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oaclzmnaua. 1931

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Dorothy Dix Letter Box A

Does a True Friend Lend Money Whether 01'

Not it is Needed?-(‘.an a Married ~ Woman Have Innocent Fllrtations T With Men?

Dear Miss Dix-Have my friends the right to impoa.‘ 0n n19?

now when I refuse they accuse rnc of not b91118 true friend. JEAN-

Answer: There 1s no truer proverb. Jean" "m" l“ °l one that warns us that when we lend to a frleh

i thats all. And there is no s ing to collect the money Y0" ha" m ‘hem

have in some time of need.

, , t of experience. Lend John $50 and l" menbod’ h“ hiﬁlgtsnsoylon ever mention the mutter to him again. will consider you atS l we and H he breaks a spring he Wm never “k8 und Tom ilour mirfdnhlm a bill ior the repairs. I once knew a woman you again yW l ‘ g who lent some YOUHB lfliilld-‘h “ho “l” who had neither money nor furniture. a lot o

h w“ "t","‘f"'“°,,e,€,,:y,:;f,,g 1; incl; ngaln and consider that she haven‘ 01'8"" ‘ ‘ ’

somehow defrauded them in wantini; hﬂ’ 0W“-

Perhaps the reason for this is because so many Pfilllle "Qard "lend"

hi as onlv a graft. They have no concvlltlo" 0! frlmdshlp “a ‘m m” Selig-sh affection which asks nothing in return but affection and oomlmh" :ohshlp. which gives rather than takes, and which ﬁnds its happiness 1h

adding to the happiness of another.

That kind of friendship, the friendship that comes to us 0P6“- handed in our hour of need. that POMS Out "5 sympﬂlhy “PM "5 and rejoices and weeps with us: thﬂt 81%‘ "5 “"31"” and spiritual Sub’ stance, is one of the most beautiful and satisfying relationships in ths "world. None of us have lived in vain if we have that kind of friend. None of us can ever be lonely if we are blessed with friendship like that.

But that sort or friendship is far different from the greedy, grasping friendship that makes of our friendship stool where with to “work' us. The friendship that takes advantage of our affection, that makes it hard to say "no" to favors asked of us, that imposes upon us because we can- not defend ourselves from our friends as we can from our enemies.

Who among us escape these dead-beat friends? Who has not had ‘experience of the friendsvwho not only borrow money which they never repay but who borrow everything else you possess? Who borrow your new book before you have time to read it and never return -it. Who bor- row your new gown and soil it. Who borrow your car and send it back n wreck. Who borrow your travelin gbags and scuff them up, and who criticize you for being pernickity when you don't seem overjoyed at hav- ing cherished possessions mined.

And who has not had the pestiferous friends who make a free hotel of your house and descend upon you. bag and baggage, for an indeﬁnite stay whenever they feel like it, and who, never consult your convenience.

The brand of friendship that is equivalent to free board and lodging is, who does!“ pretend to mm at ‘east. that she 1s m love with mm and at least. open to suspicion, but all of us have our quota oi’ those who dis- who does!" my m. his attention by permitting fammarmes_

man who has a drop of red blood in his veins likes to think of his wifc Fan‘ w come w the my to a” the new plays or m!“ a“ Opcnmo“ m‘ do being pawed over by other men or of her being so indifferent to him that.

‘cover how much they love us and how they yearn to see us whenever they

some shopping or to spend a few weeks in the country or go down South in the winter.

Then there is the friendship whose principal function consists in passing the buck. These are the friends who make you do their enter-

‘taining for them by bringing some guest of theirs to your dinner party or

your reception or who make you hunt up jobs for their sons or their bro- (hers or their cousins or what not.

l This Plftlclllﬂl’ Vﬂflety 01’ friend pays off his own score of indebted- iless by giving people to whom he or she is indebted letters of introduction to you and asking you to show them courtesles while they are in your

- town, and he or she is not even grateful to you for spending your time

and money in taking people around whom you never saw before and

_ (whom you hope to heaven you will never see again.

It is because such crimes are committed in the name of friendship that a. cynic onze said that if God would protect him from his friends he would protect himself from his enemies. DOROTHY DIX.

I O I I l I

Dear Miss Dix—I am married to a man who is the best and kindest husband a woman ever had, a wonderful provider, very anxious in every way to make me happy. But I am younger than he is, very attractive, and glory in a little harmless ﬂirtation and like to go out with other men and a wild crowd. My husband is willing to take me to places of amuse-

. . ment, but I can't flirt or do the things I want to do when he is around.

