance the burcd shoulder effcct, which is very feminine and flattering.

QUHIYING

This idea did not onginats at

quilting ivally is very smart on collars and cuffs and pephms. It.

squares off sailor's collars too.

You l|VER’S mums YtlU FEEL out or StlllTS

Wake up your Liver Bile _ -—No Calomel needed

When you feel hluc, dcprMﬂPd. sour on the

“Hi8 ll liquid bile into yo‘?! buwdll.

Digutiou and elilnlnltion no bdug ﬂowed o-sayln; land!

up. food is impumulstiug and d you and [liking you feel wretched.

Mere bowubmovsrs like ultmgail. minus] chewing gum. at

ueh. ‘nu need a liven utimullnt. Cl-rinr‘! Litl-ll Liver Pills is the belt. one. Sela. Pauly vege- table. Sure. Ask for them by mine. Behue “indium. 2st. n. all drunim. s:

not there der- g set, of dinner mats in peiit.‘ But meanly provided your meal point. on finest green canvas. would Hill-tear. choosing some quaint old English‘ You sedom invite me to coffee or degigm- floral or scenic-in which

tea; there can be wormed the harmony. ‘But never. I'm sure. take water or colors which particularly suit without int- your other table iitinents.

Cheese will not become dry if wrapped in musln which has been spﬂnlied with vinegar.

Answer: A (liars tumbler.

PUZZLE YOUR FRIENDS

tiers is a trick with match box- ‘vgmgy 135115133 9513555 N53,. cs wwh which you can puzzle your VQUS INDIGESTION irirnds- a. lot. Four boxes are re- - quvsed. three of which are empty.’ Those diseased states which the and t-he other with a few matches mind could, cure are just, those m it. The box containing the mat- kinds of states the mind might ches is fixed to your arm with a. came, Tllbbel‘ band or tied with thread.| Nervous indigestion can be pre- Take care that this box is well hirl- vented by the mind because the den by your sleeve. llmind brought it on. The bad habits Place the three empty boxes in of facial twitching or slammering. font of you and ask tour friends my, be cured by the patients \\"lll

chapped hnndnfrost-blteshil- blalns, etc. Get a box to-dayl

EdMorningSmila

BYIS OF HUIHOR.

‘The big-game hunter, just. back from India, was telling his wife about an exciting encounter with a. tiger, and how he had ﬁnally made his kill.

"Yes." he said. "it was s case oi the tiger or myself."

His wife looked up at him proud- ly and exclaimed, "I'm so clad ll. was the tiger, darling." 'l‘licn, 10ml.- ing down at the floor: “Oiltvrivtw we wouldn't have 11nd this lovcly rug." '

Pat went into a hospital for the first time, and, seeing one man, said. "What is the mutt/er with you?"

got to come off," said the man.

Seeing another man, Pat askcil him the same.

"I have got a bad leg, and its got to come off," said the man.

u" ll 70in luurentee elm Mule lhklna Powdn _lreelron llllmﬂlllllllﬂllllllﬂldhlj,

Pat. "I've got a cold in me heed.”

"l have got u bad arm. and til.‘

"This is no place for me," said

t0 wﬂilih GWEN)’ W11?" N011 $119k‘! because the patients will pennit- ‘them so that at the end they C1111 ted the habt to be fotrned and wc l tell which box contains matches. cu,“ break what, we ‘have made. iTwo of the boxes are shaken with] Nervm15 dyspgpsla, might just as i the hand which has nothing 0Y1 the well be called mental dyspepsia or lntm; the third box is shakrn with emotional indigestion, lfllt‘. hand which has the box of‘ Woyfy 0r bad news um in 59mg matches above the wrist. No one p-Qpje mp digestion in the sense will notice that you first use onelqf {Qndbflng feeble or aniillllillg hand and then the 01h"- Whﬂi i111 é the churning movements of the three boxes have been shaken eve- stomach ‘vhcmby the food is thor. ry one feels certain that they KHOW ‘oughly mixed with the gastric the one with the matches in itfjuimu You then show them that they ml But. even when the stomach mistake“ by 019911111! the b°X whim‘ empty. a. powerful and disagreeable is, of course empty. ,emotion can in a. "sensitive" per- You can do the tzick all over son hing on an attack of acidiity. Filo!" r/IVCYM ‘"1165 m"! "W59 ln the same way not completely much excitement emetic ivtiiljutitierstood the mental state work- friends, who naturally rwver sue- m; through the ngrvg that», governs ceed in imdlns the box with tlwhtne secretion of the juice can cause matches inside. a flow of the hydrochloric acid ————-i-—— which the glands of the stomach FUR YOUR. DINNER TABLE nqgnufngtjurg_ ~——— This emotional indigestion is en- tirely comparable viith a mrson weeping in a fit of grief, the emo- tion ln this ease expressing itself through the lachrytnal glands whereas in the dyspeptic it i5 through the gastric. Physiological- tions. ly the cases are closely talked. only some exoeedinzlv pretty 0M8 m we don't call weeping .1 <1 sense." shaped lke pansy or lily Petal-i Bi? -————-~~ the rdizcs, and it is possible to get thorn in a harmony of two ooior- incs. —-—~ Real lace mats always look iovelv Wa-istliinos are on thr- “mm-ct on the table, but. particularly rolThey curve upward for daytimr; when set over oid gold or silver IR- just a. bit above normal in 1mm,

