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Woman ’s Realm

THE CHARLOTTETOWN GUARDIAN

-:- Social and Personal -:- Fashions -:-J___Literature

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A. 1:’ "itiiliil mill. cellars are now placed at lfflCii pinto.

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"I was nervous. No appe- tite and all rundown. Most every da Iliad to lic down for two or tlirec hours. I law one of the booklets advertising Lydia E. Pinkhamb Vegetable Compound so l went to my druggist and bought a bottle. My nerves are lots better and l am now on my feet again doing all my own wot around the farm. The Com- pound has certainly done inc £10m] and can help others."- Mrs. W/‘illic Laflcur, Route 3, Hemmirig/ord, Quebec.

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Dorothy Dix ‘ Letter Box

i Can a Girl lVIake a Happy Marriage Despite l The Opposition of Her In-Laws?-Fo0lish Wife l‘ Who Risks Her Happiness in Order to Be Gay

Dear M!“ mx_I ‘m "lined l° l YWIIB man whose mother and sisters bitterly oppose his marrying me. They say that they will never ‘ accept me as a daughter and sister and have done everything they p05 slbly 6M1 l0 break up our romance. Most of their ob- Jectlun to me is prejudice, but there are differences between them and me in temperament and our points of view. My fiance says they “will get over it,“‘but I know they never wlll. He says further that if neces_ sary he will give up his family for me and g0 away where they cannot bother us. but he insists that will not be necessary. He wants us to be married and live near them and make them like me.

He adores his mother. He would not be happy away from her. Even now, with our romance at its ' ., ‘ height. she influences him more than I do. After we are married and settled down to humdrum life what chance would I h z> h ' . wifpiveshm (I! holds the greater influence over a man, his mother or his 1:. D [we up. the only ma“ I ha“? 9V9!‘ loved before both our “S “m “TWKEd bY dlvvrce and hate. or shall 1 miirrv him trirtm u t we can win over the heavy odds against us? l-fEARfBRCkEil m

Answer:

I 5m like you. Heartbroken, pessimistic about the chances of a girl

“'“° gm m“ h" husband's family an unwelcome bride ever getting [he glad hand from his mother and sisters,

not Ilafhflsmbéen sane. Miracles have happened, but they are so rare it is charges‘? “lint "DOB One being wrought in your individual case. The how ‘ting: Z Inc matter-how good and sweet and tactful you are, noi- l" m’! 0118 suffeilng you are ln enduring their persecutions, nor

how well you cook, nor how thriftily you save your husband's money that they will never perceive any of your virtues, nor give you any credit; gm- being a good wife, v ‘if? i

Fm‘ the thing you have to fight is jealousy, and Jealousy is not amem able l° T9550" 0!‘ lustlce or compassion, and the more you are a good wife and the happier you make your husband and the more devoted he i; to you. the more lhey W111 h!” you for it. Probably the mother and the sisters have no real objection l0 you. They may think you would makc a. fine wife for some other man. And they would feel Just the same way flbwt My other all-l who was going to marry their son and brother.

They can't endure the thought of giving him up and of his caring for ‘some other woman more than he does for them, hence all of their pulling you to pieces and making the most of your faults.

So cast out your fiance's chlmerlcal dream of everything being all ht as soon as you are married.‘ when his mother and sisters will fall upon your breast and make you one of them.

‘ I know of nothing more pitiful than the child-like faith with which -,e. man will marry a girl who is entirely antagonistic in every_ way to his llflmlly and who has been brought up with different ideals and habits, and then cast into the midst of his female relatives and tell them to love each other and be happy together. And then the poor sap ls so surprised and hurt when they pull each other"s hair and claw each others eyes out and come running to him with their complaints of each other!

