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Don’t Try t0 Step Out With Your Philandering Husband, Reader Urges Middle-Aged Wives - Shall High-School Boy Let Girl Rush Him Into Marriage? 1 (_

Dear Miss Dix-There are so ma ny middle-aged women with hus- bands who pliilandcr. The usual advice given to the woman is to step out with the husband and keep up with him, but that is easier said than

~ done. Wherever the man goes he is surrounded by women who flatter him, hold his hand, and are glad to dance with him. But the young men do not hang around the middle-aged woman. She simply decorates the wall. My suggestion is that the wife find her own interests and amusements,’ Join a bridge club, make her home more attractive, keep in touch with her friends, go into church work or club work, make a life of her own. Women can overcome jealousy by activity, not by following in the line of foolishness. I. H.

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These are words of wisdom which every woman

who is unlucky: enough to have a. husband with a. wandering foot should

~ cut out and PASLC upon hcr mirror where she will see it every time she puis on her complexion and tries to understudy a flapper.

For, after all, and no matter how much we may kid ourselves, there is no way in which a. middle-aged wife can really keep up with a husband when he roams away from his own fireside. She may tag along when he goes out to disport himself among the young, but she is always an out- sidcr. She doesn't belong, and they do not take her in and make much of her as they do of him.

The prettiest young girls will make eyes and flirt with a bald, bay- windowed old man. They will flatter him, cajole him and dance with him, but no young mun, unless he is specifically hired gigolo, will ask a fat, grizulc-hcacll-il old woman to tread a measure with film. Nor will any youth, not even those ungrateful lads whom a woman has fed and week- ended and entertained times without number, ever feelcalled upon to martyrize himself by paying her a. few compliments and allttle attention.

So that's that, and middle-aged women would save themselves a lot of worry and anxiety: and boredom if they would only just accept the fact, and, as my coaresgondent suggests, turn their attention to more profitable lines of endeavor" than trying to keep step with hubby when his paths are not their paths. For, after all, the world is so full of a number of things besides men for women. Especially after they are huddle-aged. By that time the fires of romance have burned down to embers and they should be content to bank them and sit comfortably by, cheered by their warmth, and refraining from wearing themselves out in the futile labor of trying to fan them into a flame again.

It alavays seems to me that the greatest mistake that women make in trying to live their whole lives in the lives of their husbands and children. For this Cannot ‘o: clone and in the end it always leaves them brankrupt in happh It is n common thing to see a. bright, intelligent, well-educated woman snik herself completely in marriage. Before marriage she had a thousand interests. After marriage she had none except in her husband and children and home. She never has a thought nor an idea nor an interest that isn't. centered in them. She quits reading everything but baby boolc; and nuizsery rhymes. She gives up her friends. She never touches the piano. She gives up her singing or her painting or her acting for which she had such a pretty talent. She hasn't time for clubs. She gets out of touch with her day.

Perhaps the husband grows tired of her because she has become noth- ing but a rubh-r stamp, and he goes of! in search of more entertaining society. Perhaps ho is one of the men who is just constitutionally a woman chaser. Anyway", she loses him and she is left desolate because she has no resources within herself, no interests, no contacts, no friends, nothing to which to turn for solace and diversion.

Ccriaizfly and inc-vi r the woman who has lived only in her child- INS-L‘ ohlldrne grow up and marry and go about s of life for ‘themselves. Then, if mother has burned all of her

is nbsohrtelyr stranded on the rocky and barren For she has no interest in life, except in them, and

the busi ships behind her, s‘ shores of boredom.

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what love is.

and you will find that nearly every on very young. There is no truer saying than’ that

too weak to carry.

marriage, if you are foolish enough to

opportunities it offers you.

Don't let any girl rush you into a remainder cf your life regretting.

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young man can go places where married men cannot go. money that married men cannot save. He can take changes that the men with families dependent upon them do not dare to risk.

Consider the difference in your prospects of success in life that this

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attraction seriously, because there will be a dozen other girls that you will feel just the same way about before you are old enough really to know

Your tastes and judgment are still unformed, and if you marry this girl now you will be tired to death of her before you are grown and won- der what on earth you saw in her that made you think you admired her. Look about you at all the clever and attractive men with dull, stupid wives

e of them married when they were

"a young man married is a yoinig

man marred,” for marriage lays burdens on young shoulders that they are It blocks the doors of ambition for them.

A single He can save

make it, will make. If you stay

single, you have the benefit of a college education, tine profession and the If you marry. you must take a small job and be tied to it, with little chance ever to get ahead in the world. '

And think, also, of the injustice you _ your age you cannot possibly support a family, and as he cannot see you starve, he will have to take care of you and your wife.

will do your father, because _at

marriage that you will spend the DOROTHY DIX.

