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* Contemplate Marrying Out of Your Social Class

Dear Miss D'ix—A certain man wants to marry me He comes from I very prominent family, is well educated, has always had everything worth while in life——money, cars, travel, and so forth. 1 have only a grammar schol education, come of P131“ people. never had money or social positloii. I don't know one book from another. Know nothing about art, literature or music, and when he tries to discuss any highbrow sub- ject it is all Greek to me. 1 love this man dearly and he must love me or he would not want to marry me, He is always correctuig my faults and trying to teach me the things I should know and is very patient With hit‘. but I wonder, if we marry, if I will be time to make him happy. He is so far my super- ior, poms. Answer:

I think there is very little chance OI happiness for either when ii maxi and Woiiiall ‘ marry out of their class. The Cinderella

motive is romantic and beautiful in fiction and drama, but in real Elle It doesn't work out, riid when the Prince_:iud the Beggar Mind Settle C1-’J\\‘ll to everyday living together they find not only that they NW9 “Di-“mg 1“ common but that each has little ways and habits and tastes that Eek 0“ the others nerves. ‘

Just recall how many stories you have read in the newspapers 81301"- Mis Milliohbucks t-loplng with her chauffeur; some wealthy playboy "194"- rying a waitress at a hot—dog stand; or some college professor selecting for his bride a girl who didn't even know her A. B. «As, and then remember how soon you read all about their divorces. Such mama-zes just Slmlliy don't clit.‘:. ‘

The truth is that nothing is more important in marriage than that It

’ husband and wife should come of the smile sort of people, have the SB-me tastes and habits. That is what makes coiigeniality, And congcniziiity is

- bound to be lacking in the cases where one is superior to the other, either in social standing or culture. In a happy iiiarriiige one does not look up and the (look down. '1 hey see eye to eye.

Of course, very often a highly educated man is swept off of his 190E by a girl's pretty iilC€ or by some physical attructioii that she has for him and he marries her, .l~lll0Wl|lg that she L; igiioraiit and uncultured and that the things that are of most importance to his life are of no interest What- ever to ilZ*l‘,

He thinks it will be enough for her Just to be good to look at, lust V-0 love him, just to be amiable and sweet; but he soon finds that.’ he Wdf"-S more than that in ft ivlfe. He wants a. companion. somebody who can talk his langtiage. some one who has read the latest book and has SOP“- isticated opinions about it. Somobody with whom ne can discuss phil- osophlcal problems. somebody to whom music and art will mean WiLi'v they do to him. And if his wife's whole conversational repertoire runs only to the kitchen and the nursery and back again, and if all she has to talk about is the neighborhood gossip. he is bound to be bored.

The wife ivll‘. be equally bored because she is no more interest-2.1 in the things tlic‘. are vital to her husband than he is interested in the D‘-‘lie of butchers‘ meat and how long the smith boy stayed last night '-\'f1t1'I

he called on the Jones‘ girl. People always sympathize with the superior husband who is married to the commonplace woman, but the W113 IS equally to be piliod. Her husband is no more of a companion to her than she is a cciiipaiiicn to him. Many a woman who has married “above herself.“ as the plli‘2lSC goes, wishes she had married on her own level mid got a husband she could chum with and who would take her to See Mic- key Mouse instead of an O'Neil tragedy.

And, believe me. Doris, you will find being elevated by a, superior nus- band one of the l'll0S2, painful processes in nature. A woman wants L0 feel that she is just all right. to her husband as she is. She doesnt want to know that her tastes and her mancrss and her clothes and her accent and her grammar are all wrong and have him eternally correcting her. so my advice to you is to marry in your or.vn cias-i. It will save you Dom a. lot of grief. DOROTHY DIX.

Dear Dorothy Dix—-Bill and I planned to be married about a year ago and then he lost his job. He was just ready to give up everything and I begged him to go back to school and told him that we could put off our marriage for two or three years. Then I gave myself to him. I lmezv it was \Vl‘5fl_l{, but I ivould have done anything for him. and it did help, It encouraged him and he seemed to love me more than anything in cm: world. Now he is going about with other girls and says that he Wflnls to be with other people, and since we have not the same friends he tecls free to go with his 0\'.'l‘l. He doesn't seam to'i‘ci'.lizc that the reason I have no friends is because of him. People dropped me when they knew I was living with him. If some one had said there wasn't a God, I would have bellevct‘. them before I would have believed that Blil would do this to me. Shall I humble myself and go back to him? I -know I am a fool, but I guess we all are when it comes to the one we love.