Inasmuch, however, as you are marrying the young man and not, hls mother and sisters, I do not see any reason why you should give him ilp on that account, but if you have any regard for your future happiness you ivill make it a. condition of the marriage that you go to live as far ‘away from his family as‘ possible.

i At lcastvat first. for in time, and especially when there are children, ‘family antagonism wears itself out and families accept the inevitable and treat the unwelcome member at least with tolerance, if not with enthus- iasm. Especlally will this happen if you are separated far enough not to tread on each others toes, or to stand ln each others sunlight.

I urge this separation for your husbands sake as well as your own, because it breaks a man's heart when the women he loves are in a per- petual wrangle, and when he is called upon to take sides between them. He never understands what it is all about. He never even notices the thous- and little wounds that his mother and sister can subtly deal his wife, and when she trlesto explain them to him he doesn't see why she minds and why she doesn't know that that is Just mother's way or that Mary and Sally don't mean all they say,

As to which has the greater influence over a man, his mother or his wife, it depends upon which ones he cares most for, but also to a large extent upon which ls subtlest and most persistent in her mode of attack upon the other. Most wives can alienate their husbands from their moth- ers if they are men enough to do it, but if a man has the mother-fixation his mother can wrap him around hcr finger and fill his mind so full of criticisms of his wife that hewill find nothing good in her.

But any way you take it, marrying a man whose family are opposed to you is like taking a. dive into a tank of ice water. Think well before you do it. DOROTHY DIX.

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Dear Dorothy Dix-I am a woman of 30, married to a man of 50. He Ls the kindest husband in the world and gives me everything I desire. we have a lovely home and three beautiful children, but my husband likes to spend his evening at a. cozy fireside, children at his knees, his wife sewing opposite, but I am mad for goyety, the glitter of lights, the pulsa- tion of the dance floor. Therefore I often have other escorts while my husband stays at home, and two of these men have become infatuated with me, and more and more I leave my husband and go‘ out with them This is playing with fire because they intrigue me. I love my husband and he adores me, but I cant be happy without excitement. What shall 1 do? MRS. X.

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Answer:

Well, I should advise you to sit down and do a little figuring and see if you think that a few dances and the blare of a jazz band and a. little cheap love-making is worth the price of the respect and affection of a good husband, a. luxurious home and your little children.

Arc they really more enjoyable? Have stolen kisses a. flavor that the ones that belong to you lack? Ara the pleasures that you take at the risk of your good name more precious than the quiet happiness that comes to you from doing your duty as wife and mother?

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Happiness is just a state of mind. 5o is contentment. We can think ourselves happy or miserable. We can lash ourselves into a fury of dis- content by thinking of all the disadvantages of our lot and the things that we would like to have different in it until we get to the point where we feel that we cannot endure our fate another day, or we can accept our fate with calmness and philosophy and be peaceful and serene in any environment.

So my advice to you ls to put all thought of leading a hectic life out of your mind and to settle down info the placid and beautiful llfe that a kind Providence has bestowed upon you. Find your excitement In your family. You will find more thrills in making your husband and children happy than you will in pursuing pleasure for yourself. And take this for a certainty. that there are thousands of men trying to find pleasure in night clubs who envy you your quiet evenings at home, safe at your own

l ll/hat the Fashionable are Wearing Illustrated

Dressmaking Lesson Furnished With Every Pattern By Annebelle Worthington

blue matches the trimming bands of the skirt, and appears again In cuff bands of the long sleeves.

Your little girl will look Just as sweet in Style Ne. 2686.

Dotted swlss, printed batiste, pin dotted voile, linen, organdie, wool challis prints, crepe dc chine and pastel wool Jersey are darling sug- gestlnns.