Is he right in ebieetins to my coins out with other men and to such parties? I want to do right, but hate to sacriﬁce too much. We are on the verge of a separation and I want to go to a dance and he threatens to leavc me if I do. BUTTERFLY,

llinswer:

My 49H!‘ child, there is no such thing as an innocent ﬂirtation for ‘n married woman. A girl forfeits her right to play at love when she gets married. A monopoly on her affections and her interests is what‘ her husband pays for when he assumes her support, and unless she is faith- lul to him she isn't playing fair with him,

R do u if than were no: a [urn in shs - whole universal Because is ; is sterilised. 1 Dorothy Brand Evapor- "lbd Milk is urs, ﬁch, cow's milk. so it when- ever mill: is required.

Woman 's Realm

Cer- tain of them continually borrow money from me that they never repay. I find that much of this borrowed money is used to entertain others. and I have gone without things myself to giva them the money they wasted. At ﬁrst I accommodated them because I felt I couldn't hurt their TPBUHKII. and

we lose both our money and our friend. Why P90- ple should resent paying a debt to a friend lhﬂfe than they do to a stranger, or 1141115148? "5 i‘ 1°55 binding obligation, no one knows. They simply do. urer way 0f alienatinﬂ’ friends ma“ by “l”

just starting to housekeePlnE and f antique furniture which d this for seven years, but to this clay they

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married women it isn't tlddledewinks.

MomingSmiI?

Macpherson was changing his boarding-house. and when he arriv- ed at the new one the landlady showed him to his room.

“Ihere you are, sir," she said, proudly, "that's your room."

"Looks comfortable,’ 531d M“- pherson.

"Yes," went on the woman, "most people admit I've made them com- fortable here. I've always had o gift for doing that."

“Is that so? “asked Macpherson. a doubtfully. "Weel, ye needmy ex- pect one frae me." '

3 For 77w Cook l

PRUNE WHIP

Simmer half a pound of thin. skinned prunesl which have been soaked over night in water with a little grated lemon peel and juice. Add sugar to suit the taste and cook until prunes are tender. Cool, stone and rub prune meat through a sieve. Beat one cup of whipping cream until stiff and fold in prune puree, then fold in more sugar if

necessary. Seton ice. This mousse is delicious. Yield: Six servings.

llerc nrc two women who have

in England recently. and at tho RIGHT is Mrs. Harper

fIllST WOMAN SHERIFF-COUNCILLOR. IN ENGLAND

At the LEFT la the lady mayoress of Nottingham

councillor of Nottingham. the first woman to be so honored.

ﬁgured prominently in public affairs

who was recently elected sheriff-

‘ Presentation

of Kensington.

On Monday evening, Nov. 30th. a congregation of the Presbyterian Church assembled to do honor and say farewell to Rev. Dr. Ashdown. The Sunday School Superintendent Mr. Thos. L. Ramsay presided, and after devotional exrocises by Rev.

‘ Dr. Jishdown e. program by the

choir with Miss Olive Dalzell, solo- I ist. | The following address was read by Mr. James F. Profitt. accom- panied by a“ purse Dresonted by the ‘Treasurer Mr. John McEwen. Dr. Ashdown replied in appropriate terms thanking the people for their

and urging them to seek the olorv‘

of God in all their future efforts H:

was then spent; in the Sunday School room where the ladies of the congregation served refresh- ments.

ADDRESS

From the Kensington Presbyter- ian Church, Prince Edward Island.

To the Rev. Chas. R. Ashdown. B. A., Ph. D.

Dear Dr. Ashdown,—At the close

church. we desire, as a congregation

to express our appreciation of your

ter in this locality has gained the approval of many 5nd in the corn-

Presentatlon to Rev. Dr. Ashdown!

many kindnessea which had made i _ his work in Kenslngton p, pleasure.

a congregation. A happy social hour l

of your labours of this year in our_

‘efforts in connection with the first Your work as a man and a m1nis- lcdemqtinn o1 Remembrance Day in

-'- Social and Personal -:- Fashions -'--'- l-‘WLQKEE...

a Etiquette

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Q. Should the phrase "Pleased m meet you" be used when acknow- leddlhg lntroductio r

A. No; this is navel-heard among persons of breeding.

Q- What is the best form o! eu~ Efﬂving on wedding rings?