BLUE, BLUE, BLUE. Answer: -

No woman is wise in love. but no woman is such a fool as the one who throws her cap over the windmill for a man and who sacrifices her honor. get self-respect and the respect of a.ll who know her for a few lying prom-

es. The most tragic thing about the depression has been the depression it has brought about in the moral standards of women. Literally thou- sands of girls have written rne letters that might almost be carbon copies of yours. They were in love with men who had lost their jobs and couldn't. marry them. The men were blue and encouraged and wept on the rls' shoulders and told them that if they could only have them to com- ott and buck them up that they would have the courage to look for \V0!‘l'.. And because the girls loved them and had the eternal mother instinct, to mcrlsh and help; they gave themselves to the boys who pleadedgwith them and who told them that they would love and honor them all the more, and who swore that they would marry them as soon as they got work,

I have received thousands of letters from these girls teuing me now that the boys they trusted have got work that they say no more about fiiargiage. Often the boys have brutally told the girls the truth that they have no intention of marrying them. They are tired of the girls who have sacrificed so much for them and are lured by fresh faces that they have the charm of novelty and who are more desirable as wives be- cause they have no <tigma of having been mistresses upon them. That. is what has h l to you, my poor child. You have lost your Bill, but it is a was!" .e and effort. to try to whistle him back.

‘ DORUITIY DIX.

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Richard le G-aJlienne'la back,‘ “From a. Paris Garret." which was published on April 3rd, has been called a guide. story, history, all in one. It merits all or any one of the three qualifications, and besides. is written in a charming, lesurely manner which privileges us “to move with ii. poe: down those old haunted streets." .

Richard le Gallienne is a great‘ lover of Paris, in part.cular of old‘ Paris, the city of Learnng. where on the Left Bank he has his apart- I merit, seven floors up, with a bound- 1 less view of Paris rcofs, towers} and domcs—-“. these old roofs invigorate mc, coii:ta.ntly stirring my imagination , the expert-I mental Present, the dreamlig. pro-l phetic Future. are suiely made all.’ the more sgnificant for us as we: read in the book 0.’ Liu- l’.i.~l, and, it is becziu e Paris has so vivi(i’y ll\'i‘(‘l its past, continues so viv.dly to live, its present, and is so vivicl‘y cn-‘ gagsd in dreaming its future. that it is the most significant city in the worId—the city most saturat- cd with human history and most animated by human aspirations.

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Teacher—Give me a definition of "artistic harmony."

Jimrny—-A freckled-face girl with a polka.-dot dress leldlfll 1 alraffe.

Perhaps there is no spot on the earth where Past, Present and Future so drainatioally meet as they do at those ‘dirty old ruins’ in the Boulevard szifn‘.—Miciicl.”

Living in touch with Lil»; ever present and living Fast is ll stim- ulating experience to Rcliard lc Galllenne, and fl(ld('d to tlis is the appeal of the great variety of the charms of Paris. one of the most unexpected is the proximity of elemental wlldiuxss. and supc-r-so- phlsticatlon; the wild bear is still hunted in the still dense forests on the very ouisk rtx of Paris,

Mr. Le Gallienno tells us that—- “Prcrba.bly the best v.ew of Notre- Dame and the Cite gciierally, at anchor there like a boat between the two arms of the Seine, is that from the Pont du Currousel, as one cro&cs over to or from the Louvre—and surely it is one of the loveliest views in the world. one ha; but to sland there and lot it sink in, and, if susceptible at all to such impressions. one wlil sure- ly sec-, drezirriirig there the roniantic soul of France in its _niysiic deli- cate strcngtli. as one will flnd it in no book or in no other sym’:)ol.“— Yet in hi; bo:k Mr. Le Galllennc by means of shor; chapters with, fascinating liczidlngs gives LL; vstas‘ of picturesque and historic Paris and glimpses of its "romantic zoul" as no one else has done. His book is alive willi the beluty. the his-1 tory. and the h:mely incizicnts which make Paris “the most hu-; man city in the world." J

Richard le Galiicnncs daughter. Eva 1e Galicniir, who gave up {in assured carezr 0: it star to estab- lish fl. C'v’c Repertory Theatre in New York in 1926, has attained remarkafbie success botii as an artist and as .a director, and has produced a great number of great plays, many of which were memor- able productions in the American

Theatre world.