Size 4 requires Ill-A yards 39-inch with iii yard 39-inch contrasting. Pattern price 15 cents In stamps or coin (coin preferred). Be sure to fill ln size ofipattern. Address Pattern Department. Spend 10c to save $10. How? By ordering a copy of our new Fall and Winter Fashions. It h gives the answer to the often asked questio _ "How does she do it?" For it shows how lo dress up to the rriln- lite at little expense. You can save on every dress and save on the lchlldrens clothes too. That means more and better frocks for "“‘.l and yours. Order your copy now. Just lencldse 10 cents in stamps or coin ‘and mall with your name and ad- dress to Fashion Department. '

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Deafness And Head lloises

Persons suffering from entsrrhal deaf- ness and lit-lid noises will lie glnd to know that this distressing affliction enii usually he successfully lrenteil at home liy nu internal irieilltrlns flint lii many ‘instances luis effected complete relii-f nfter other lrelilineiils linvo failed. Suf- ferers who would N('lll‘f_‘(‘l_\' liolir liavo hail their hi-nrliig restored to iuii-li an \‘Xl(‘lll

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1-4 teaspoon paprika.

1-4 teaspoon dry mustard. 4‘ tablespoons current Jelly. 4 tablespoons lemon Juice. l-2 cup salad oil.

Mix ingredients and beat three minutes with fork. Chill. When ready to serve, beat well and pour over chilled fruit arranged on lettuce leaves.

tlinf the til-k of a watch was plainly uiidiiilile ecveii or t-lght lnelics iiwny from either cnr. Therefore If you know of someone who is troubled rvltli benil noises or "lllllffllill deafness. cut out tliisqilirngraph llllll hnnil lf to flit-iii, anil you liiny have been tho nieniili of ain'- llll.’ some poor sufferer, perhaps from lutnl deafness. The medicine can lie pro- plireil at home and’ is llllltll! as follows: Sncilro from your llrilgglat ll 1 oz. hol- "l! of Piirliiliit (Doiililo Strength). ‘fake

A this home, nnil nilil to ll ‘r3 lii. of lint lng miter nnil' n little sugar. sllr iinitl dissolrcil. ' 'l'likc one tablcspoolifiil fiiur

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Pliriiilnt is slsell lir this wily not only lo redui-o liy loiili- iiolioii llii- liifliiiiinili- llmi llllll tlwillllllfl lii the I-lilslavliiaii ‘Fillies. and Iliiis to equalize the liir pressure on the ilriliii. hilt i0 correct iiiiy excess of nnorolloiiii lii tho iiiiilrlli- our, lllll] the results ll lrlvos arc nearly ul-

"rou stein to flkl/J plenty of in- telligence for a man in your posi- tion," sneer-ed a barrister, cross-ex- amining a witness. “If I wasn't on oath I'd return the compliment," rc-

" l}: . l 1ft". plied the witnesi-Border cmes “"]3:1\|‘r_l‘u|(IPI'll:Ill‘“fllfllnllll:(‘lllllffll iii any Still‘. form should giro this Dteiiarulioll l trial. “Good heavens. look! I'm sure

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that's a shark I can see out there," nNANcuL WIZARDS

exclaimed the girl, excitedly, “You're quite right, darling," said a friend. "That's my landlady."

(Canadian Press)

TQRONTO, Oht. Oct. Zll-He hBS nine In his fondly. this preacher, but; he manages, somehow, to support them all on an income of $2,450, out of which he gives B. tithe of $280; and he reportshlmself not to be in distress.

Probably other ministers do as well and say nothing about it; but this preachers letter- may lnwfesl ll n“ actually stir, the sc-called “nicke1" Christians who sit in the Dewé-

Ths letter appears in the Michi- gan Advocate (Methodist), wherein the anonymous writer tells us what it means to support o. family of nine on his meagre stipend:

"n, mung in school one wants a nickel for a. valentine, so do several others. When one wants a nickel for Sunday school, the others will accept but little less.