OLD (Cora. Lapham Hazard in the New York Times.)

I dreamed I was a. little child, And through the fields and forests wrild

I ran throughout the sliver day- A pause for breath and then away;

they have oiled (i'\‘.‘{l',' and left her, I he‘. i‘ t r"- 1v woman should live with the thought in mind that some (hi1; "he ‘will be left alone, and she should cultivate interests

and fad: and. ileoglle so that when her husband and children are gone she may still have something left that will make life worth living. DOROTHY DIX. I I O

Dear Dorothy Dix-I am a. high-school boy, will graduate in June. My college career has been planned by my father, who expectsme to be a lawyer. I have been going with agirl whom Iloveag-reat deal andwho has got me all excited and in a. flutter. I was an honor student but since I met her my school grades have declined like a. business chart in Wall Street. We are planning to get married, but this will spoil the plan which my fairer has made for me. It is the girl's idea that we should get married v. ithnvir. walling. It all seems like a dream, yet I thinkithat she is sincere. What should I do? RONALD. Answer:

‘Wake up from your dream and try to realize that you are two child- ren-who are playing with (lynmnlte.,D0n‘t wreck a promising life by let- ting a liLtle llutnc of yinssion blow your every chance of happiness and success to Kingdom Come, a

Can't you realize that you are an adolescent boy in whom the sex

instinct is just awakening and that any girl in the world can stir your ‘pulses and make you think that you are in love with her? Don't take this

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I dreamed this dream, and then I woke

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A NEW MAP DESIGNED

A birds-eye "view" of the Twin Ciifes is provided for blind persons in a new type of map desgned by a St. Paul, Minn., woman as an aid to the sightless. When Archie B. Erickson, Min- neapolis, a blind piano tuner, asked to be directed as he left her home, In. Leslie R. Felows learned there were no maps to guide the blind. With his aid she worked out a. map that can be "seen" by the sensitive fingers of those who depend on their sense of touch to guide them. Threads of varying ‘textures out- line main street car routes on the map they evolved. Dangerous rall- road and grade crossings appear as steel wires, rough areas denote parks and water and bridges like- wise are clearly deyg-nated.

AND NOW HAT PINS

1t seems that the pattern of the

webbing is so near the eye that it interferes with its focus-and so gives rise to headaches strain if the veil be persistently used.

and eye-

The ampler veils of Victorian ia-

dlea, I was told, were optically more hygienic. The true reason, I sus- pect. is'that, being from hat brim to chin, they re- mained eonstantly at the same dis- tance from the eye. modern variety is always moving to and fro.

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But doubtless any woman

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QUAINT EVENING BAGS

fashioned shined ruffles.

SAUDI! COLLAR!

collar, reminiscent of the

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BOXY JACKETS

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been telfng me a and story about the latelt paid to femlnfno fashion. The short - voila new worn by women, which half cover the face, are liable to

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Along with the 1800 evening frock, with railed shoulder lino and full, fluttering skirt, you can carry a chiffon evening bag with old-

Aiong with other fashions in- fluenced by the Gay Nineties comes a revival of the square back sailor middy blouse collar. Paris reports that new spring mats have flat fur oouars of

jacket dresses or separate one: . . . have a boxy outline resulting from square the shoulders. The jacket hangs from those yoke!

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omckau mousse

1 package quick-setting lemon

Jelly

a cups hot chicken ltock, free from fat

1 cup chicken, finely chopped

1 cup celery, finely chopped

1 pimenio, chopped

1 tablespoon vinegar

‘A teaspoon salt

Dash of cayenne

‘,5 cup cream

Dissolve jelly in hot stock. Chill. Combine chicken, celery, pimento, vinegar, salt and cayenne. When jelly is cold and syrupy, fold in cream, whipped until thick and shiny, but not stiff. Fold in chicken mixture. Chill until slightly thick- ened. Turn into mold. emu until firm, unmold on crisp lettuce. Ger- nish with stufleci olives, if desired. Makes 6 generous servings.

Lemon jelly gives salmon mousse a delightful tang. '

1 package quick-settim; lemon lly.

1% cups hot water

3 tablespoons vinegar

1 teaspoon salt

1 cup cucumber, diced, slightly

salted and drained

1 cup salmon, flaked

1/. cup mayonnaise

l5 cup cream, whipped

Dissolve jelly in hot water. Add vinegar and salt. Chili until cold and syrupy. Place in bowl of crack- ed ioe or. ice water and beat until thick and fluffy like whipped cream. Fold in remaining ingredients. Turn into mold, chili until firm. Unmold o ncrisp lettuce. Garnish withaddi- tional mayonnaise. Serves eight.