M15 Le Gallienne has. through the press, made a suggestion for a National Theatre for—"the creation of a drama centre comprising a large theatre. a small theatre, in free training school for future workers and builders 0: this art. a library devoted to books connected with all its pl’iB.se.’, a gal‘ery where exhibitions of things rc‘evant could be given free—in short. a complete producing unit of the highest type. such as exists in many European countries. notably Russia. Germany and even little Denmark"—.so that the American people would pos ess a great repertory theatre of their own as a standard of excellence by which they could Judge dram- atic art.

Eva. Le Cialllenne is at present playing the leading role in “Love For Love." a revised version of Willla.m Congreves Restoration Comedy. The play is being tried out in a theatre in Connecticut.

Continued from last week's syn- opsis of "Light opera and Musical 0omedy"——Mr. Mcspadden in his preface to French O-pera. notes that the French school of Ught. Opera was directly influenced by that of Italy but had more abundant ex- amples. At the beginning of the seventeenth century Italian operas were popular with the French court, but it remained for Mon- aizny (1729-1817) to establish ii native school of opera Comique or Opera Bouife. He produced a great number of French musical farces in which he skilfully blended the best of both Italy and France.

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pours who have made modem lllrenoh Opera Comique, what it is, and whose works serve to illustrate that "French opera has preserv- ed an admirable balance between the grave and the gay."

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‘Saint George, has appointed the

The Princess Royal vial-ted: Not- tlneham on Saturday to inlpect the county detachment: of the British Red Cross society and to present. them with new oolourii. The Priricess was the guest of the Duke and Duchess of Portland at Welbeczs Abbey for the week-end.

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The King, as sovereign and Chief or the order of st. Michael and

Earl of Athlone, Chancellor of the Order, to be Grand Master. Lord Wtlingdoii becomes Chancellor in succession to Lord Atlilone.

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Eleven Canadians will be pre- sented at the aftempon receptions to be given by the King at Buck. gizigham Palace on July 21 and Ju‘y

They are as follows: Mrs. Regin- ald and Miss Daphne Arkell of Vancouver; Miss Rose Ann launch and Miss Marjorie Judd, of Vic- toria: Miss Dorothea and Miss Helen Campbell 0’ Toronto; Mrs. Guy Sinionds and Miss Ruth Tay- lor. of Kingston, oint,.; M155 Max. ine Munroe, of Regina; Mrs. Karl McCullagh, of Camp Borden, O'nt.. and Miss Jocelyn Plummet-, of York Mills, Ont. These two after- noon receptloxis take the place of the Royal Courts, cancelled on ac- count of the death of King George. They are intended as an opportun- ity for women to be presented to the King who would ordinarily have been presented at the courts. Women will be able to wear colored] gowns. as the period of full court inouriiiiig ends July 20. 11: is un- derstood that the debutantes will pass before the King, making their bovvs, as a: the court.

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Mrs. Buchazi, mother of Lord Twcedsmuir, has returned in Eng. land. The Governor-Generals mo- iher came to Canada about a month ago, and has made many friends by her simple, charming manner. Mrs. Buchan has stayed with Lord and Lady Tweedsmulr at the Cita- do‘, in Quebec since the vice-Regal party went. there from Ottawa. Lady Tvvecdsmuirs mother, Hon. Mrs. N. Grosvenor, has arrived from lmgland and is staying with Their Exccllencles at the Citadel.

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Mrs. W. D. Herrldge. Ottawa, who is spciidzng some time in Vancouver with her bl'o‘.hcr, Rt Hon. R. B Eznnctt, was the gue.t of honor at an informal dinner given by Mrs. J. A. Clfllk. of that city.

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Lieuteiiant G-overiior and Mrs. "I)cBlois entertained at an enjoy- rblo picnic and swimming party Saturday aftcrncon at their sum- mcr residence, “I..:ike\vood-by-tlie-

Miss Mary Gordon Hughes and Mr. Allan MacMlllan motored to Parrsboro over the week end to meet Miss mibins of New York. who will be the guest of Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Maclldlllan at their summer home. 1nkerman_

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Miss Elizabeth Maocabe of Brook- llne, Mass, is the guest of her aunt, Mrs. McLi.u:e and Mr.‘ W. Chester 8. Mcliure at Bcnnahln- ley. Miss Maccabe accompanied heraunt,Mrs. Nicholas W. COUSGM and Miss Olive cousens as far as Saint John, who are leaviiig'on a week's cruise on the St. John.

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Miss Marjorie Hcll, ent.erta.lned Wednesday at the tea hour in honor of Miss Margaret Hogan.