A. The‘ date And the initials of the bride and groom.

Q. Where should the napkins be placed at a. formal dinner?

A. On the service plate. ‘

Q. How many courses are servo; at luncheon?

A. Luncheon is limited to n" courses, and four are sufficient.

munity at large we in this church trust that the Master also may ily- “W911 dime!" ‘ judgment of enoouragment that you Your sermons have been lnWlll-ihave exhibited during the whole 881115. 11831111 "Id true to the IOE-iyear in a difficult situation. Del o! J68"! Chflit- You have 8h0Wn= Therefore in recognition of your that you have the welfare of thﬂﬁrglued service, W8 “k you to l,” church and the Mbsters KlIlIdOmicepﬂ m, u-wmpanylna gm u m ﬁtllimzagtuxbgayyglolzntiiinterlempgxe: Zxpressiog of the loyalty of this - °l18fexa on. meeting and yarious organizations In bidding you farewell may we of the Churchs work. gay, u“; wherever W“ m" "b0! In the community life your kind- m the memo,’ we Wm almysgwnch ly interest in tho social life of the ygur can" Wm, mun”, m.“ voune DBODIe and sympathy to the God's richest blessings upon you, bereaved have appealed to all class- and b6 glad to welcome you bu} es. The returned men and their re- whmever God's pmvmenc, ‘rm

shown the same 300d spirit and

;latives will over remember your mm, work and personality in our midst.

Wishing you grace, peace in the Lord.

Slkned on behalf of the congre- gation.

mercy. and

the Town of Kensingtorl. In taking leave of us you have

Are you using a dull shade of F rouge? Bri hten up with a new shade I -—1 shade that gives the glow of youth I and transforms .1 dull dreary color into ' a radiant sparilingcompicxion.

Chm” Pbmrcll" O“‘““”l°' vim! combination dinner, the main dish if you are a brunette. ii you are I

blonde if)’ lmcdium shade. A shade M which “lay be anything from B" for each type of beauty Will be found .one~pot recipe to an oven or grilil at your favorite toxic: goods cnunfel’. ooncruon including meat, grggnl mﬂPmkgn “w”; Pompmn Rouge and starchy vegetables and desserhl ' l |

lull cooked at the some time. over,‘

II lthc one heat unit, and served as a. innit, too.

PRODUCTS FOR BEAUTY Whether the tendency is due;

more to s cultivated taste for'

- blended flavors than to the modem;

For family consulnPUQ". the“? 15v

Of course, when you speak of an innocent flirtation you mean that i ou are not going to be really unfaithful to your husband. But if you l irt at all, you are breaking the spirit, lf not the letter, of your marriage ow, and you know very well that when men play the love game with i, It is cut-throat poker.

Furthermore. no man ﬂirts with a woman who doesn't lead him on.

And no

his love and attentions do not suffice her.

Believe mc, no woman could do a more foolish thing than you are doing, because you are throwing away a. good home and a good husband and a good living for the sake of a little spurious love-making and a few wild ‘parties. Consider long and well before you do it, and ask yourself what of the future. Will any of these mc-n that you are ﬂirting with marry you when your husband divorces you? Is there any one oi’ them who will giva you a better living or be kinder to you than your husband is? Would any one of them let you run wild with other men if you wcrc ‘his wife? -

Or will you have to go back to work and earn your own living? Y And what will become of you when your beauty fades, when you are no longer young and attractive to men? Don't you think then that you would re- pent in bitterness and tears the mistake you made in sacriﬁcing your good home and your good husband for a little ulhoopce?

When a woman marries she should substitute a new series oi’ inter- ests for the old ones. and my advice to you is to do that. Cut out the wild par-tics and settle down to domesticity. Have a baby. That will

run iiiiliﬂiii’

just lit Prvwlt- 1i "DEW l" the than cuts in half the work of serv-

l simple salad, and for dessert a. hot

“ ‘ cream.

cry for speed and "efficiency" 15 hard to determine. But every thoughtful home maker is able to

mate service which not only brings variation to home tables, but more

ing and washing dishes.

Among these meals are such selections as noodles, cooked first, drained and baked with tomato sauce, mushrooms and strips of bacon. This combination gem to the table in its pretty glass or porcelain baking dish, garnished with parsley. With it is served a

sugary baked pear or apple with

A second one-pot dinner is the veal or lamb pie, cooked with all sorts of vegetables and a top crust of biscuit dough, lightly browned. These pies can be made very dainty served in individual mmekins or small deepwlish pie plates._

So far as nicely goes, we are not as they say, getting back to first principles of the caveman. For today’s one-dish dinners ‘are man- aged with much neltneas and an appctizing flair. But in simplicity and the wholesome habit. of letting various ingredients cook in their blended Juices, the modem adapt- ation hns all the good points of its carly ancestors.

CLINTON SCHOOL

Honor Roll for the month of Nov- ember.

Grade X.-l, Grace Whitehead; 2. Ruth Heanoy and Jennie MacKay, (equal); 3, mlriel fl-Ieaney.