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“Whoever makes a. garden

Bus, Oh, so many friends!

The glory of the mornini.

The dew when daylight end!-

For wind and rain and sunshine, And dew, and fertile sod

And he who makes a garden, Works hand in hand with God."

No unateur need hesitate to tomatoes. Purchseed plants may be set out now and will thrive in al- most any soil if plenty of water ls given. The plants will need feed- ing, but a. good commercial fertil- izer will give about as satisfactory results as manure, * llv if a little bone meal beadded. An oc- casimal application of nitrate of sods after the plants have made considerable growth will help to push them along. teaspoonful of this fertiliur dug into the soil at the base of each plant will be suf- ficient. ‘Tomato plants should. be set fairly deep, and if they are long and spindly a part of the stem can be buried in a trench along with the roots.

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A BLUE DOSE

Two new roses that give promise of marking the greatest achieve- ment in rose miltum within recent years have been received from Eur- ope by the Department of Horticul-

in the test garden operated jointly by the Hose Bocetoy of Ontario and the (lollege to determine their suit- ability to Canadlon conditions.

The blue rose, General Stefanik, brings this color into the rose world for the first time. It was originated in cache-Slovakia, as the result of a cross between the hybrid perpetual la brillianie and an unnamed seed- ling. m its native country the bush is vigorous and blooms freely in 1 June and July, bearing very largo, double azure blue flowers on long stems. '

The result of tests with Golden llama. Perennial larkspurs sown in Dream, l. German introduction, will

ture, Ontario Agricultural College.- These novelties have been planted‘

Autriizngsmzz.

“Your husband has been ill," said the caller. v

"Yes," replied the little worried- looking woman, "he has been feel- ing very bad. 1 do my beat to please

“Is his condition critical?"

"It's worse than critical," she en- svmed with a sigh, "it's abrasive."

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Boss (at the ball game, with a hint of sarcasm): “I noticed in the paper that there were 30,000 people at your ‘sister's wedding’ yesterday."

onus Boy: "I couldn't be lure of the figure air, but sister was very popular."

also be closely watched u, at pres- ent, there are no climbing roses on the market having recurrent, gold- en-yellow, fragrant blooms.

Neither of these roses has, as yet, appeared in commerce on this eon- tlnent, but both of the ‘plants should be in bloom during Farm and Home Week (June 19 to 23) and will be seen by the hundreds who will visit the college at that time.

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Perennial seeds may be sown from now till mid-June, but the earlier they are sown the more certain will baadsplaynutyemmwofthe perennals bloom the first year from seed, the larlrspurs and platycogons being two which wiu give a. display from early Iowa need this year. HWWQI. the longer the growing season this year the larger and healthier will be the spikes of bloom next year.

While many perennials sown in Juneoreven as lateuJuly will give blooming plant: another year, only a portion of them will reach sufficient size to give characteristic display. The peaeh-leaved beilfiow- er is a popular perennial that must be sown early or it will wait two year: before giving a display.

Plants which may be sewn in June and July with the most certain prospect of bloom next you are the various hardy pinks and Ilflt wil-

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Gaillardiu are best sown as soon as the ground is workable.

Biennial:

The biennial! auab u the fox- EIUW- Canterbury bell, and chimney bell flower need a long season to make strong, healthy tufts. The height of thmspire of the foxglove ildependeutontlieliaeoftbem- seth of leaves it makes this year, so low it early.

Perennial poppies need an early start. and transplanting as soon as they have made two leaves to be- come bloomers another season. They must be moved when very small or they are almost impossible" to trans- plant without losing a large pg;- Wltlsv 0f them. The? must be caught before they have sent their taproot down too far.

Columbine: a-re best started now. Press the ground firmly over the seed and germination will be in- mmd and lauded up consider- ably.

FORD BUYS EDISON HOME

E1‘. ‘IHOMAB. Ont... June B-irhe old Edison homestead at Vienna, Ont, whore the world famous in- ventor, Thomas Alva Edison, spent

the summer: of his early youth. has been bought bv Henry W14- aocording to information received here. rt u reported the W!“ will be removed from its 11mm site and re-erccied in the W" historical settlement at Deaibvm

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Sparkliur eyes and uni - in; lips tell r h c i r o w n story ofhealth Ind vitality; Clear skin at- tracts. The healthy active irl is usually och he py P°P - Perhaps you are no: really ill and ye: vvhcada day's work is done you are mo to enter info the good time: dmozhu. women eulo . For rho: extra energy‘ you lack, try {ydia B. Pinkham‘: VI]- euble Com and. It (one: up ‘on general he: (h. Gives you more p p- more charm. By actual record, 98 out oi’ 1M women u ,‘,“I: hel s me." Le: l: help you mo. a b0 today.