“It means nine pairs 0'! 511068; nine pairs of artics or rubbers; 618M- teeri pairs of stockings, at least. some silk and some not; 13 511m °l underwear, and 10 of dliferent types in summer, as in all. N0 ivcnder mother nearly died before we 80l-

‘tha washer. “It means at least 50 handker-

The only time a. wife is considerate and takes a. back seat is on the hon- cymoon-Man in London Court

Dandruff Crust Quickly Dissolved

One after another. a million men and women have made this discovery; that this simple method does dissolve the crust of dandruff; puts the scalp in the pink of condition; makeshalr soft, lustrous, thick and vigorous.

Get n bottle of "Dandcrine" from our dril or toilet. counter today. t a lill. c on your brush each time you dressyour hair. Penetrating to _llc head, its spothin aid soon has an itching; feverish scap cool, comfor- table, callhy. The crust of dandruff simply melts away.

Dandruff is unsightly. It is the cause of grayness. baldness, dry, brittle, dul hair. When the scalp is geedd from this irfiitailtingb sclzlrf,

an erlne soon as f. c ‘r ' condition:aofLglossyJhicld vigagroili‘: time“ 5' week; me beds to Wash ‘or and youthful-looking. as wall as malts; nine hunsfle-‘k V!

_Start o_n Danderine today and end °°°ll 1°71 mm lmimm“ M “he hair WOIIICS. A thirty-five cont bottle eighty-fourth brain cell ‘sets in‘; will demonstrate its mcrlll the“ the" are mo“ go, whoop gab. next meal is coining from.

Believe me, there is nothing so little gay as what is called "the gay life." DORUYHY DIX.

Dear Miss Dix-J have been going with a boy for nearly three years and we are very fond of each other, Although we are not. officially en- gaged, he refuses absolutely to let me date any other boy. Rather than lose him, I have complied with his wishes. but have recently had a. strong lean- ing toward a mild fling, which is perhaps natural, as I am only 18. Do" you think him unreasonable or Just. DUI‘.

Answer:

No man has any right to exercise any control over a woman until after he is married to her. Certainly as long as you are not actually on- gagcd to this boy you have a right to u many dates as you please and you are silly to stand for his dog-ln-tha-manger attitude.

Oo along and have as many dates with other boys as you choose. It

is good for you and good for him, because It enable you to be more sure

that he ls the one you really want. Ion: them all over before you make

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355.; pgnmilg, pads, and unacountable things, nlckels and (limes until you wish you had a, cashier's window to shove lt out at them; Mid Wm "me exceedingly thoughtless folks. Who care not for a family. ccmnleln when the nine yéll at once. Well, well! "A bulk estimate for this fatnily 1n one year requires wearing apparel which in itself with its numerous suits, dresses, overcoats. Sweaters. mittens. can. liar. ew- emmlflli l° $300 and makes a. half-room full when piled “P?

"What did.‘ they cat? 25o bounds 0f beef, 20 of bacon, 45 dozen 9835i 5n poundS or oatmeal. 40 Pounds °l chicken. 1.130 qulrl~i~°l mm" cakes not many, pies less, 350 quarts 0f canned fruits and pickles manufact- ured sit home. to say nothing 0f three barrels or empty com "all"! we pycmiseg annually; 45 bushels of lmtatoes; carrots and vegetables 0i various kinds, about three barrels- "Frcsh fruit runs into $35 a Ye“- at the least outside of 25 bushels of gpples when procurable. Rugs. chairs, furniture iii-c incidentals.

"h, one year, however, this lii-mill’ with only one income rave $2” a year as a tithe out of $2,350 income. Add to this loo callous 0f Swim“ 30 gallons oi oil. $150 worth of re- pairs, and what would have left for insurance, i; you wanted it, or how much wquld you put in the. bank. we lww know how. or we dontknow

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how Brother-ever pulled through." "Could Napoleon do better mari- oeuvring? "Yours "A Preacher Not in Distress." MARITIME RUGBN - IN FULL SWIN

HALIFAX, N.S., Oct. 20-Another Etnglish Rugby season 15 under way and if the games played to date can be taken as a criterion of what ls to come Maritime football followers are due for 5 fine season.