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The King was interested in a new method of grouping flowers which he saw when he visited the Chel ea. Flower Show. The flowers are actually framed. a EFOUP 0‘ summer flowers being placed with- in a wooden frame and made into a real flower picture. His Majesty was also interested in the novelty of framing flower prints in white metal to go with. o‘fl furniture.

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,Mrs. Viney Tlmnions and daught- er, Miss Jean Timmons, of Min- neapons, Minnesota, arrived Friday evening to spend the summer with Mr. and Mrs. John B. Andrew at Belmont lodge.

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The many Lrlends or Miss Bogus and Miss Dixon, Toronto, are glad to welcome them back to Char‘.otte- town for the summer months.

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The forthcoming marriage of Canon Malone and Miss Hegi-in is the occasion of many parties. both in-door and out—door.

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The tea hosleses at the golf links this afternoon will be Mrs. Woodman, Mrs W. A. Mcuiren, Mrs. w, G. s. McLure, Miss Dena

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Miss Ll'lan McKenzie, Mrs. will Brehaut, Miss Effie Brehiiut. Miss Muriel Weeks left by car Satur- day on a motor trip through north- ern New Brunswick and the White Mount:i.ns.

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Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Hughes, Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Webster left Saturday on ii motor trip to‘C8l>¢

Breton where the gentlemen will do some salmon fishing. 0 . . Miss Norma Jam‘.e.on, R.N.. 0-’

Sherrbocke, Quebec. arrived home Thursday night. to spend her vac- ation with her ‘parents. Mr. and Mrs. J. G. Jamleson.

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Ser.“ n honor of the Lt. Commander and ofllccrs and Gtntlcmen Cadets or '.he l-l.M.C.s. Champlain and! Saguenny naval shps. Tea was,‘ served on the verzuidah while musici was rendered by Blanchard's Orch-i e tra. . . .

Rev. Mr. H. D Raymond‘ and Mrs. Raymond leave Monday on a holiday vis t to Nova scotia.

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Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd D. Murray were at home to the members of the stall of the Bank of Nova: Scotla, at their delightful summer C0"»8IZe. Keppoch, yesterday after- ncoii, on the occasion of the pres- entation of a wedding gift to Miss Hogan, who is scan to be one of the principals in a happy event.

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Mr. and Mrs. Alec Scott have as their guest Mrs. W. Bruce Muir. New York, who is being cor- cllaiiy welcomed by many old friends.

lVLany friends will regret to hear that Mr and Mrs, R. V. Long. worth are patients in the P. E. I. Hospital.

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The sympathy of ii. host, of friends 80 out to Dr. Re:d and Bill in their

great loss.

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Mrs. Frank Chauvaiii, Montreal, find two 50118. are spending the summer with her parents, chief

Justice and Mrs. Mathleson. . . .

Di‘. John‘!-Iowle, medical mu. sionary of Jovbot, India, arrived Tuesday night to spend some time Wm! his Wlffi. who is visiting her mother, Mrs. G. E. Henderson.

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Mr. and Mrs. William Munro and young daughter, Heather, ar- rlved this week to spend some time at Cavendish where they have taken a cottage. Mrs. Munroe was formerly Miss Elinor Deals.

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Miss Kathleen Logan, Halifax, is the guest of Mrs, James Paton, Prince street.

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Miss Charlotte Ann Morey, and M!!! Helm Bodses. of Winchester, Maas., are the guests of Mrs. Prank Dean at her summer cottage, Brighton shore.

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Mrs. J. M’. Prowet and son. Mu- Mr Anthony Prower. Montreal. have arrived in Oliatlotulown to spend several weeks. -

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Mr. liltirle Ripley, mange, g1_ the Royal Bank of Canada at Hun- ter River. Iccoiivpanled by Mrs. Bibles’ and young son Gordon, are WWW today on a holiday ..motor through Nova acme. ,. .

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.311: an unnamed New 23‘...- arrivid lionirthla wed'on a ran ..to her miiai'...Ilt. John Iloxnaa.

Mr. and Mrs. Palmer Burgess. Ottawa. have arrived at Cavendish mach to spend several weeks.

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Mrs E, C. Harri», Wallace. N. S.. tef‘. on return home after vls.tlng her sister, Mrs. Frank Auld, Cove Head.

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Mrs. Hope Johnston of Ca‘gary and young son are the welcome guests of Mrs. Johnston's mother, Mrs. Richard Farquharson, Upper Priitce Street.

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Mis. Hugh of the P.W.C stafl left Saturday for Cambridge, where she wll‘. take a summer course at Harvard.