Mats of pastel tinted organelle bring a very dainty note to the ‘dinner table, and you can choose ‘them in a color which is a pale lone of your table lamp shade, or of your candies and floral decora-

Wnsfblhhrs

v iii-cc. The glezmfng metal nnio land just a bit bclnw not-m,“ m ~ hllﬂlllfl link up of ooursv. with back. ‘some other dominant. note on the The curve grmvs mph-r “no,

I table. Where tlv: new china, witlrdark and very irauy approaches lsllvel‘ instead of gilt printing is us- the Empire line in front; but, n. t-tl. it. is charming to s=e the $11M _ mains quite sane and normal in the l oi silver tinder the fine lace of the back, l mat’. and you can than choose red All of which. of couise, has a very " ‘ W“ " "2 ' ' ‘ ‘M "Ysvtat the waistline I in lieu of diet. '

NECKLINES ' Necklines have been (ifpeplng up on us, and the current trend unward fashions of the i900‘; reminiscent

‘clliinbouedmokei-"wipﬂru,

Little» BOYI "Pﬂiw. there's an old man standing on the corner hold- ing out his basket and crying.

9 Half a century ago the annual [rcczelup was hailed with delight —at least as far as out’ door enjoyment went ——-and ta be able to ﬁgllftnikdlt with delv cut: grace was a social TEQHISIIC-

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"Qiuhtv Flue" we: the gﬁllt) adopted when the ﬁn: ‘f "i Suypvfu Snap was made in Si. Stephen, MB" 4") yems ago. ‘Hm vii: Inn mun been alter: .m 2h! quality liu ‘miivotrti with nivsncln

lvlvlulnlga, lupin; [incl wit modem vequirrmenls.

Fash ions ‘:-:- Literature

Aunt Dinrilrs Quilting Party-- but .

NOVEMBER 1o. 1

zfhe Obstinate Cougli Thai Keeps You Awake

It.’ tih l: that. ltlch‘ ti: thlt limp the to get rid o? the of‘: mdmthroet wrecking cough that. keeps you “uh a

‘yuot pt e bottle of Dr. Wood's None” Pb;

Dr. Wood's

s?!“ mdeeehow ui itwillleliovethil “BTW” condition. It loocogl diedliililegm, soothes the Pu‘. membranes, strengthen; the bronchial organs, when this _is done than is no more lying awake with syrup the toting cough.

m u i» h: _ ,- plwmnt. it‘ m; ‘art 't.i...il:-e':.'iia:.'£

Daintinou With iChic

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mo» shoulders and bII-lh Incl capture attention in this lovely black woolen dress. It has the moulded lines that give you un- i dreamed of slimneaa.

Similar schemes in rust, copper- ;glo, green brown or eel-gray are equally charming.

Black woolen with a gleam of gold metal in its weave with the yoke and scarf of self-fabric is ultra-smart for daytime wear.

Btyle No. 755 ls designed for sizes 14, 16, l8, 20 years, 36, 3B and 40 inches bust.

i It's very easily made and at. a very nominal cost.

81x0 16 requlrel 8% vtrds 89-inch material.‘ _

Price of PATTERN 15 eenlu m stamps or coin (coin l: preferred.) Wrap ooln carefully.

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N0. 755. S180 n

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Please give mo a dime for him." Unsuspecting Dad: “Hero you are son. What's he crying about?" Little Boy: "Balloons! Nice bal- loons. three for a dime."

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They “Bundled-up”

for Winter Sports . . . the days when Surprise Soap was ﬁrst made

° Until housewives learned, pearly 50 years ago, that Surprise Soap did a quicker wash with less work, the winter flannel! were a real wash-day problem.

° Surprise docs not waste away in water, but makes rich laetmg suds that reach and loosen every speck of dirt without the need of heavy' ﬂibbin . Soilcd gumentl of everyday wear no reviv into fragrant. gleaming cleanliness.

° Surprise Soap in thorough, but it acts so gently that even delicate garment! are never harmed in the least. _It| clean, wholesome smell is evidence of it: purity audit will always be found a long- laeting, economical lOlp.

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