Grade IX-i, Thomas Sullivan.

Grade VII.-1, Elva Pickering: 2, Elmer Somers; S, Ohristene Paynter.

Grade VI.—l, Mable Sullivan; 2. Beth O'Connor; 3, Ivan Pickering.

give you plenty to think about and to enjoy. DOROTHY DIX.

Pimples .on Face Itched and Burned. Healed by Cuiicura.

"l was troubled with pimples and blackheads on my face. The pim. ias were large and red and some of them fostered and scaled over. hey itched and burned, causing me to scratch, and prevented mo

from sleeping. The trouble lasted four or ﬁve weeks and caused disﬁgurement. .

"I tried many different remedial but without success. I began using Cuticura Soap and Ointment and was completely heeled after using two cakes of Cutlcura Soap and one box of Cuticura Ointment." (Signed) Frank H. Hadley, R. R. 1, Milton, Ont.

25c. Ointment 25 and 50c. Tnlcum 5c. Sold everywhere. Sample each mg [Bl Canadian Depot: J. T. Walt Campus! Limited. Montreal.

MR. AND MRS.

l Virginia O'Connor.

Grade V.--i, Irena Pickering; 2,

i Grade 1v.-1, Edith Whitehead: a, George Pickering; 8, Hillard Wood- side. .

I Grade III.—l, Lorna Warren; 2,

‘Katherine Pickering; 3, Jackie O'Connor.

Grade 11-1, Lois Whitehead; I, Ivan Somsra: B, Dorothy Somers.

Grade I. (SrJ-I, Kathleen O'Con- nor. "' '

Grade I. (JrJ-I, Reggie Warren. " feroantsga o! attendance 90.0%.

see several reasons for this lnti- '

I There is one word to remem- bcr if you would do washing cﬂi- clently. The word is "suds?! Richer suds make all the differ- ence in the world in washing. They save your strength and speed your work.

Soap cxpcrta have learned this, and now, the makers of Ivory Soap bring you Oxydol, a new- typc soap with marvelous suds- ing power.

Women everywhere are ﬁnd- ing Oxydol a wonderful aid to easier washing and hwscwork.

Oxydol is diiTercnt from other soaps. It is supercharged (with pure, rich soap) for 50% more suds. 'I'hat’a why it instantly yields its live, rich suds which outwash and outlast all others.

Soap-wise women hoose flw soap that does most work

Overworked women rejoice at the

FASTER-WDRKING NEW Lightens housework-speeds washing-gives whiter washings

relief it brings

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sway to watery suds which that's because your clothes are ‘

have no cleansing power. ‘ really damn‘. ‘ ‘ remember. tins, whenever 50mm hard "m," you buy soap, it a suds-not soap . » . . , Oxydol gives the same rich, live, I-yoummauypaylngfor‘ when exha suds inlmrd or soft water, ~. _

you buy Oxydol you are getting Amid w’. t th ha‘ ~ the gmutest “d” bargain ever waterllfliarfllgrfedethfanmilfu: you v U

omalzflgmdaﬁ l mdhnintho putaoiledclothcaordilahesintoit. washtub, the dirt falls hack too— an“ for di"h“"°'"i°' on hands too

hack to fasten itself right in your

clothes. How many gray, atrcaky Dirty dishesmpotlesaly bright

washings acocaused by this? and clean in a ﬂash with rich _ Oxydol suds. Just dip, then scald, Sea" "hm" "We then drain, and dry with...“ wt,»

ingyif you prefer. There will be no. clinging ﬁlm.

There is no need for tiresome rubbing when you wash in rich

Oxydol docs more of the hard work for you than any soap you've ever used-it saves you time and energy.

Weak, old-type soaps can’t get things really clean because Qthoy soon fizzle

-Isla M. Weiss, Teacher.

Joe is Just a Little Bit Previous

THE C (DMPLETE IIIIUSEIIIILD SOAP

IADB BY THE IAKER! OI IVOIY IOAP

Oxydol suds. For Oxydol soaks And your hands will be left 0o clothes snowy white. Its richer smooth and pleasant that you'll suds keep until every know it’s' the right soap for even

last particle of dirt is routed. your most delicate clothes. And how white and swcet- Mothcrsﬁnd that Oxydolwsah- smelling everything comes out—- cs children's and babies’ clothes dainﬁex, softer, and whiter. ' Try Oxydoi today. It's l wonderful household help- Mum SUBS er. Ask your grocer for the

big-sized orange and blue package. Ymfll thank the _ day you less-nod its name.

Procter s. Gamble g, Toronto. Ont.

GUARANTEE

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